love me tender or nasty

[jamper1957]

First Iam new here so hello everyone. What sets you off the best tender loving or aggressive sex? I love both but have to admit I do get off harder with aggressive sex. What works better for you?

 

[saustin5432]

I'm definitely more of a tender guy. I like it long, hot, and wet. Peaks and valleys, almost getting there then backing off. Passionate loving and powerful fucking. If it's too aggressive, I just cum and it's all over.

 

[CuttingEdge]

We have 4 young children so for my wife and I, quickies are about all we get. Granted those can go either way, and as a woman that likes it rough sometimes, I have the liberty to do down and dirty sex...and sometimes do!

But a few times a year we are alone for the night and I try to be romantic so that she is repaid for the "Mom...I need" calls she gets from the kids every 20 minutes. By this I mean a bubble bath with wine, a towel warmed in the dryer for when she gets out, a long food rub, dinner cooked for her while I am naked while she reads a erotic story I wrote specifically for her, and while I do not masturbate because I feels it takes away from our marriage, on these occasions I do; just a few hours before this all transpires so I can last a wee bit longer. In that respect, that romantic sex is savored since it happens but a few times per year.

 

[peejay4u]

I believe there is a time and place for both.

 

[beingtrue2me]

I believe there is a time and place for both.

Agreed but the funny thing is, for me anyway, it almost never switches between the two until my current need is met. If I'm almost prowling for an aggressive lover, tender sex no matter how passionate just isn't what I want. Same thing is true when I want a man to really take his time and be attentive I simply am not in the mood to have my face shoved into a pillow.

 

[ChefLife24]

First Iam new here so hello everyone. What sets you off the best tender loving or aggressive sex? I love both but have to admit I do get off harder with aggressive sex. What works better for you?

I'm all for aggressive & rough.

 

[CharityLynn]

First Iam new here so hello everyone. What sets you off the best tender loving or aggressive sex? I love both but have to admit I do get off harder with aggressive sex. What works better for you?

Hard and rough. Though I like it to go for a while which isn't usually the case with hard and rough if it's one guy.

 

[Funnbrandy]

Rough

A little of both is always nice, but like the old saying goes, "treat me like a princess....fuck me like a whore", lol.

 

[Arianne6947]

A little of both is always nice, but like the old saying goes, "treat me like a princess....fuck me like a whore", lol.

I agree treat me great but when it's time for sex use and abused is wonderful

 

[dami_gucci]

aggressive hands down

I do have my limits, im not much of an anal girl (but there has been a few special occasions) and when im giving head, im in control, so im not super big into choking and gagging...

but when it comes to just straight up sex, bent over, hard poundings and lots of dirty talk and name calling is preferred. lol

 

[EggoWaffle]

aggressive hands down

I do have my limits, im not much of an anal girl (but there has been a few special occasions) and when im giving head, im in control, so im not super big into choking and gagging...

but when it comes to just straight up sex, bent over, hard poundings and lots of dirty talk and name calling is preferred. lol

 

[dami_gucci]

 

[carlsnake]

I like both. My wife lets me know which she wants, and I am happy to do whatever pleases her. Her orgasms are more intense with rough sex, but that may be because she starts out in a sexier mood.

 

[30bandits]

aggressive hands down

I do have my limits, im not much of an anal girl (but there has been a few special occasions) and when im giving head, im in control, so im not super big into choking and gagging...

but when it comes to just straight up sex, bent over, hard poundings and lots of dirty talk and name calling is preferred. lol

where have you been all my life????

 

[dami_gucci]

where have you been all my life????

lolol around

 

[roc23]

Love her tender outside the bedroom. By that I mean just treat her right,with love and respect and all that.

But inside the bedroom I like it as aggressive as it can get. Slowly build up to the ass slapping,hair pulling,name calling,neck kissing,light choking kind of fucking.

 

[jamper1957]

Thank you all for responding. I like most have said already think you treat your lady like a queen out of bed.I find that both myself and my lady cum much hard with aggressive nasty sex.

 

[DJFaninTN]

you're the kind of woman I could get behind ... and of course tell you some very dirty thoughts and desires

aggressive hands down

I do have my limits, im not much of an anal girl (but there has been a few special occasions) and when im giving head, im in control, so im not super big into choking and gagging...

but when it comes to just straight up sex, bent over, hard poundings and lots of dirty talk and name calling is preferred. lol

 

[geeky1017924]

rough or tender

hummm ...
for me it depends on my mood but most of the time i like my sex Rough

 

[BadGirl420]

I love both! Hot, passionate, slow, lovemaking. And a raw, horny, pounding, fuck session. But, I get turned on more by the rough sex.

 

[jamper1957]

looking like the rough riders have the edge so far. Thanks everyone for posting.

 

[brave6]

Nice Limits

aggressive hands down

I do have my limits, im not much of an anal girl (but there has been a few special occasions) and when im giving head, im in control, so im not super big into choking and gagging...

but when it comes to just straight up sex, bent over, hard poundings and lots of dirty talk and name calling is preferred. lol

 

[screwher]

My wife

My wife loves sex slow and tender...at first. As we go I increase the intensity until she's letting neighbors know what we're doing.

 

[scsinclair]

My wife and I enjoy both, though she tends to be a little shy even with me, so things only get rougher if it's been a while or a little alcohol is involved.

I've been with girls in the past, however, who were much more into nasty, hard sex than the soft, tender variety. With those women, it was as much about the verbal aspect as it was the physical pounding - lots of filthy names and vulgar interplay, with the added element (with one I shared an apartment with) of intentionally making enough noise that the neighbors would hear.

 

[CuttingEdge]

My wife is both, but when she wants one or the other, it is REALLY to the extreme. Rough...it involves bondage, choking, spanking and really hard pounding. But on the slow and tender days, a foot rub is what she is after.

It happens a few times a year, but we'll take out her wedding dress, put it on and make love to her wearing it. That is good for the marriage...in part because she is much smaller now then when we wed 5 years ago!