Love for an older woman

[Oo_Bugsy]

We met online almost 2 years ago now. Been very close ever since then, never had an arguement.

We both recently admitted feelings for eachother. Problem for me is, she is twice my age and has kids.

I do feel alot for this woman and would love nothing more than to be with her. But doesnt come without its complications. Like how to tell my parents (if our relationship does carry on), what her kids will think, etc.

Any advice please?

 

[WestMich69]

Go for it,

I did the same, several years ago, and it worked fine. The problems were very easy to solve.

 

[VampGirl]

my first girlfriend was over 20 years older then me and was a wonderful person. just enjoy the time you ahve with eachother don't stress.

 

[marriedbiguynw]

I was 15, My first time was with a woman who was 52, I have NEVER EVER looked back, I will never go for anyone under 45 again ( I have in the past)

 

[Etoile]

My wife is 12 years older than me; we've been together over 10 years. There were some ruffled feathers at first among both our parents, but it's long since resolved. How close are her kids to YOUR age? That might be sensitive.

 

[Oo_Bugsy]

My wife is 12 years older than me; we've been together over 10 years. There were some ruffled feathers at first among both our parents, but it's long since resolved. How close are her kids to YOUR age? That might be sensitive.

This is the difficult part. Her eldest is about 2-3 years younger than me.

(P.S. I just realised I posted this in the wrong forum lol. It doesnt matter really, I just need anyone's opinion. Thanks to all who have posted.)

 

[Kendra7200]

We met online almost 2 years ago now. Been very close ever since then, never had an arguement.

We both recently admitted feelings for eachother. Problem for me is, she is twice my age and has kids.

I do feel alot for this woman and would love nothing more than to be with her. But doesnt come without its complications. Like how to tell my parents (if our relationship does carry on), what her kids will think, etc.

Any advice please?

Everyone comes with complications. Sometimes they're age-related, sometimes they're family-related, sometimes they're personal. You likely bring some complications into her life too. Main thing is, if both of you have feelings for each other, let that be your guide, then deal with the complications when they come up. Otherwise, if all you see now is complications, this relationship isn't meant to be.

 

[Oo_Bugsy]

Everyone comes with complications. Sometimes they're age-related, sometimes they're family-related, sometimes they're personal. You likely bring some complications into her life too. Main thing is, if both of you have feelings for each other, let that be your guide, then deal with the complications when they come up. Otherwise, if all you see now is complications, this relationship isn't meant to be.

Thank you. Just let love guide the way huh?

Thanks for all your comments everyone. Been real helpful.

 

[Shaed]

What a turn on!!! I would love to hear the details about that encounter. I had similar experience when I was about the same age. Hope you're willing to share.

 

[Shaed]

I was 15, My first time was with a woman who was 52, I have NEVER EVER looked back, I will never go for anyone under 45 again ( I have in the past)

What a turn on!!!! I had a similar experience at about the same age. Hope you will share details.

 

[marriedbiguynw]

Details ? Of the first time ?

Basically was a friend of a relative, I stayed with her quite a lot growing up, We both knew for a LONG time how we both felt, One night it just spilled over, wasnt much to report of that night was over pretty quick, I was excited as hell, didnt last long, we taught me a lot over the time we were together though, im forever greatful to her xx

 

[limplizzard]

I have always been attracted to older women, i lost my virginity to a 40 year old when I was 14, great sex and she taught me how to eat pussy, super lady. At the age of 69 I still like older women and older men.