Love and Sex...
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LukkyKnight
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Yes
sanjuaneros
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You can love in many ways, but to have sex you don't necessarily need love.
Lovepotion69
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Nora said:
I'm with Nora.
curious2c
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Ok...sex and love are seperate, however, and that is a huge however, love does make sex far better, more fun, interesting, lasting, and...for lack of a better word...'connected'.
I have had experience with both...sex for the sake of sex, sex for the sake of love, and sex with someone I love. I prefer the last best.
Love has been what has kept my wife and I together these last eight years...certainly has not been sex. So I know that a relationship can survive lack of or no sex. Not the best of circumstances, and it has not been an easy road for this man.
Not looking for sympathy...just allowing my experience to show that all things can and do happen in relationships. In many varied directions too. OUr best years...when she liked sex and we partook of loving sexually regularly. Memories that I will cherish for a long time.
I have had experience with both...sex for the sake of sex, sex for the sake of love, and sex with someone I love. I prefer the last best.
Love has been what has kept my wife and I together these last eight years...certainly has not been sex. So I know that a relationship can survive lack of or no sex. Not the best of circumstances, and it has not been an easy road for this man.
Not looking for sympathy...just allowing my experience to show that all things can and do happen in relationships. In many varied directions too. OUr best years...when she liked sex and we partook of loving sexually regularly. Memories that I will cherish for a long time.
Lovepotion69
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I need a connection in some way. For me being in lust and being in love are two very separate things. I'm more often in lust even though that feeling at times might cloud my judgement and make my mind think I hold deeper feelings. I often care for the person and have at least some kind of mental and emotional connection, but I bet you that 90% of the time it's not love.
I don't need love to have sex, but it sure as hell is preferred.
I don't need love to have sex, but it sure as hell is preferred.
SlowHand89
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For me, love and sex go hand in hand. It's crucial. I am of course talking about my love of having sex!
Mizz_Erotica
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I have to say I need some kind of emotional connection with the person...being in love with them can make it much more stimulating...but it doesn't have to be love just a mutal understanding and respect for one another is awesome too
JennyOmanHill
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Hi Cleo
For me, personally, I wouldn't imagine having sex without a LOT of love involved! However, love doesn't need sex to keep it alive and well, but it certainly makes sex a lot of fun.
There are so many wonderful levels to the feelings that love produces; I'm still learning more each and every day!
For me, personally, I wouldn't imagine having sex without a LOT of love involved! However, love doesn't need sex to keep it alive and well, but it certainly makes sex a lot of fun.
There are so many wonderful levels to the feelings that love produces; I'm still learning more each and every day!
Zmey
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Re: Hi Cleo
Warning! Playground poster are in GB! I think Tulip told me about youJennyOmanHill said:For me, personally, I wouldn't imagine having sex without a LOT of love involved! However, love doesn't need sex to keep it alive and well, but it certainly makes sex a lot of fun.
There are so many wonderful levels to the feelings that love produces; I'm still learning more each and every day!
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No.
The other guy that is with us would just take your place. I was busy sucking him while you were fucking me....didn't you notice?
Zmey said:That's good but whouldn't you feel empty when I pull out?
No.
The other guy that is with us would just take your place. I was busy sucking him while you were fucking me....didn't you notice?
