Loss of respect?

[StrongMaster7]

I am a pretty open-minded straight male. I enjoy stimulation of my asshole. A tongue, a finger, a toy. I never thought very much of it as being a major thing.

Then I was listening to Playboy Radio on Sirius and Christy Canyon and Ginger Lynn were talking about anal sex. Ginger, as porn fans will know, enjoys all aspects of anal sex, at least she does on camera. Christy, who does not do anal on camera claimed to do it in private. Then they talked about strapping on dildoes and fucking a man in his ass. At first I was really excited to hear them discuss how much they enjoyed it. But then both of them agreed that they dumped the guy shortly thereafter because the guy must be a bitch to allow that.

Since hearing this, I have seen a few posting on another adult sites by women who indicated that they felt men who enjoyed having any anal attention were less manly.

Ladies, is your first penetration of a guy's ass the beginning of the end of your respect for him?

 

[FurryFury]

No, it isn't.

But then I don't fuck men I don't respect anyway and once I respect them it's a damned hard thing to shake.

I think anal has NOTHING to do with "manliness." That's crap IMO.

Fury

 

[subtleone]

No; you'd have to be pretty shallow to allow the fact that your man was open to experimentation to affect your respect for him.

 

[~Blacklace~]

No, it isn't.

But then I don't fuck men I don't respect anyway and once I respect them it's a damned hard thing to shake.

I think anal has NOTHING to do with "manliness." That's crap IMO.

Fury

Totally agree. If anything I think its more 'manly' in my view since you can admit to liking a sensation that so many men consider 'gay'. I dont think it makes you gay, and even if it did so what? But thats another rant...
No I would not lose respect for a man who enjoyed anal stimulation. Its just an errogenus zone, enjoy it for what it is!
Also, please consider the source of which you heard this! These were porn stars for heavens sake! lol

 

[catalina_francisco]

LOL, well see this just demonstrates that just because someone is willing to do something, doesn't necessarily mean they see it the same as the on they are doing ti to or have the maturity to accept that no-one deserves to be disrespected for being real enough to admit what they want and like. As many know I am in full support of the sex industry, especially where women are concerned, but I wonder if these 2 ladies who obviously are not that broad minded ever stop to think how people might see them as not worthy of respect based on their occupation, and if so, whether they think those people have a valid point? Might be enough to get them to see how stupid their notions are.

Catalina

 

[slavin]

Many men enjoy having their prostate gland stimulated which is located inside the rectum. It has nothing to do with being "a bitch" or not, it's just a question of what physically feels good.

I would actually have more respect for a man who has the confidence to let his partner know that this is something that he likes than for a man that never mentions it because he thinks it’s not "manly".

 

[liberatedslave]

I must confess i'm curious as to why you chose the kinky corner to post in. I have a great deal of love & respect for my Sir. He could have a dildo in his ass & a tutu on & I'd still respect him.
And if I ever called him unmanly he'd beat my ass red raw

 

[rosco rathbone]

I am a pretty open-minded straight male. I enjoy stimulation of my asshole. A tongue, a finger, a toy. I never thought very much of it as being a major thing.

Then I was listening to Playboy Radio on Sirius and Christy Canyon and Ginger Lynn were talking about anal sex. Ginger, as porn fans will know, enjoys all aspects of anal sex, at least she does on camera. Christy, who does not do anal on camera claimed to do it in private. Then they talked about strapping on dildoes and fucking a man in his ass. At first I was really excited to hear them discuss how much they enjoyed it. But then both of them agreed that they dumped the guy shortly thereafter because the guy must be a bitch to allow that.

Since hearing this, I have seen a few posting on another adult sites by women who indicated that they felt men who enjoyed having any anal attention were less manly.

Ladies, is your first penetration of a guy's ass the beginning of the end of your respect for him?

Let this be a lesson to you: when dating porno starlets, make sure you have "hand".

 

[dominiqque]

anal stimulation

Loss of respect..Good Gawd no! I have on occasion used a dildo on my Master, while he initially wasn't too thrilled about it, he was open to trying it.
Prostate stimulation has become very enjoyable for him and is now a regular part of our sexual repetoire, plus it gives him a WHOPPING orgasm espacially when it's coupled with oral.
In all honesty "respect" doesn't enter into the equation, if he enjoys it I do it, simple as that. It's a pity the ladies consider a man a bit of a "pussy" if he let's his partner use toys in his butt. That's pure bullshit in my opinion.

 

[vtxxxr]

I couldnt agree more, I enjoy the stimulation as well, and I know that I am not gay but Im secure enough that I know what I like. I would never lose respect for someone if thats what turns you on!

 

[Etoile]

Add my voice to the many saying that whether a guy likes receiving anal has nothing to do with his sexual orientation or masculinity. Like slavin said...it's about what feels good. I bet more guys would try anal if they knew what it did for their prostate!

 

[HottieMama]

It's all about what feels good.

 

[Netzach]

I would say that willingness to take it up the ass is a requirement, a non-negotiatble requirement for men who want to get it on with me. Admittedly, I'm not your average girl, but there's my opinion, FWIW.

 

[Auraka6669]

Is this kind of like wearing a pink shirt?

 

[Marquis]

I think it would depend a lot on the reaction.

My hunch is many of the men open to anal penetration also give off some vibes that don't jive with your average chick looking for the hand of firmness.

I'd like to think I could get pegged in the ass like a G, but it's not a theory I'm willing to test.

 

[Auraka6669]

Well staying in control while in such a submissive position can be tricky, to say the least.

For that matter though, getting a blow job can be quite submissive too. If you just lay back and take it. She's running the show.

Now you take her by the hair and dictate the pace. You're in charge.

Dunno though, penetration never appealed to me (as a receiver) Although I don't mind some oral stimuli.

 

[TheDivineMsM]

I'd like to think I could get pegged in the ass like a G, but it's not a theory I'm willing to test.

would so like to show you just how good it can be

 

[TheDivineMsM]

Ok basicaly i am like more of the same of all that have posted....
i love it.... more respect.... yadda yadda...
no need to reinvent the wheel in this thread for me!

 

[FantasySlut]

Though I have never performed anal on a man, it is something that I would like to try. But to say that a man is *weak* or a *bitch* because he likes it, is just being asinine! Just like I don't understand why a man refuses to try it because he's afraid he *might like it*. It would be a tremendous turn on and I would appreciate him even more if he *allowed* me to try it because he knew how much I wanted experience it.

For what it's worth...there goes my two cents worth...

 

[shy slave]

I must confess i'm curious as to why you chose the kinky corner to post in. I have a great deal of love & respect for my Sir. He could have a dildo in his ass & a tutu on & I'd still respect him.
And if I ever called him unmanly he'd beat my ass red raw

What she said.

 

[Zinfandel]

I would actually have more respect for a man who has the confidence to let his partner know that this is something that he likes than for a man that never mentions it because he thinks it’s not "manly".

Yes, exactly.

 

[Noor]

I wouldn't lose respect, in fact I would be a lot more willing to reciprocate.

 

[Shankara20]

Just feel like adding my $.02.

I'm a male, I have two adult children, I run a business, I am active in a local city program to help other men stop non-consentual violence in their homes, I ride a very large motorcycle, I watch movies here things blow up, I can shoot a gun, I have served in the military in a time of war, I have a full face beard, I am a very skilled Top, I snow ski, I take male lovers and female lovers, I love things pushed up my ass - big things - including hands. There are a few women that I know that do not respect me, but it is because I pissed them off when I would not automatically do what they wanted at work - and not because I play with my ass. Oh yes, I crossdress at home, but it has nothing to do with trying to be a female, I am just a big ol' hairy man in a dress.

Oh, ps - enjoying one's ass has absolutely nothing to do with automatically being gay. I know very straight men that love to be "penetrated' and I know very gay men that will have nothing at all to do ass sex.

I wish you all the best sorting this out.

 

[TheDivineMsM]

Just feel like adding my $.02.

I'm a male, I have two adult children, I run a business, I am active in a local city program to help other men stop non-consentual violence in their homes, I ride a very large motorcycle, I watch movies here things blow up, I can shoot a gun, I have served in the military in a time of war, I have a full face beard, I am a very skilled Top, I snow ski, I take male lovers and female lovers, I love things pushed up my ass - big things - including hands. There are a few women that I know that do not respect me, but it is because I pissed them off when I would not automatically do what they wanted at work - and not because I play with my ass. Oh yes, I crossdress at home, but it has nothing to do with trying to be a female, I am just a big ol' hairy man in a dress.

Oh, ps - enjoying one's ass has absolutely nothing to do with automatically being gay. I know very straight men that love to be "penetrated' and I know very gay men that will have nothing at all to do ass sex.

I wish you all the best sorting this out.

I Loved your post!

 

[elizabeth22673]

it would never occur to me to lose respect for a man after ass play.

just my $0.02