Losing Your Virginity

Erotica_Writings

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The loss of virginity is one of the most anticipated and remembered events for most people. Some people have mixed emotions such as being afraid...with questions like does it hurt? What is your story?
 
Erotica_Writings said:
The loss of virginity is one of the most anticipated and remembered events for most people. Some people have mixed emotions such as being afraid...with questions like does it hurt? What is your story?


I was 13 :eek: My boyfriend ,9 yrs older, told me that I could save his life by letting him. Well I got pregnant, :rolleyes: do not regret my daughter in any way...but 4 kids later I regretted not shooting him. :devil: :D
 
Erotica_Writings said:
The loss of virginity is one of the most anticipated and remembered events for most people. Some people have mixed emotions such as being afraid...with questions like does it hurt? What is your story?

Hi EW

Do you want the male perspective as well?

I was 17 back of car at a young farmers dance ... many years ago.. it was frantic... no real time to 'enjoy' it .. didn't hurt (for me or her) .. couldn't wait to do it again !
 
Scottie62 said:
Hi EW

Do you want the male perspective as well?

I was 17 back of car at a young farmers dance ... many years ago.. it was frantic... no real time to 'enjoy' it .. didn't hurt (for me or her) .. couldn't wait to do it again !


I want everyones perspective male or female :D and thanks for sharing sweety :kiss:
 
Erotica_Writings said:
I want everyones perspective male or female :D and thanks for sharing sweety :kiss:

No problem girl ... Always glad to be of some assistance ! ;) :kiss:
 
Ok EW here's another guy's perspective"

I was 17 somewhat involved with an "experienced" woman of 24. We hadn't done the deed -- she was cautious about my feelings etc. Then, as kind of a "mercy" event we managed to consumate in my bedroom (living at home) while folks were away. Totally unfufillng experience. She was happy to oblige. Round two was different though and set me off on the path I've traveled to this day. :p
 
fathom7 said:
Ok EW here's another guy's perspective"

I was 17 somewhat involved with an "experienced" woman of 24. We hadn't done the deed -- she was cautious about my feelings etc. Then, as kind of a "mercy" event we managed to consumate in my bedroom (living at home) while folks were away. Totally unfufillng experience. She was happy to oblige. Round two was different though and set me off on the path I've traveled to this day. :p

I love them too :nana: :D
 
Wow...ok I was 17 and he was 16 and I was babysitting my younger brothers and we had been discussing it for awhile and flirting pretty heavy...anyway, I told him he wasn't man enough he said I dare you...told me to get rid of my brothers and he would be waiting in my bed...I did and we did and it was sweet...no pain on either side until 2 years later he dumped me cause he felt like a piece of meat....he actually had decided he liked boys better...so I seduced his new play toy...dated him for a longtime too.....hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.... :D :D
 
catsr2wild said:
Wow...ok I was 17 and he was 16 and I was babysitting my younger brothers and we had been discussing it for awhile and flirting pretty heavy...anyway, I told him he wasn't man enough he said I dare you...told me to get rid of my brothers and he would be waiting in my bed...I did and we did and it was sweet...no pain on either side until 2 years later he dumped me cause he felt like a piece of meat....he actually had decided he liked boys better...so I seduced his new play toy...dated him for a longtime too.....hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.... :D :D

:eek: The addage proves so very true. Nice story. All the elements -- intrigue, sex, pathos, sex, revenge, sex . . . . well you get the idea. :nana:
 
fathom7 said:
:eek: The addage proves so very true. Nice story. All the elements -- intrigue, sex, pathos, sex, revenge, sex . . . . well you get the idea. :nana:

Yes...I was hurt and all I wanted was revenge but the friend was really sweet and we even tried to maintain a long distace relationship after he enlisted in the Navy...... :) :) its a sweet memory now...
 
catsr2wild said:
Wow...ok I was 17 and he was 16 and I was babysitting my younger brothers and we had been discussing it for awhile and flirting pretty heavy...anyway, I told him he wasn't man enough he said I dare you...told me to get rid of my brothers and he would be waiting in my bed...I did and we did and it was sweet...no pain on either side until 2 years later he dumped me cause he felt like a piece of meat....he actually had decided he liked boys better...so I seduced his new play toy...dated him for a longtime too.....hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.... :D :D


woooohoooooooo you go girl :D I love it when women scorch the one who scorned them :kiss:
 
fathom7 said:
:eek: The addage proves so very true. Nice story. All the elements -- intrigue, sex, pathos, sex, revenge, sex . . . . well you get the idea. :nana:


yes i got the idea that you likey da sexy :D :kiss:
 
Erotica_Writings said:
yes i got the idea that you likey da sexy :D :kiss:

Who me? :confused: :confused: c'mon EW -- you shouldn't thnk that way. Might spoil my reputation as a clean living guy who just happens to be perpetually in rigor below the waist. :nana: :nana:
 
fathom7 said:
Who me? :confused: :confused: c'mon EW -- you shouldn't thnk that way. Might spoil my reputation as a clean living guy who just happens to be perpetually in rigor below the waist. :nana: :nana:


:eek: :eek: Its dead???? :Omg : rigarmortus has set in.....



ps...didn't feel like spell checking rigamortus :D :kiss:
 
I guess I'll be the voice of the old fashioned person. ^_^()

I have yet to lose my virginity. However, like most other 19 year olds, I am not freaking out about it. I decided on my philosophy about actual intercourse a few years ago and not much has changed. I guess I'm a hopeless romantic at heart (even though I don't want my openly romantic boyfriend to know...shhh!). I want my virginity to be taken by the person who I'm going to spend (at least most of) the rest of my life with. I feel that losing my virginity to that person is giving up a piece of my body...something that oral or fingering doesn't really do. Not sure how I thought of it, but I guess it's my way of trying to make intercourse special, especially since it always seems so casual nowadays.

However, I do have casual sex with my hand and vibe all the time. :p
 
I was just shy of my 14th BD and he was already 14. We went to his house where he lived with his dad and had sex for the first time in his bedroom. All my clothes were off except for my sandals. Afterwards we took a shower and had sex again while we were in there. Afterwards we went back to his bedroom and were going at it a 3rd time when his Dad came in. I was mortified but all he did was tell me to put my clothes on and go home! I don't remember it hurting at the time but I do remember when I was walking home feeling a tenderness down there! But as I look back on it,that was probably when I began my preference for playing in the water! :p
 
College_geek said:
I guess I'll be the voice of the old fashioned person. ^_^()

I have yet to lose my virginity. However, like most other 19 year olds, I am not freaking out about it. I decided on my philosophy about actual intercourse a few years ago and not much has changed. I guess I'm a hopeless romantic at heart (even though I don't want my openly romantic boyfriend to know...shhh!). I want my virginity to be taken by the person who I'm going to spend (at least most of) the rest of my life with. I feel that losing my virginity to that person is giving up a piece of my body...something that oral or fingering doesn't really do. Not sure how I thought of it, but I guess it's my way of trying to make intercourse special, especially since it always seems so casual nowadays.

However, I do have casual sex with my hand and vibe all the time. :p

that is really cool....and to be honest I really respect that kind of thinking. :rose:
 
carrie-on said:
I was just shy of my 14th BD and he was already 14. We went to his house where he lived with his dad and had sex for the first time in his bedroom. All my clothes were off except for my sandals. Afterwards we took a shower and had sex again while we were in there. Afterwards we went back to his bedroom and were going at it a 3rd time when his Dad came in. I was mortified but all he did was tell me to put my clothes on and go home! I don't remember it hurting at the time but I do remember when I was walking home feeling a tenderness down there! But as I look back on it,that was probably when I began my preference for playing in the water! :p


water sports are fun :D :kiss:
 
College_geek said:
I guess I'll be the voice of the old fashioned person. ^_^()

I have yet to lose my virginity. However, like most other 19 year olds, I am not freaking out about it. I decided on my philosophy about actual intercourse a few years ago and not much has changed. I guess I'm a hopeless romantic at heart (even though I don't want my openly romantic boyfriend to know...shhh!). I want my virginity to be taken by the person who I'm going to spend (at least most of) the rest of my life with. I feel that losing my virginity to that person is giving up a piece of my body...something that oral or fingering doesn't really do. Not sure how I thought of it, but I guess it's my way of trying to make intercourse special, especially since it always seems so casual nowadays.

However, I do have casual sex with my hand and vibe all the time. :p


I have to say I admire you and Zerg for your virginity status especially in this day and age and I see nothing wrong with being a virgin at 19 though its rare to really find one.....
 
BedtimeStories said:
I was actually mad that it didn't hurt like it was supposed to. :rolleyes:

Oh, and I was stupid enough to think I was in love.


I know what you mean, but i did bleed though.
 
My first time

I was 16 at a music video shoot. Being the horny young male I was, I was ogling all of the models. I met one that was really nice because she actually spoke to me. We talked about what we had in common, since I was about to enter college, she told me how her mother was a professor there. I was drinking heavily because I was nervous as hell. Then we went up in the house where the shoot was because she said she wanted to show me something. The next thing I know, I wake up in my house after my cousin carried me inside. He gave me a video to look at and said "enjoy". Apparently I had sex with that girl over and over again, like a mad man and I don't even remember it. I wouldn't have believed it if I didn't have the video to prove it. I try to recreate that longevity and it doesn't work. I guess I need to drink that heavily again. :cool:
 
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