Losing interest after cumming experiment.

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I’m sure I’m not the only one that experiences the phenomena of losing interest after cumming.
I’m talking from my perspective as a bottom. I like only shemales.
So I could be watching my favourite porn type: shemales fucking guys hard and deep, dildo up my ass and the desire to cum in my mouth, but pull away always at the last second. Instantly afterwards I want the dildo straight out of my ass.

When I’m with a tgirl, her shooting her load in my mouth is an absolute must. It’s very important I don’t cum, so as to still enjoy every part.

It’s for the same reason that I usually don’t want to be jerked off while being fucked, cos I’ll cum really really quick.
There has been a few times though, with the same partner where she’s made me cum hands free. Fucked soo well that I couldn’t hold it and the next balls deep thrust I burst. Needless to say, I wanted that cock out of my ass. It definately put a holt on things for a while.

This leads me to the experiment.
I told my beautiful partner that I wanted to begin fucking as we normally do, until we get to the point where I’m lubed and stretched enough to start taking a hard balls deep pounding. So we got into our favourite position, laying down, me on my back/side, with me as far back onto her cock. Pretty much balls deep, we always find ourselves in this position balls deep grinding on each other passionately making out. This time however, while our mouths are joined and our tongues all over each other’s, she started to jerk me off while pounding my ass. I told her after I cum to keep her cock in me. To hold me tight and not let me wriggle away from her. She was really really turned on by the idea and loved it. I said, regardless if this goes well or not, we are probably going to try it again. I said that at the very least she needs to hold her cock in me as deep as possible, but really, if she wanted to she could just continue fucking me.

Well I came. And with the last spirt of cum she rammed me hard and held me there, tightly. The orgasm was amazing, and I came really really hard-as you do with a cock buried that deep in your ass.
Straight away I wanted her cock out of me. All I could think of was ‘there’s a cock in my ass!’ I didn’t want it in me at all. She thrusted into me slowly but firmly, always keeping a deep pressure into my ass. Her hands wrapped around me. It was soo uncomfortable... for a minute or two.
She slowly picked up the tempo. She was taking longer thrusts.
It was much sooner than I expected that I felt my cock getting hard again.
Her cock went from ‘get it out of me’ to me pushing back Against her. After literally the first slight push back into her, telling her that I’m ready for it she started pounding the fuck out of me.
 
Often times we just need our partner to care about their own needs after we cum. I know your initial feeling all to well, but my ex boyfriend was very good at not giving a fuck when I finished before him. It turned him on so much when I would cum hands-free that he would just fuck me harder and deeper. Sure, the first few seconds after I came I'd be fine with rolling over and going to sleep, but he had different plans. It wasn't over until he was done. And that was hot for me. I wouldn't get hard again, but eventually I begged for him to keep going. Pleasing your partner is just as important as getting your nut.
 
I tried a lot of things but it really came down to mental training. I found out that if I keep stroking after I cum I can extend an orgasm. The hardest part was getting over that first initial rush of pleasure and the insane sensitivity that comes with it and rolling with it. Not stopping definitely keeps my interest after I cum.

I don't bottom enough to try OPs way, but it would be a fun experiment. And usually when I was getting pegged regularly it was usually a domme/sub scene and me cumming took second to her getting off while ramming me and I could have be squirting and leaking like a firehose and I wouldn't have noticed from subspace. Although when I did ride her the one time I came while she was stroking me and my reaction to that was to tell her not to stop cause there's more coming and just dropping all the way down. I couldn't get off until I stopped shaking and enjoyed a bit of aftercare with her still in me.

So everyone is different.
 
Yup, similar here.

I am straight, but bi-curious to suck cock cock when I am super horny. But even with my straight partners, I have a huge sex drive let down, immediately after release, usually...

The "sometimes" I don't have the let down are when it is incredibly hot sex, and I am not physically tired, and we have a known long amount of private time to follow after the deed is done. Also helps if me and my partner had several days of no orgasms, maybe a week or more, leading into the first cum.

One that is stuck clear in my mind is all of the above was true, and I was fucking my wife in the shower. I can hard right in her pussy just as a giant orgasm was building for her. After her cum, she kept grinding slowly for about a minute, then sat down in the shower, wiped out from her cum. But then she looked up at me and saw my still-big dick and started jacking me off again. It was so fucking hot, I came again, all over her face this time.

Talking about it later, she only started the handjob because she that I hadn't cum at all yet. But we but agreed it was an incredible moment.
 
I tried a lot of things but it really came down to mental training. I found out that if I keep stroking after I cum I can extend an orgasm. The hardest part was getting over that first initial rush of pleasure and the insane sensitivity that comes with it and rolling with it. Not stopping definitely keeps my interest after I cum.

I don't bottom enough to try OPs way, but it would be a fun experiment. And usually when I was getting pegged regularly it was usually a domme/sub scene and me cumming took second to her getting off while ramming me and I could have be squirting and leaking like a firehose and I wouldn't have noticed from subspace. Although when I did ride her the one time I came while she was stroking me and my reaction to that was to tell her not to stop cause there's more coming and just dropping all the way down. I couldn't get off until I stopped shaking and enjoyed a bit of aftercare with her still in me.

So everyone is different.
I was kinda in the opposite place. I was able to do it multlple times with kissing in between.
 
You are not alone, but in the right situation it doesn‘t have to end when you come…especially with a partner that wants to play along. Being a long-time MFM 3way lover, I developed quite the taste for creampie…and wanted to eat my own from my wife’s freshly fucked pussy many times, but after I came…well, you know. It took some convincing on my part, but now she guides my head down and verbally encourages me to enjoy dessert…and it is wonderful😈❤️
 
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You are not alone, but in the right situation it doesn‘t have to end when you come…especially with a partner that wants to play along. Being a long-time MFM 3way lover, I developed quite the taste for creampie…and wanted to eat my own from my wife’s freshly fucked pussy many times, but after I came…well, you know. It took some convincing on my part, but now she guides my head down so I can enjoy dessert…and it it wonderful
Ditto on the let-down after coming, and kudos on her "encouraging" you!
 
I’m sure I’m not the only one that experiences the phenomena of losing interest after cumming.
I’m talking from my perspective as a bottom. I like only shemales.
So I could be watching my favourite porn type: shemales fucking guys hard and deep, dildo up my ass and the desire to cum in my mouth, but pull away always at the last second. Instantly afterwards I want the dildo straight out of my ass.

When I’m with a tgirl, her shooting her load in my mouth is an absolute must. It’s very important I don’t cum, so as to still enjoy every part.

It’s for the same reason that I usually don’t want to be jerked off while being fucked, cos I’ll cum really really quick.
There has been a few times though, with the same partner where she’s made me cum hands free. Fucked soo well that I couldn’t hold it and the next balls deep thrust I burst. Needless to say, I wanted that cock out of my ass. It definately put a holt on things for a while.

This leads me to the experiment.
I told my beautiful partner that I wanted to begin fucking as we normally do, until we get to the point where I’m lubed and stretched enough to start taking a hard balls deep pounding. So we got into our favourite position, laying down, me on my back/side, with me as far back onto her cock. Pretty much balls deep, we always find ourselves in this position balls deep grinding on each other passionately making out. This time however, while our mouths are joined and our tongues all over each other’s, she started to jerk me off while pounding my ass. I told her after I cum to keep her cock in me. To hold me tight and not let me wriggle away from her. She was really really turned on by the idea and loved it. I said, regardless if this goes well or not, we are probably going to try it again. I said that at the very least she needs to hold her cock in me as deep as possible, but really, if she wanted to she could just continue fucking me.

Well I came. And with the last spirt of cum she rammed me hard and held me there, tightly. The orgasm was amazing, and I came really really hard-as you do with a cock buried that deep in your ass.
Straight away I wanted her cock out of me. All I could think of was ‘there’s a cock in my ass!’ I didn’t want it in me at all. She thrusted into me slowly but firmly, always keeping a deep pressure into my ass. Her hands wrapped around me. It was soo uncomfortable... for a minute or two.
She slowly picked up the tempo. She was taking longer thrusts.
It was much sooner than I expected that I felt my cock getting hard again.
Her cock went from ‘get it out of me’ to me pushing back Against her. After literally the first slight push back into her, telling her that I’m ready for it she started pounding the fuck out of me.
Yeah, i think this is really a great experiment, with great results. I remember ages ago my partner at the time sucked me off, I came in her mouth and w/o swallowing she snowballed the cum back in my mouth. At first, I pulled away, thinking ‘Get that CUM AWAY from me!!!” Then after about a minute, I started really liking the taste, and went down to suck whatever was left (not much) out of her mouth. I think you’re right on about the recovery period….
 
I've always been this way my entire life. Loss of interest right after orgasm. When I was really young I could make myself repeat & cum twice. As I got older I couldn't do that anymore.
The only time I was able to cum twice again was because of my wonderful wife. Every time I came in her she so badly requested I lick my cum out of her pussy and kiss her. Hearing her say that always got me aroused. She would want us to French kiss every time I would cum in her mouth. She'd purposely keep my cum in her mouth hoping I would eventually kiss her. It finally dawned on me one day that the best thing in life was watching her have orgasms. During sex whenever we were fucking, I would purposely reach down and scoop up precum off my dick with her pussy juice and we'd passionately kiss while fucking. I loved this and she did also. She loved putting her fingers down there when she was soaking wet then rubbing her pussy juice all over her large breast for us both to lick and suck together and then kiss. She would basically take my dick out, rub her fingers on the tip of my cock, then finger herself and bring her pussy juice up for us to lick together. She loved me licking her fingers & us kissing. And I would almost cum when she would lick her own fingers and rub it all over her face & boobs. She was basically feeding us both our own juices. She would do this constantly while having intercourse missonary style. Which made missonary our favorite position. She would get so messy with her pussy juice all over our mouths & face. We loved the mess all over our faces, in our mouths, the smell and the taste of our combined juices was so erotic. The smell & scent and tasting of our juices combined was so hot, she'd orgasm a few times really hard and I'd have a hard time holding back. She know I was feeding her my precum with her own juice. It got her off big time she told me it did. She sais it was one of her favorite things when we'd have sex. So, it dawned on me (after many times I never had the guts to do it after getting off), that if I was to finally go with her fantasy & desire of me basically eating my own cum out of her mouth and her pussy after I came in her, that she would have an ultimate orgasm and that is what I wanted to do FOR HER. SO one day when I came inside her, I just immediately went down on her and sucked up all my cum out of her pussy that I could get (as quickly as I could also) and then went back up to kiss her passionately with my cum still in my mouth with her pussy juices all over. When I finally did that, she would instantly start fingering herself to climax she loved it that much. Her getting off again by me doing that got me instantly hard again just after cumming. BINGO! Found a way again to get & stay erect & cum twice during our love making sessions. This ended up being such a big bonus in our sex life she thought I was an animal and expert. She told me she never knew a guy that could cum twice in the same 20mins or less. I can't express how much this improved our sex life. I never wanted to taste my own cum or deal with that. Mostly just because of what this poster's title was referring to. But because of my wife so badly wanting me to do this for so long and it being one of her biggest desires, it was the best benefit to both of us. I still get so hard when I think of my wife & I sharing our sex juices. We did this 98% of our entire sex acts. When she was giving me head we would see how much precum we could share between us. And every time I would cum in her mouth I'd kiss her immediately so she could masturbate herself to orgasm and then that would get me hard again. Worked every time like a charm.
SO I hope some younger guys are reading this and understanding do not underestimate your wife' fantasies EVER! Give into them it most likely will benefit you both, your sex drive & sex life big time. All those first 2-3yrs of datng marriage and I said no to her wanting me to kiss her after cumming in her mouth or not being willing to go down on her after cumming inside her. That was stupid of me to deny her desires. And let's be honest guys, even if you lose that desire after cumming, is it that hard to not just fulfill that simple request if she is asking you to kiss her after you came in her mouth? If that is one of her fantasies then do it for her. I'm glad I did because watching her get off on me doing that for her got me hard again every time.
 
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Similar happens to me, after reading and watching so much on here I swear I will swallow my load when I finish and just be a little slutty. But then after the first squirt the tissue is right there cleaning it up. Some day I hope to have the courage, but it is tough.
Ok, so finally did it into a cup, got horny again and followed through watching some hypno. Does it every make anyones throat a little tingly? Or am I allergic to my own cum?
 
I've always been this way my entire life. Loss of interest right after orgasm. When I was really young I could make myself repeat & cum twice. As I got older I couldn't do that anymore.
The only time I was able to cum twice again was because of my wonderful wife. Every time I came in her she so badly requested I lick my cum out of her pussy and kiss her. Hearing her say that always got me aroused. She would want us to French kiss every time I would cum in her mouth. She'd purposely keep my cum in her mouth hoping I would eventually kiss her. It finally dawned on me one day that the best thing in life was watching her have orgasms. During sex whenever we were fucking, I would purposely reach down and scoop up precum off my dick with her pussy juice and we'd passionately kiss while fucking. I loved this and she did also. She loved putting her fingers down there when she was soaking wet then rubbing her pussy juice all over her large breast for us both to lick and suck together and then kiss. She would basically take my dick out, rub her fingers on the tip of my cock, then finger herself and bring her pussy juice up for us to lick together. She loved me licking her fingers & us kissing. And I would almost cum when she would lick her own fingers and rub it all over her face & boobs. She was basically feeding us both our own juices. She would do this constantly while having intercourse missonary style. Which made missonary our favorite position. She would get so messy with her pussy juice all over our mouths & face. We loved the mess all over our faces, in our mouths, the smell and the taste of our combined juices was so erotic. The smell & scent and tasting of our juices combined was so hot, she'd orgasm a few times really hard and I'd have a hard time holding back. She know I was feeding her my precum with her own juice. It got her off big time she told me it did. She sais it was one of her favorite things when we'd have sex. So, it dawned on me (after many times I never had the guts to do it after getting off), that if I was to finally go with her fantasy & desire of me basically eating my own cum out of her mouth and her pussy after I came in her, that she would have an ultimate orgasm and that is what I wanted to do FOR HER. SO one day when I came inside her, I just immediately went down on her and sucked up all my cum out of her pussy that I could get (as quickly as I could also) and then went back up to kiss her passionately with my cum still in my mouth with her pussy juices all over. When I finally did that, she would instantly start fingering herself to climax she loved it that much. Her getting off again by me doing that got me instantly hard again just after cumming. BINGO! Found a way again to get & stay erect & cum twice during our love making sessions. This ended up being such a big bonus in our sex life she thought I was an animal and expert. She told me she never knew a guy that could cum twice in the same 20mins or less. I can't express how much this improved our sex life. I never wanted to taste my own cum or deal with that. Mostly just because of what this poster's title was referring to. But because of my wife so badly wanting me to do this for so long and it being one of her biggest desires, it was the best benefit to both of us. I still get so hard when I think of my wife & I sharing our sex juices. We did this 98% of our entire sex acts. When she was giving me head we would see how much precum we could share between us. And every time I would cum in her mouth I'd kiss her immediately so she could masturbate herself to orgasm and then that would get me hard again. Worked every time like a charm.
SO I hope some younger guys are reading this and understanding do not underestimate your wife' fantasies EVER! Give into them it most likely will benefit you both, your sex drive & sex life big time. All those first 2-3yrs of datng marriage and I said no to her wanting me to kiss her after cumming in her mouth or not being willing to go down on her after cumming inside her. That was stupid of me to deny her desires. And let's be honest guys, even if you lose that desire after cumming, is it that hard to not just fulfill that simple request if she is asking you to kiss her after you came in her mouth? If that is one of her fantasies then do it for her. I'm glad I did because watching her get off on me doing that for her got me hard again every time.
You are so lucky to have a wife that would do those things, AND WANTED TO DO THOSE THINGS. My wife never had my cock in her mouth more than 2 or 3 times, much less let me cum in her mouth. But she did love for me to eat her pussy after I came inside her, that's when she had her best orgasms. I loved it too!
 
I've always been this way my entire life. Loss of interest right after orgasm. When I was really young I could make myself repeat & cum twice. As I got older I couldn't do that anymore.
The only time I was able to cum twice again was because of my wonderful wife. Every time I came in her she so badly requested I lick my cum out of her pussy and kiss her. Hearing her say that always got me aroused. She would want us to French kiss every time I would cum in her mouth. She'd purposely keep my cum in her mouth hoping I would eventually kiss her. It finally dawned on me one day that the best thing in life was watching her have orgasms. During sex whenever we were fucking, I would purposely reach down and scoop up precum off my dick with her pussy juice and we'd passionately kiss while fucking. I loved this and she did also. She loved putting her fingers down there when she was soaking wet then rubbing her pussy juice all over her large breast for us both to lick and suck together and then kiss. She would basically take my dick out, rub her fingers on the tip of my cock, then finger herself and bring her pussy juice up for us to lick together. She loved me licking her fingers & us kissing. And I would almost cum when she would lick her own fingers and rub it all over her face & boobs. She was basically feeding us both our own juices. She would do this constantly while having intercourse missonary style. Which made missonary our favorite position. She would get so messy with her pussy juice all over our mouths & face. We loved the mess all over our faces, in our mouths, the smell and the taste of our combined juices was so erotic. The smell & scent and tasting of our juices combined was so hot, she'd orgasm a few times really hard and I'd have a hard time holding back. She know I was feeding her my precum with her own juice. It got her off big time she told me it did. She sais it was one of her favorite things when we'd have sex. So, it dawned on me (after many times I never had the guts to do it after getting off), that if I was to finally go with her fantasy & desire of me basically eating my own cum out of her mouth and her pussy after I came in her, that she would have an ultimate orgasm and that is what I wanted to do FOR HER. SO one day when I came inside her, I just immediately went down on her and sucked up all my cum out of her pussy that I could get (as quickly as I could also) and then went back up to kiss her passionately with my cum still in my mouth with her pussy juices all over. When I finally did that, she would instantly start fingering herself to climax she loved it that much. Her getting off again by me doing that got me instantly hard again just after cumming. BINGO! Found a way again to get & stay erect & cum twice during our love making sessions. This ended up being such a big bonus in our sex life she thought I was an animal and expert. She told me she never knew a guy that could cum twice in the same 20mins or less. I can't express how much this improved our sex life. I never wanted to taste my own cum or deal with that. Mostly just because of what this poster's title was referring to. But because of my wife so badly wanting me to do this for so long and it being one of her biggest desires, it was the best benefit to both of us. I still get so hard when I think of my wife & I sharing our sex juices. We did this 98% of our entire sex acts. When she was giving me head we would see how much precum we could share between us. And every time I would cum in her mouth I'd kiss her immediately so she could masturbate herself to orgasm and then that would get me hard again. Worked every time like a charm.
SO I hope some younger guys are reading this and understanding do not underestimate your wife' fantasies EVER! Give into them it most likely will benefit you both, your sex drive & sex life big time. All those first 2-3yrs of datng marriage and I said no to her wanting me to kiss her after cumming in her mouth or not being willing to go down on her after cumming inside her. That was stupid of me to deny her desires. And let's be honest guys, even if you lose that desire after cumming, is it that hard to not just fulfill that simple request if she is asking you to kiss her after you came in her mouth? If that is one of her fantasies then do it for her. I'm glad I did because watching her get off on me doing that for her got me hard again every time.
You sir, are a god!
 
You sir, are a god!
Well thank you I guess. lol
I've had numerous fantasies over the years, but the very best thing has always been watching a woman have a orgasm. The look on her face, the feel of her pussy pumping & contracting on my penis while she orgasms. A woman's orgasm is the #1 best thing about sex ever. The number 1 thing that always gets me off when I masturbate is thinking of the many times my wife would have an orgasm. Either through me or watching her masturbate.
 
I’m sure I’m not the only one that experiences the phenomena of losing interest after cumming.
I’m talking from my perspective as a bottom. I like only shemales.
So I could be watching my favourite porn type: shemales fucking guys hard and deep, dildo up my ass and the desire to cum in my mouth, but pull away always at the last second. Instantly afterwards I want the dildo straight out of my ass.

When I’m with a tgirl, her shooting her load in my mouth is an absolute must. It’s very important I don’t cum, so as to still enjoy every part.

It’s for the same reason that I usually don’t want to be jerked off while being fucked, cos I’ll cum really really quick.
There has been a few times though, with the same partner where she’s made me cum hands free. Fucked soo well that I couldn’t hold it and the next balls deep thrust I burst. Needless to say, I wanted that cock out of my ass. It definately put a holt on things for a while.

This leads me to the experiment.
I told my beautiful partner that I wanted to begin fucking as we normally do, until we get to the point where I’m lubed and stretched enough to start taking a hard balls deep pounding. So we got into our favourite position, laying down, me on my back/side, with me as far back onto her cock. Pretty much balls deep, we always find ourselves in this position balls deep grinding on each other passionately making out. This time however, while our mouths are joined and our tongues all over each other’s, she started to jerk me off while pounding my ass. I told her after I cum to keep her cock in me. To hold me tight and not let me wriggle away from her. She was really really turned on by the idea and loved it. I said, regardless if this goes well or not, we are probably going to try it again. I said that at the very least she needs to hold her cock in me as deep as possible, but really, if she wanted to she could just continue fucking me.

Well I came. And with the last spirt of cum she rammed me hard and held me there, tightly. The orgasm was amazing, and I came really really hard-as you do with a cock buried that deep in your ass.
Straight away I wanted her cock out of me. All I could think of was ‘there’s a cock in my ass!’ I didn’t want it in me at all. She thrusted into me slowly but firmly, always keeping a deep pressure into my ass. Her hands wrapped around me. It was soo uncomfortable... for a minute or two.
She slowly picked up the tempo. She was taking longer thrusts.
It was much sooner than I expected that I felt my cock getting hard again.
Her cock went from ‘get it out of me’ to me pushing back Against her. After literally the first slight push back into her, telling her that I’m ready for it she started pounding the fuck out of me.
good experiment
 
I’m sure I’m not the only one that experiences the phenomena of losing interest after cumming.
I’m talking from my perspective as a bottom. I like only shemales.
So I could be watching my favourite porn type: shemales fucking guys hard and deep, dildo up my ass and the desire to cum in my mouth, but pull away always at the last second. Instantly afterwards I want the dildo straight out of my ass.

When I’m with a tgirl, her shooting her load in my mouth is an absolute must. It’s very important I don’t cum, so as to still enjoy every part.

It’s for the same reason that I usually don’t want to be jerked off while being fucked, cos I’ll cum really really quick.
There has been a few times though, with the same partner where she’s made me cum hands free. Fucked soo well that I couldn’t hold it and the next balls deep thrust I burst. Needless to say, I wanted that cock out of my ass. It definately put a holt on things for a while.

This leads me to the experiment.
I told my beautiful partner that I wanted to begin fucking as we normally do, until we get to the point where I’m lubed and stretched enough to start taking a hard balls deep pounding. So we got into our favourite position, laying down, me on my back/side, with me as far back onto her cock. Pretty much balls deep, we always find ourselves in this position balls deep grinding on each other passionately making out. This time however, while our mouths are joined and our tongues all over each other’s, she started to jerk me off while pounding my ass. I told her after I cum to keep her cock in me. To hold me tight and not let me wriggle away from her. She was really really turned on by the idea and loved it. I said, regardless if this goes well or not, we are probably going to try it again. I said that at the very least she needs to hold her cock in me as deep as possible, but really, if she wanted to she could just continue fucking me.

Well I came. And with the last spirt of cum she rammed me hard and held me there, tightly. The orgasm was amazing, and I came really really hard-as you do with a cock buried that deep in your ass.
Straight away I wanted her cock out of me. All I could think of was ‘there’s a cock in my ass!’ I didn’t want it in me at all. She thrusted into me slowly but firmly, always keeping a deep pressure into my ass. Her hands wrapped around me. It was soo uncomfortable... for a minute or two.
She slowly picked up the tempo. She was taking longer thrusts.
It was much sooner than I expected that I felt my cock getting hard again.
Her cock went from ‘get it out of me’ to me pushing back Against her. After literally the first slight push back into her, telling her that I’m ready for it she started pounding the fuck out of me.
i think everything is normal
 
Often times we just need our partner to care about their own needs after we cum. I know your initial feeling all to well, but my ex boyfriend was very good at not giving a fuck when I finished before him. It turned him on so much when I would cum hands-free that he would just fuck me harder and deeper. Sure, the first few seconds after I came I'd be fine with rolling over and going to sleep, but he had different plans. It wasn't over until he was done. And that was hot for me. I wouldn't get hard again, but eventually I begged for him to keep going. Pleasing your partner is just as important as getting your nut.
An admirable attitude.
Of course you should always remain receptive for your friend's needs, orally or anally, particularly after you've already cum yourself. It can just get better...
 
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