Lord Pmann wants to discuss Brianna38

[Lord Pmann]

There are too many places to try to follow the drama, so we should probably have one place to discuss it. I’m late to the party, but I find this sad and fascinating. This is a pretty big ordeal that I think is worth discussion. It’s not often that a well-known member of the forum “dies off” and has a spouse come and post on their behalf. All with specific information about members on Lit. This is eerily similar to the new documentary on Netflix, Untold: The Girlfriend Who Didn’t Exist.

So what do we say? Was this a guy? A girl? Did anyone ever talk to her on voice? What parts of this were real? What parts are fake?

To me, the pics were obviously fake. And the age doesn’t make sense. If she was late 40s or 50s in those pics, I have some 12” donger pics I’d like to share.

With that said, I do think people should be sensitive to the fact that there are some people who are genuinely sad and hurt. So, at least be respectful of that.

 

[pandaburr]

Well I’m here for this. I loved the energy Bri brought to the PG and she was so sweet to me. But to brush away valid concerns and points others are making because of that would be silly. I do think it’s an important conversation either way.

Also - I had no idea the pics were fake but after hearing what her age was and knowing the pics I saw she posted previously? That really threw me off.

 

[SassySheDevil]

For those who were close with her. I can see how this would be horribly upsetting. I can see why so many are being defensive. But like others have said. There are too many things that don't make sense. The pictures she posted did not belong to someone that should be close to 50 as I am 50 and have been with my husband since high school. We just celebrated 30 years married and almost 34 together.
@Mattentive pointed out. Someone edited her profile 2 days after she supposedly passed.
Hubby came on to announce her passing and had already set up a profile/avatar/info etc like a champ practically before even making the announcement. He opened his account 14 hours before that announcement. Why did he wait 14 hours to open the account and then make that announcement?
Not a single person has been able to say that they either voiced with her, video chatted with her, or even talked to her off lit.
If her husband was so knowledgeable about her Lit life. Why did no one go off Lit with her? How does he know so much about her friends and yet no one could even verify her outside of lit?

I can say this. Whomever Bri was. She (or he) brought something special to lit. They were kind and caring and loving. Sometimes that is all people need. So, for those of you who truly don't care if she was real or not. More power to you. I'd be pretty damn sad if I had gotten invested in someone for all these months to find out they might not have been real or who they portrayed themselves to be.

Those of us that have been here a while know that this has been done before. (fake death)

 

[pandaburr]

Yes. Absolutely everything you said Sassy.

 

[Mo_Bandy]

 

[Lord Pmann]

Well I’m here for this. I loved the energy Bri brought to the PG and she was so sweet to me. But to brush away valid concerns and points others are making because of that would be silly. I do think it’s an important conversation either way.

Also - I had no idea the pics were fake but after hearing what her age was and knowing the pics I saw she posted previously? That really threw me off.

I found her persona, while incredibly friendly, to seem a bit off. She was a little TOO friendly for my liking. I mean, I know people say that about me, but still.

I never verified her pics were fake. They were just too perfect. Not that my pics aren’t that good; they are. But others’ aren’t. And then she is allegedly almost 50? Psssssh.

 

[SassySheDevil]

I found her persona, while incredibly friendly, to seem a bit off. She was a little TOO friendly for my liking. I mean, I know people say that about me, but still.

I never verified her pics were fake. They were just too perfect. Not that my pics aren’t that good; they are. But others’ aren’t. And then she is allegedly almost 50? Psssssh.

Almost 50 might even be generous. I was 20 when I got married and that was 30 years ago. He claimed they'd been together 35 years. Now that is doable. But I started dating my husband at 16 which was 34 years ago. So, either he means they've been together (but definitely not married for 35) for 35 years (So 14) or that is also a lie.

 

[pandaburr]

Shiiiit. Yeah I get that one a lot too. People telling
me all the time my pics are too perfect. All the dramatic sighs.

But in all seriousness, I would’ve never guessed she was a fraud. I don’t usually question what someone tells me unless they give a reason but I can see how others closer to her feel really confused and defensive right now.

 

[pandaburr]

Y’all are some internet sleuths though for real. Mathing and everything

 

[Mo_Bandy]

Almost 50 might even be generous. I was 20 when I got married and that was 30 years ago. He claimed they'd been together 35 years. Now that is doable. But I started dating my husband at 16 which was 34 years ago. So, either he means they've been together (but definitely not married for 35) for 35 years (So 14) or that is also a lie.

He said they met first year of high school and he had known her 35 years. That is why estimated 50 on her Animals thread. I think whatever…a lot does not add up. Plus their writing style was almost identical.

 

[barefootgirl69]

The timeline is way off.
An injury Thursday, released from the hospital Friday, passed in the night...on a weekend.

But, by Wednesday, she was already cremated and ashes scattered (the place he mentions is closed on Tuesday, btw. He could have done it Wed?). I've never known a funeral home to work so quickly!

When did the autopsy happen? I've never seen it done so quickly, except on TV. Both my cousin and my brother died in their sleep and it was weeks before we had results back...but he already knew she had an aneurysm.

It infuriates me that people have no regard for others. We open ourselves up and share and are vulnerable, and they take advantage for whatever reason. It's happened. Most of us have seen it. I'm looking at you, lancegibs. And to another who took advantage of my friendship.

 

[Taegul]

Shiiiit. Yeah I get that one a lot too. People telling
me all the time my pics are too perfect. All the dramatic sighs.

But in all seriousness, I would’ve never guessed she was a fraud. I don’t usually question what someone tells me unless they give a reason but I can see how others closer to her feel really confused and defensive right now.

Hey Scarlett Johansson, how you doin'?

 

[pandaburr]

Hey Scarlett Johansson, how you doin'?

Lol i freaking wish.

 

[SassySheDevil]

He said they met first year of high school and he had known her 35 years. That is why estimated 50 on her Animals thread. I think whatever…a lot does not add up. Plus their writing style was almost identical.

Yes, I did see that too. A lot of very similar writing styles.
And actually. Now that I think about it. It was his reply to you that made me perk up.
Everyone on lit knows you have this persona you play. You are not known as the super sweet to everyone kind of guy (no offence because I do know it is a persona)
But he replied to you as if he knew that people typically did not respond to you in kind. The way he said to you "Of course she would be nice to you, because she saw the good in you" implies that he knew not everyone did.

 

[Mattentive]

Screenshots of her last three chests and the real pics. Before they went *Poof*.

 

[Lord Pmann]

When did the autopsy happen?

Perhaps a pre-mortem autopsy?

 

[SassySheDevil]

The timeline is way off.
An injury Thursday, released from the hospital Friday, passed in the night...on a weekend.

But, by Wednesday, she was already cremated and ashes scattered (the place he mentions is closed on Tuesday, btw. He could have done it Wed?). I've never known a funeral home to work so quickly!

When did the autopsy happen? I've never seen it done so quickly, except on TV. Both my cousin and my brother died in their sleep and it was weeks before we had results back...but he already knew she had an aneurysm.

It infuriates me that people have no regard for others. We open ourselves up and share and are vulnerable, and they take advantage for whatever reason. It's happened. Most of us have seen it. I'm looking at you, lancegibs. And to another who took advantage of my friendship.

I am not a Doctor by any means. But the Aneurysm is throwing me off. I don't know enough about them. So I had to google.
What is an aneurysm and how is it caused?
An aneurysm occurs when part of an artery wall weakens, allowing it to abnormally balloon out or widen. The causes of aneurysms are sometimes unknown. Some people are born with them. They can also be hereditary. Aortic disease or an injury may also cause an aneurysm. A family history of aneurysm may increase your risk for developing an aneurysm .

Can a brain aneurysm be caused by a head injury?​

Dr. Abhineet Chowdharyanswered
Neurosurgery 19 years experience
Sometimes: Rarely, head trauma can damage a blood vessel (such as in a dissection) and cause a brain aneurysm. Most of the time, head trauma does not lead to the formation of brain aneurysms.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Screenshots of her last three chests and the real pics. Before they went *Poof*.

I’m headed off to research for a bit…

But she’s totally 50+.

 

[Mo_Bandy]

Yes, I did see that too. A lot of very similar writing styles.
And actually. Now that I think about it. It was his reply to you that made me perk up.
Everyone on lit knows you have this persona you play. You are not known as the super sweet to everyone kind of guy (no offence because I do know it is a persona)
But he replied to you as if he knew that people typically did not respond to you in kind. The way he said to you "Of course she would be nice to you, because she saw the good in you" implies that he knew not everyone did.

Yeah that struck me as really odd too. Plus how many spouses know about each others cyber life and friends by name? I mean come on. I am lucky to pay attention to one or two of my wife’s real life friends. And also I only talked with Bri a couple times here on boards and it was mostly music related. I think she lied to me about seeing a band I am really into in their small home town. I dont know. I think she/he had us all fooled. I guess good job or well played but pretty damn sad.

 

[YoWhatsGood]

Screenshots of her last three chests and the real pics. Before they went *Poof*.

That’s who people believed was a 50 year old woman? Jesus guys, I might have to pull up with my Nigerian prince account if it’s that easy around here

 

[SassySheDevil]

Screenshots of her last three chests and the real pics. Before they went *Poof*.

Definitely not 50+

 

[J_Bone]

Wow....just wow.

 

[FunLi]

Screenshots of her last three chests and the real pics. Before they went *Poof*.

I mean, do you have an album of mine saved too? If not, I’m kinda jealous..just saying

Edit to add: please for the love of goodness do not send me screenshots of myself. It’s happened, it creeps me out. The end. I was just making light of a really weird situation.

 

[Lord Pmann]

That’s who people believed was a 50 year old woman? Jesus guys, I might have to pull up with my Nigerian prince account if it’s that easy around here

We believe what we want. She also had three vaginas, each tinier and more cleanly shaved than the last. And she could embiggen her tits on command.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Yeah that struck me as really odd too. Plus how many spouses know about each others cyber life and friends by name? I mean come on. I am lucky to pay attention to one or two of my wife’s real life friends. And also I only talked with Bri a couple times here on boards and it was mostly music related. I think she lied to me about seeing a band I am really into in their small home town. I dont know. I think she/he had us all fooled. I guess good job or well played but pretty damn sad.

Well. It is rare for sure. But my husband is on here. He knows of my closest friends and has met many of them. Lit truly was not his thing. So for the most part he leaves it as mine. But once someone becomes a part of my life. He knows about them. But I do know that is rare. He even has a couple of them on Facebook.
But if I die. There are plenty of people to say they talked to me/voiced with me/video chatted with me/and even met me.
So far there isn't a single one that can say that of her.