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Looking to form a group of similar guys for friendship and fun

Count me in as well. I began seeing (albeit reluctantly) an older gay male after my divorce. He was a dominant type and got me to do everything. He used me and I could have left at any time. But I did not. A year-long homosexual relationship but still deep within the closet
 
Well, looks like an other thread for me to join in on! I am 61, married with kids, and my wife has no idea that I’m bi-curious at all. There’s a lot she’s not aware of, but that’s another story. I’ve said elsewhere that this began for me when I found myself unexpectedly turned on by pictures of trans women and it just went on from there.

So since… at least October if not earlier, I’ve been trying to explore this by getting sucked off. And I’ve had all kinds of responses when I’ve posted on Doublelist and even Reddit, but so many of them just seem to have lost interest partway through working out a meetup. Almost two weeks ago, someone finally showed up for some CarPlay, and though they were enthusiastic about sucking me, they started fondling me to get me hard first, and then when I was hard he added some lube (which I brought for him to use on himself) and before I knew it I was cumming. Unfortunately he didn’t keep jerking me, I told him I was getting close and then he pulled out his own cock at that point, wanting to use my cum as lube on his own cock, but I was too far gone and came anyway (as intense as it was I wish he’d kept stroking the whole time). But that’s it. I still haven’t gotten sucked off, and I feel like I need that before considering the next step, which would be topping another guy… and I don’t know if I’ll get to that, or even jerking a other guy, or sucking a cock, or bottoming (although is absolutely do that for a trans woman… and I’d probably not hesitate topping a convincing cd).

So if any of you are around the Tacoma area and want to help me out, reach out to me!
 
Just started to participate with such a group. Powerfully helpful and learning something new about my own sexuality and the joys of M2M play. Hope you get your group going!
 
PeterWatson said:
I thought it would be iteresting to see if there is a group of members like me who would be interested in forming a smaller and more intimate circle. I am think it would be for:

1) People 50 and older, because we operate at a different speed than the younger members and often have ED issues.
2) Closetted bi-sexuals because we face different challenges and restrictions than open members.
3) Married with family (or was married with family) as that introduces an important and common shared experience.
4) Still very attracted to the opposite sex (masturbation type attratcted), but can't stop thinking about same sex fun, trans, CD, and any fetish you are into.
5) Little to no real experience, because we are not players, just people with strong wants, imaginations, desires.
6) Looking for friendship and the excitement of sharing stories, fantasies, real experiences, best loved photos and videos, and all things erotic with likeminded friends.
7) And this may eliminate many potential members, you have to be active in the group, participate, comment, post, and take part in what is going on. If you just want to lurk and type five word comments all the time, maybe this is not the group for you.

I am hoping to find friends who can share without judgement on others in the group. Support, understanding, encouragement, mixed in with a lot of hot sex. It could be a really great circle of friends.

PM me if you are iterested in becoming a member of such a group. Tell me a bit about yourself ( rule 7 :) ) and we will see if this goes anywhere.
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It sounds like a very fun group, since I don’t have anyone to talk about this
 
curious2024 said:
50,s...divorced more than once, have had bi/gay thoughts as long as I can remember. Still very much find females sexy but want to experience m/m at least once.
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Sounds familiar. I met an older gay gentleman who understood my needs and gradually immersed me into the lifestyle - discreetly. I served him as he was a top
 
Hello everyone who read and posted to this chat. Time for an update.

I started this thread just over six months ago hoping to form an active community of bi men over 50 where people could explore, chat, make friends and have safe erotic fun. Another literotica member offered to host a chat group on his server and we got that up and going. We got a reasonable amount of interest and people did join but, in my opinion, it didn't really take off.

It seems to me that the vast majority of people who showed interest were people who wanted to read others posts but not actively participate. Some did, for a while, and a few were actually quite active, but most either would post one or two sentences or post nothing at all. It's like trying to get a campfire started. If you get it right, it grows and becomes self sustaining. If conditions are not quite right, it flares up promisingly for a while and then slowly dimenishes until there is just a little smoldering and little hope for a good fire. Then, even the committed members tend to drift away.

I did try to get the fire going, as did a few others on the site with me, but it just did not take off.

Back in June, being a sexually frustrated bisexual male, I was hoping to find a few good friends to form a great online relationship with. Then the idea moved to a forum where lots of people could participate. I think I am going to return to the idea of a few good friends. Perhaps, in order to grow, relationships need to be more focussed and that means spending more time with a smaller group of likeminded people. I am not sure if that is the recipie.

It would be great if the friends were local because I really would like to have the opporturnity to meet in person and act on some of the things I have been fantasizing about. I have not, however, found anyone living in Mississauga, Ontario and when I looked on Doublelist, I had a similar experience. People show some interest, but many get cold feet or just drop communication after a few emails. It seems there are those who are looking for quick anonomous sex and are prepared to take lots of chances, and those who want to go slow and really trust a potential partner. These are the people I was looking for, but they also seem to be the type who get excited at first but then fail to follow through. I don't want to generalize, but this is what I have found. If I found the right person, I would meet and I would engage in sex with that person. I have had M/M sex before and enjoyed it. But for many, its fun to fantasize and participate up to a point, but meeting and taking that actual step, to put your hand, or mouth on another man's cock, or let him do that to you, is just a crevass that is too big to cross.

So if there are people out there who are bisexual, bi curious, cross dressers, trans, or whatever who are interested in ongoing conversation, please feel free to PM me. Maybe we will hit it off. Maybe not. One has to try to see if the shoe fits. If you live in the Mississauga/Toronto area, then even better, but not essential as I am happy to make online friends from any part of the globe. Just looking for someone sincere who wants to engage, not just exchange 5 word messages.
 
hello, Peter, I hope you now get the attention you deserve with your request. I live in Antwerp, Belgium, so an online relationship is what I am looking for, I am a crossdresser, sweet, a bit shy, obedient and submissive, I am always dressed in sexy lingerie,short skirts and high heels,i like older man for long term relationship,i want his girlfriend,
be a wife or a slut, I am honest, respectful and reliable. You can ask me anything you want to know, shymalea62@gmail.com
 
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