asian2015
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While I still would like to chat (with the right person/people), this thread has mostly evolved into a form of sharing/discussion. (See below ** for list of topics).
Feel free to contribute here ie: post here in this forum. Do NOT send me the answers in the chat room or through PM/Inbox - I wont be replying, as it will automatically be trashed.
If you'd like to chat, please first read my profile notes.
Then tell me about yourself as well as what interests you (see Q7).
If we match, I'll definitely post you a reply.
If PMs are necessary, I'll PM you.
If all you're looking for is to talk dirty, it's probably not going to be with me. I'm not looking for 1 time thrills.
Update as at September 2026:
*If you do not receive a reply, whether in the forum or PMs, don't whine about it and even worse, don't continue to send unwanted PMs repeatedly. (psssttt - Its annoying!)
This is not a case of "if you dont succeed, try again" -- this does NOT apply on lit.
Respect the (implied) word "no".
Lit is huge, there will be others suited for you.
++++++++++++++
** For convenience, here's a list of all the topics that we've talked about:
1. Have you ever met a lit-ster?
If you did, how did it go?
If you havent, would you?
2. Guys, if you send a PM to a woman, are you really expecting a reply or is it "no biggie" if she doesnt send you a reply? How do you feel?
3. This probably happens with both sexes, but since I generally chat with guys, my question would be: why do guys lie when they chat online?
4. How has your experience on lit been? if you have any particular experience you'd like to share, please do so.
5. Since I'm from South East Asia, have you been to this region?
Yes? Please share where you've been and what you liked/disliked about it.
No? Well, if you could, where would you go? Why that destination?
6. whats your best experience from lit? this could be anything from a story (tell us which one); a litster; a voice; a picture; something new you learnt about yourself; .... etc etc.
7. tell me about yourself and what you'd like to chat about.
8. have you ever been to a lit gathering?
Not forgetting: do you have any thoughts/questions to ask and share?
Here are some new posts:
"High, low, buffalo" - 31 March 2026
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/looking-to-chat.1349804/post-102635942
High - one positive thing
Low - one struggle
Buffalo - something interesting
These are all items related to you.
An example:
He's a proud father.
His son is being bullied at school.
He's also a new dad...to 7 chicks
, he's always wanted to rear some chickens.
Update as at September 2026:
It is now 10 years later since I started this Forum.
We have a few new conversation topics, some as contributed by friends/forum regulars:
Series 1-6 were the above original list of 8 questions.
Series 7 - 9 August 2026:
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/looking-to-chat.1349804/post-103424179
(i) a new (simple) question: "What's on your bucket list?"
(ii) contribute an idea for the next Series 8 - for eg: what would you like to know/ask?; what would you like to talk about?; do you have any game/challenge ideas?; etc etc...
Series 8 - 22 August 2026:
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/looking-to-chat.1349804/post-103497679
(i) [contributed by @shyone458]
What is something that once you learned or did it, you wish you had done sooner?
(ii) [contributed by @jonnoback]
How many continents have you visited? plus: which is your favorite, and why...?
Series 9 - 6 September 2026:
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/looking-to-chat.1349804/post-103576260
1. contributed by @ChedderMonkey :
What is your most unbelievable/memorable but 100% true story?
2. contributed by @jonnoback :
How many countries have you visited? Feel free to list them if you like, especially if there aren't too many, and share some details about your favorite one.
Let's go...pick one topic and talk about it at length, or answer all, if you like!
Feel free to join in!
~~~~~~~~~
The original post:
i'm bored and would like to chat with someone who's interested in more than sexual chat. (Yes, I know this is literotica)
Allow me to clarify: no, we WONT be chatting or role-playing about your fantasies - at least, not on the first chat and not if I dont know you. Thank you for understanding!
Feel free to contribute here ie: post here in this forum. Do NOT send me the answers in the chat room or through PM/Inbox - I wont be replying, as it will automatically be trashed.
If you'd like to chat, please first read my profile notes.
Then tell me about yourself as well as what interests you (see Q7).
If we match, I'll definitely post you a reply.
If PMs are necessary, I'll PM you.
If all you're looking for is to talk dirty, it's probably not going to be with me. I'm not looking for 1 time thrills.
Update as at September 2026:
*If you do not receive a reply, whether in the forum or PMs, don't whine about it and even worse, don't continue to send unwanted PMs repeatedly. (psssttt - Its annoying!)
This is not a case of "if you dont succeed, try again" -- this does NOT apply on lit.
Respect the (implied) word "no".
Lit is huge, there will be others suited for you.
++++++++++++++
** For convenience, here's a list of all the topics that we've talked about:
1. Have you ever met a lit-ster?
If you did, how did it go?
If you havent, would you?
2. Guys, if you send a PM to a woman, are you really expecting a reply or is it "no biggie" if she doesnt send you a reply? How do you feel?
3. This probably happens with both sexes, but since I generally chat with guys, my question would be: why do guys lie when they chat online?
4. How has your experience on lit been? if you have any particular experience you'd like to share, please do so.
5. Since I'm from South East Asia, have you been to this region?
Yes? Please share where you've been and what you liked/disliked about it.
No? Well, if you could, where would you go? Why that destination?
6. whats your best experience from lit? this could be anything from a story (tell us which one); a litster; a voice; a picture; something new you learnt about yourself; .... etc etc.
7. tell me about yourself and what you'd like to chat about.
8. have you ever been to a lit gathering?
Not forgetting: do you have any thoughts/questions to ask and share?
Here are some new posts:
"High, low, buffalo" - 31 March 2026
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/looking-to-chat.1349804/post-102635942
High - one positive thing
Low - one struggle
Buffalo - something interesting
These are all items related to you.
An example:
He's a proud father.
His son is being bullied at school.
He's also a new dad...to 7 chicks
, he's always wanted to rear some chickens.Update as at September 2026:
It is now 10 years later since I started this Forum.
We have a few new conversation topics, some as contributed by friends/forum regulars:
Series 1-6 were the above original list of 8 questions.
Series 7 - 9 August 2026:
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/looking-to-chat.1349804/post-103424179
(i) a new (simple) question: "What's on your bucket list?"
(ii) contribute an idea for the next Series 8 - for eg: what would you like to know/ask?; what would you like to talk about?; do you have any game/challenge ideas?; etc etc...
Series 8 - 22 August 2026:
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/looking-to-chat.1349804/post-103497679
(i) [contributed by @shyone458]
What is something that once you learned or did it, you wish you had done sooner?
(ii) [contributed by @jonnoback]
How many continents have you visited? plus: which is your favorite, and why...?
Series 9 - 6 September 2026:
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/looking-to-chat.1349804/post-103576260
1. contributed by @ChedderMonkey :
What is your most unbelievable/memorable but 100% true story?
2. contributed by @jonnoback :
How many countries have you visited? Feel free to list them if you like, especially if there aren't too many, and share some details about your favorite one.
Let's go...pick one topic and talk about it at length, or answer all, if you like!
Feel free to join in!
~~~~~~~~~
The original post:
i'm bored and would like to chat with someone who's interested in more than sexual chat. (Yes, I know this is literotica)
Allow me to clarify: no, we WONT be chatting or role-playing about your fantasies - at least, not on the first chat and not if I dont know you. Thank you for understanding!
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