Is this you? I am looking for a wonderful man, I might have many requirements but I know he exists out there...I am looking for a Black or Mulatto man who is athletic, is at least 6 feet, sings or is creative, maybe artistic (Lionel Ritchie type), is funny, supportive of my career goals, can be an equal partner, and knows how to treat a lady. You must be full of personality (no corporate, lifeless clones), be well educated and street wise and have a social consciousness (i.e. be committed to some kind of social justice action) and see endless possibilities in life. I hope that you will be spontaneous, romantic, like to travel and be interested in local culture (no boring Western resorts) and like to have fun. I'd envision cooking supper together in the kitchen listening to Diana Krall, kissing and dancing, drinking wine and then of course, we'd make mad love. You must be direct, honest and be sure of yourself, I want an equal not someone I'd feel like I'd have to take care of. you must be passionate and make me feel like a woman and I would treat you the same and give you room to be the man you want to be. I hope that you will like cats, I have one and he is a good judge of character. I am fit and enjoy the same focus on health, nutrition, exercise and leading a life of slick simplicity. I enjoy financially stability but do not want you to define yourself by your money, your job, but rather your integrity, what you give back to the community and how you live your life. I'm not expecting perfection, as that is not me either, but someone who will challenge me to grow and who will also be open growing himself. Finally, you must be emotionally "fit". I understand some baggage exists, but if you have issues you've not yet dealt with, please take care of it first and know yourself.