Married couple, seniors both have been sexually conservative. During a discussion recently I have found that my wife finds the idea of us being a bit more daring exciting. We've talked a bit about exhibitionism where she would let men see up her skirt while wearing panties, I would like more but for starters that would be fine with me. We live in an area where travel to other towns isn't a problem as she would like to start in an area where we aren't likely to run into others we know. We are both retired and our kids live a good distance from us so we can come and go as we with,so daytime or nighttime adventures both are an option. We're just not sure how to start that is satisfying for both her and I as well as safe. Any ideas or suggestions would be appreciated.
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skitzoid
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Cool, but do it slowly. A simple flash from a hotel window, a bend over with a loose top. things like that. Maybe find a clothing optional resort ( when they open back up ) so she can get a daring as she wants,, and when. Taking pic of her in various poses and states of undress. ( save those pics ) All a easy way to start and not knowing where it will end.
Thanks for the suggestions, I've already figured that we need to go slow, Linda, my wife has always been shy and conservative, always felt she wasn't as sexy or pretty as other women and as much as I like the idea for myself of her showing off I really want it for her to realize that she is desired not just by her husband but by others as well. Thanks for your reply
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An easy and safe way is to have her flash semi truck drivers. In todays cars it is easy for her to be seen while she is driving.
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Just google "fetish club" and the name of your preferred city
the amount of search result returns may surprise you
Check out their websites to get a feel for the environment and age range - you will probably find that retirement age is of no issue for many. You can simply just phone them up for what ever questions you may have.
You may just find yourself in an exotic environment where clothing or lack of it is to impress and be admired. Go along to observe first if you wish, just to gauge your comfort levels. This would be about the safest environment you can find.
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Of course when and if clubs open again
the amount of search result returns may surprise you
Check out their websites to get a feel for the environment and age range - you will probably find that retirement age is of no issue for many. You can simply just phone them up for what ever questions you may have.
You may just find yourself in an exotic environment where clothing or lack of it is to impress and be admired. Go along to observe first if you wish, just to gauge your comfort levels. This would be about the safest environment you can find.
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Of course when and if clubs open again
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The only point I could add is an advisory not to do the public exhibitionism thing. If found doing so more than once, on the record, some locations frown on such behavior. Not saying to not do the naughty-naughty, just suggesting to pick a place where it would be appreciated, and not illegal.
Fetish clubs and clothing-optional locations would be better goto locations to start with.
Fetish clubs and clothing-optional locations would be better goto locations to start with.
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I wouldn't go that far. This can be a lot of fun and one can minimize risk of legal trouble by being careful. I think that's especially true for a woman.
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It depends on what you two want to get out of it but there are plenty of opportunities for something like this. Controlling your environment and being able to select who sees and who does (kids) is a good way to have fun, especially if your wife is the one who's ultimately running the show.
Try having her in a a dress in a park somewhere, if your parks are open. That allows her the freedom to sit at bench, it's outdoors and she can feel the breeze caress her skin.
Another option is anywhere with stairs, like a parking deck.
But she should be the one in control. Suggest the venue or the area, go and allow her to make the decisions and have the power of what she does, and sit back and enjoy. Be supportive, have fun, and make sure to give her orgasms when you get back to home. It's positive reinforcement!
It depends on what you two want to get out of it but there are plenty of opportunities for something like this. Controlling your environment and being able to select who sees and who does (kids) is a good way to have fun, especially if your wife is the one who's ultimately running the show.
Try having her in a a dress in a park somewhere, if your parks are open. That allows her the freedom to sit at bench, it's outdoors and she can feel the breeze caress her skin.
Another option is anywhere with stairs, like a parking deck.
But she should be the one in control. Suggest the venue or the area, go and allow her to make the decisions and have the power of what she does, and sit back and enjoy. Be supportive, have fun, and make sure to give her orgasms when you get back to home. It's positive reinforcement!
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Some ideas:
Start with some things that involve a little naughtiness but no serious exposure, like not wearing a bra or panties outside.
Find places outdoors where she can flash you with no one else around, like a park bench.
From there, have her do things involving a camera, like letting you snap an upskirt photo, or having her take a risque photo and send it to you.
Make sure at all times you give her a lot of positive feedback. Encourage her.
If you want to start her flashing, start where it can seem accidental -- like getting out of a car, or sitting outdoors somewhere with legs parted.
From there, you can get bolder as you choose.
A bold idea that would involve outdoor exposure but consent would be asking a stranger to take a photo of the two of you with your phone, where she flashes the photographer. That way you control the activity but there's still exposure. Most men, if asked, would probably say yes to doing this.
Start with some things that involve a little naughtiness but no serious exposure, like not wearing a bra or panties outside.
Find places outdoors where she can flash you with no one else around, like a park bench.
From there, have her do things involving a camera, like letting you snap an upskirt photo, or having her take a risque photo and send it to you.
Make sure at all times you give her a lot of positive feedback. Encourage her.
If you want to start her flashing, start where it can seem accidental -- like getting out of a car, or sitting outdoors somewhere with legs parted.
From there, you can get bolder as you choose.
A bold idea that would involve outdoor exposure but consent would be asking a stranger to take a photo of the two of you with your phone, where she flashes the photographer. That way you control the activity but there's still exposure. Most men, if asked, would probably say yes to doing this.
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Perhaps in a bar setting. She's sitting at the bar (sans panties) and as she swings her stool to get off her legs spread a little. Someone will notice. Believe me!
