I know I may get told that this is in the wrong section but I am not looking to meet some one from this site. I am looking to meet people in my area in this life style. How does a person new to this way of living meet other people with the same interest? I spent the last 14 years with a very vanilla wife. I don't want to get into a relationship with someone new who does not share my sexual taste. I have been trying to read up on things on line but I have not seen anything on making contact with someone. Any help ya'll can give would be great.