Looking for some advice

[AnAnonGuy]

So I'm hoping this isn't too dour or weird, I just am really not too sure where to go with this but it's really something I want to work out.

So whenever I'm reading erotic literature I have found there are certain types that really bug me. I mean, most of it is when slavery (I mean what is more or less real slavery. Not role-playing or consensual BDSM stuff) and non-consent come in to them. It invokes this physical reaction in me that I think is sort of like distress. It really gets me riled up.

At times, the feelings that spring up, generally to the effect of viewing the stories themselves as inherently bad things, make me worry that I am being some sort of jerky moralizer telling people what is and isn't acceptable to be turned on by.

So what I am wondering is, does anyone have any advice about what I could do about this? I mean, there is a certain "Just don't read it" element, and that's typically what I do, it just becomes sort of difficult because I am completely into a lot of the themes found in that sort of work, just from a consensual, safe angle. That's why, I think, I often find myself running into it.

It just gets difficult as its not something I get over easily. It just the feeling it invokes tends to stick with me for a while. I really don't want to give up on reading the kinker literature that I enjoy just to be certian that I won't encounter it, but I'm not sure how to handle it.

So any advice, or any commentary from anyone with similar experience would be appreciated.

Sorry if this is really dour or melodramatic or out of place. Just been bothered by this for a while and I figured this might be one of the better places to go to for advice.

 

[magicmikeaustin]

So I'm hoping this isn't too dour or weird, I just am really not too sure where to go with this but it's really something I want to work out.

So whenever I'm reading erotic literature I have found there are certain types that really bug me. I mean, most of it is when slavery (I mean what is more or less real slavery. Not role-playing or consensual BDSM stuff) and non-consent come in to them. It invokes this physical reaction in me that I think is sort of like distress. It really gets me riled up.

At times, the feelings that spring up, generally to the effect of viewing the stories themselves as inherently bad things, make me worry that I am being some sort of jerky moralizer telling people what is and isn't acceptable to be turned on by.

So what I am wondering is, does anyone have any advice about what I could do about this? I mean, there is a certain "Just don't read it" element, and that's typically what I do, it just becomes sort of difficult because I am completely into a lot of the themes found in that sort of work, just from a consensual, safe angle. That's why, I think, I often find myself running into it.

It just gets difficult as its not something I get over easily. It just the feeling it invokes tends to stick with me for a while. I really don't want to give up on reading the kinker literature that I enjoy just to be certian that I won't encounter it, but I'm not sure how to handle it.

So any advice, or any commentary from anyone with similar experience would be appreciated.

Sorry if this is really dour or melodramatic or out of place. Just been bothered by this for a while and I figured this might be one of the better places to go to for advice.

what?

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Just keep telling yourself, it's only a movie, it's only a movie...

 

[magicmikeaustin]

Just keep telling yourself, it's only a movie, it's only a movie...

pg or R rated?

 

[marshalt]

What the honest fuck are you talking about?

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

pg or R rated?

What would Dr. Seuss fucking your mom in the ass be rated?

I guess it's based on some moral code of conduct established in the 13th century.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

What the honest fuck are you talking about?

His fantasy is fucking with his reality.

 

[marshalt]

His fantasy is fucking with his reality.

I keep trying to make that happen, but Kate Beckinsale won't respond to my emails.

 

[Aquagal]

So I'm hoping this isn't too dour or weird, I just am really not too sure where to go with this but it's really something I want to work out.

So whenever I'm reading erotic literature I have found there are certain types that really bug me. I mean, most of it is when slavery (I mean what is more or less real slavery. Not role-playing or consensual BDSM stuff) and non-consent come in to them. It invokes this physical reaction in me that I think is sort of like distress. It really gets me riled up.

At times, the feelings that spring up, generally to the effect of viewing the stories themselves as inherently bad things, make me worry that I am being some sort of jerky moralizer telling people what is and isn't acceptable to be turned on by.

So what I am wondering is, does anyone have any advice about what I could do about this? I mean, there is a certain "Just don't read it" element, and that's typically what I do, it just becomes sort of difficult because I am completely into a lot of the themes found in that sort of work, just from a consensual, safe angle. That's why, I think, I often find myself running into it.

It just gets difficult as its not something I get over easily. It just the feeling it invokes tends to stick with me for a while. I really don't want to give up on reading the kinker literature that I enjoy just to be certian that I won't encounter it, but I'm not sure how to handle it.

So any advice, or any commentary from anyone with similar experience would be appreciated.

Sorry if this is really dour or melodramatic or out of place. Just been bothered by this for a while and I figured this might be one of the better places to go to for advice.

.....

 

[ElijaRDC]

So I'm hoping this isn't too dour or weird, I just am really not too sure where to go with this but it's really something I want to work out.

So whenever I'm reading erotic literature I have found there are certain types that really bug me. I mean, most of it is when slavery (I mean what is more or less real slavery. Not role-playing or consensual BDSM stuff) and non-consent come in to them. It invokes this physical reaction in me that I think is sort of like distress. It really gets me riled up.

At times, the feelings that spring up, generally to the effect of viewing the stories themselves as inherently bad things, make me worry that I am being some sort of jerky moralizer telling people what is and isn't acceptable to be turned on by.

So what I am wondering is, does anyone have any advice about what I could do about this? I mean, there is a certain "Just don't read it" element, and that's typically what I do, it just becomes sort of difficult because I am completely into a lot of the themes found in that sort of work, just from a consensual, safe angle. That's why, I think, I often find myself running into it.

It just gets difficult as its not something I get over easily. It just the feeling it invokes tends to stick with me for a while. I really don't want to give up on reading the kinker literature that I enjoy just to be certian that I won't encounter it, but I'm not sure how to handle it.

So any advice, or any commentary from anyone with similar experience would be appreciated.

Sorry if this is really dour or melodramatic or out of place. Just been bothered by this for a while and I figured this might be one of the better places to go to for advice.

There is no advice for this.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

I keep trying to make that happen, but Kate Beckinsale won't respond to my emails.

You have to find out where she lives and go there. That's stalking 101 for crisakes.

 

[ElijaRDC]

Also, asking the GB for advice is somewhat more pointless than asking a dumpster fire for advice.

 

[marshalt]

You have to find out where she lives and go there. That's stalking 101 for crisakes.

That's not how my fantasy works!

 

[1sickbastard]

Also, asking the GB for advice is somewhat more pointless than asking a dumpster fire for advice.

But it is often funnier with less chance of being hauled off for a psych evaluation.

 

[Noor]

Don't read it. Change your interactions with the world. You are correct it seems that everywhere people want to enslave others in some way, do what you can to not support this.

 

[parodyluvr75]

I don't like westerns, so I don't read them. Don't read them.

 

[CandiCame]

So I'm hoping this isn't too dour or weird, I just am really not too sure where to go with this but it's really something I want to work out.

So whenever I'm reading erotic literature I have found there are certain types that really bug me. I mean, most of it is when slavery (I mean what is more or less real slavery. Not role-playing or consensual BDSM stuff) and non-consent come in to them. It invokes this physical reaction in me that I think is sort of like distress. It really gets me riled up.

At times, the feelings that spring up, generally to the effect of viewing the stories themselves as inherently bad things, make me worry that I am being some sort of jerky moralizer telling people what is and isn't acceptable to be turned on by.

So what I am wondering is, does anyone have any advice about what I could do about this? I mean, there is a certain "Just don't read it" element, and that's typically what I do, it just becomes sort of difficult because I am completely into a lot of the themes found in that sort of work, just from a consensual, safe angle. That's why, I think, I often find myself running into it.

It just gets difficult as its not something I get over easily. It just the feeling it invokes tends to stick with me for a while. I really don't want to give up on reading the kinker literature that I enjoy just to be certian that I won't encounter it, but I'm not sure how to handle it.

So any advice, or any commentary from anyone with similar experience would be appreciated.

Sorry if this is really dour or melodramatic or out of place. Just been bothered by this for a while and I figured this might be one of the better places to go to for advice.

Don't read anything I've ever written. That's my biggest kink.

 

[PayDay]

So I'm hoping this isn't too dour or weird, I just am really not too sure where to go with this but it's really something I want to work out.

So whenever I'm reading erotic literature I have found there are certain types that really bug me. I mean, most of it is when slavery (I mean what is more or less real slavery. Not role-playing or consensual BDSM stuff) and non-consent come in to them. It invokes this physical reaction in me that I think is sort of like distress. It really gets me riled up.

At times, the feelings that spring up, generally to the effect of viewing the stories themselves as inherently bad things, make me worry that I am being some sort of jerky moralizer telling people what is and isn't acceptable to be turned on by.

So what I am wondering is, does anyone have any advice about what I could do about this? I mean, there is a certain "Just don't read it" element, and that's typically what I do, it just becomes sort of difficult because I am completely into a lot of the themes found in that sort of work, just from a consensual, safe angle. That's why, I think, I often find myself running into it.

It just gets difficult as its not something I get over easily. It just the feeling it invokes tends to stick with me for a while. I really don't want to give up on reading the kinker literature that I enjoy just to be certian that I won't encounter it, but I'm not sure how to handle it.

So any advice, or any commentary from anyone with similar experience would be appreciated.

Sorry if this is really dour or melodramatic or out of place. Just been bothered by this for a while and I figured this might be one of the better places to go to for advice.

"If you don't like it, don't read it."

 

[Debbie]

Also, asking the GB for advice is somewhat more pointless than asking a dumpster fire for advice.

Some of us give pretty good advice or is that head?

I'm not sure.

 

[girlsmiley]

I don't like westerns, so I don't read them. Don't read them.

Clever bird.

 

[Laurel]

So I'm hoping this isn't too dour or weird, I just am really not too sure where to go with this but it's really something I want to work out.

So whenever I'm reading erotic literature I have found there are certain types that really bug me. I mean, most of it is when slavery (I mean what is more or less real slavery. Not role-playing or consensual BDSM stuff) and non-consent come in to them. It invokes this physical reaction in me that I think is sort of like distress. It really gets me riled up.

At times, the feelings that spring up, generally to the effect of viewing the stories themselves as inherently bad things, make me worry that I am being some sort of jerky moralizer telling people what is and isn't acceptable to be turned on by.

So what I am wondering is, does anyone have any advice about what I could do about this? I mean, there is a certain "Just don't read it" element, and that's typically what I do, it just becomes sort of difficult because I am completely into a lot of the themes found in that sort of work, just from a consensual, safe angle. That's why, I think, I often find myself running into it.

It just gets difficult as its not something I get over easily. It just the feeling it invokes tends to stick with me for a while. I really don't want to give up on reading the kinker literature that I enjoy just to be certian that I won't encounter it, but I'm not sure how to handle it.

So any advice, or any commentary from anyone with similar experience would be appreciated.

Sorry if this is really dour or melodramatic or out of place. Just been bothered by this for a while and I figured this might be one of the better places to go to for advice.

It's perfectly fine and normal to have strong reactions to/opinions on fiction. I do. Everyone does.

But you should be aware that here are other people who likely have the same reaction to fictional topics that really turn you on as you do to ones you find abhorrent.

Being open-minded doesn't mean thinking every kink is hot and rad. It means realizing that your opinion is just that. It's an opinion. It's not fact. And while you are totally entitled to have your own set of opinions and feelings, so are others.

The right way to handle it is to read and let read. Have your opinions and let others have theirs.

 

[Amy_K]

So I'm hoping this isn't too dour or weird, I just am really not too sure where to go with this but it's really something I want to work out.

So whenever I'm reading erotic literature I have found there are certain types that really bug me. I mean, most of it is when slavery (I mean what is more or less real slavery. Not role-playing or consensual BDSM stuff) and non-consent come in to them. It invokes this physical reaction in me that I think is sort of like distress. It really gets me riled up.

At times, the feelings that spring up, generally to the effect of viewing the stories themselves as inherently bad things, make me worry that I am being some sort of jerky moralizer telling people what is and isn't acceptable to be turned on by.

So what I am wondering is, does anyone have any advice about what I could do about this? I mean, there is a certain "Just don't read it" element, and that's typically what I do, it just becomes sort of difficult because I am completely into a lot of the themes found in that sort of work, just from a consensual, safe angle. That's why, I think, I often find myself running into it.

It just gets difficult as its not something I get over easily. It just the feeling it invokes tends to stick with me for a while. I really don't want to give up on reading the kinker literature that I enjoy just to be certian that I won't encounter it, but I'm not sure how to handle it.

So any advice, or any commentary from anyone with similar experience would be appreciated.

Sorry if this is really dour or melodramatic or out of place. Just been bothered by this for a while and I figured this might be one of the better places to go to for advice.

Pat Robertson hates porn too. Sometimes he has to watch a movie a few times just to make sure.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

It's perfectly fine and normal to have strong reactions to/opinions on fiction. I do. Everyone does.

But you should be aware that here are other people who likely have the same reaction to fictional topics that really turn you on as you do to ones you find abhorrent.

Being open-minded doesn't mean thinking every kink is hot and rad. It means realizing that your opinion is just that. It's an opinion. It's not fact. And while you are totally entitled to have your own set of opinions and feelings, so are others.

The right way to handle it is to read and let read. Have your opinions and let others have theirs.

Judge not lest ye be judged. I thought you might have some Catholic in you.