looking for my sub

[Daddy4afuktoy]

So here goes, I'm going to try and articulate this as well as possible and hope it interests the right person. Im gonna start out with some broad strokes first and then narrowing it down a bit. First i'll start with me I'm 30 years old and a Dominant male, but im very open-minded and flexible to different ideas, opinions and suggestions... the thought of being and need to be in complete control of everything all the time isnt a must for me. I'm very much about the pleasure and satisfaction of who i'm with above my own and I honestly prefer giving over receiving a good bit of the time. It's like this mentality and switch inside me that getting my partner off and experiencing that, her reaction to the things im doing, the moaning, breathing, squirming, whimpering, gasping, begging... all the mannerisms, the looks on her face, all that encompasses her getting off and knowing that it's because of me and the things im doing gives me as much pleasure and gets me off as much as if it's me getting it. I like to think i'm quite intelligent, I am funny although not everyone gets or has the sametype of sense of humor. I can be very sarcastic, smart ass, dark and slightly twisted at times so beware. Intelligence is also a must for me in a partner, the mind is the biggest sex organ(stimulate my body im turned on for hours, stimulate my mind it never ends) so it's not just the everyday stuff. I do need someone with a mind of her own, opinions of her own, ideals, passions. A person who isnt afraid to give her opinion or point of view and debate and not get walked all over. I dont want or expect someone just because she's a sub to be weak and just forfeit all of that and adopt all of my beliefs and opinions just because i'm a Dom. I'd so much rather have an intelligent open-minded and respectful discussion.Communication is a huge thing for me especially in this type of relationship, as well as trust, comfortability, patience, forgiveness and understanding. In my opinion trust is without a doubt the most important part of a D/s relationship even more so than a 'vanilla' relationship... when a woman submits to a man she's trusting that man to guide her, take care of her happiness, satisfy her sexual, take care of her emotional needs, do whats best for not only him and them, but her as well. She's trusting him with her mind and body in every way. Sadly i've heard quite a few horror stories where subs who were fairly new to the lifestyle which made them more vulnerable and naive because they didnt have someone educate them properly and were far too trusting and ended up being used, mistreated, walked all over because they were with 'Doms' and I use that loosely who made it all about them and all about being in control and doing whatever they wanted without taking their subs feelings, wants, needs into consideration atall which is just beyond disgusting, but I digress. I am looking for potentially a long distance relationship or long distance playmate with the possibility and maybe even hope of meeting and making it more than just that andim doing it that way because it seems increasingly difficult to just find someone where one already is that have the same interests, desires, wants and needs, so im all about creative solutions. I will say age isnt an issue I love all women 18 to lets say mid to early 40's. Hm Marriage may or may not be an issue, so if you are married and looking I wouldnt call it adealbreaker right away, but there are certain things I have to have in a relationship that are a lot of times not possible for them. Last but not least i'm going to be completely open about my thoughts when it comes to looks for me. Now i'm not going to lie and say looks dont matter (and I dont want to cause an uproar or riot or something, but anyone that says looks dont matter is lying through their teeth. Being drop dead super model gorgeous may not matter or being thin as a stick with a36-24-36 body maynot matter (and whatever is super hot to women) but looks matter because it's physically impossible to be intimate and sexual with someone you're not attracted to and I dont want to assume, but I think thats the same for the majority of us and thats ALL I mean by looks matter... just someone i'm attracted to and I dont expect anyone not physically attracted to me to want to jump into anything with me either lol. So hopefully that didnt run many people off, I just believe in 100% honesty about everything, no matter how bad or hard it might be, I want to know everything about who im with, the good things, cute things, bad things, flaws, habits. I think it'sreally important to share and be an open book. So i'll finish this short story with the sexual aspects im looking for... Im obviously a Dom and most of the time lean towards Daddy dom, but i'm flexible with that... I am looking for someone pretty open minded and not shy or holding back. I can understand and am perfectly ok with easing into things until there is a level of trust and comfort, but once thats there I want her to be looking to let her inner slut out with me. I very much enjoy roleplaying and would like someone thats equally into it... and some of my favorite and the ones that turn me on the most and I get into the most obviously Daddy/daughter, but thats been fairly common with me, but it's still great. There are a few others however that im looking to findsomeone to experiment more with and play and really get into them just to see and know if it does the same or maybe I enjoy it more, so... I'm really interested in and want someone to play Brother/sister (older or younger) Dominate son/submissive mom and uncle/niece came up recently. However beyond that talking and playing on the phone/voice on a regular basis is a definite must. I'm also really looking for and interested in someone comfortable with, willing to and even enjoys being on cam and taking pictures. I'm not talking just dirty pictures and being dirty on cam. I'm talking just laying in bed at night at times on cam and just talking to talk, about the day or about who knows, just nothing at all, but just because there is a distance looking into their eyes while talking, seeing the smiles, laughs, sighs, all of that which helps you know a person that much better. Although I also do mean playing on cam too, but all thats stuff that can be discussed and isnt automatically a deal breaaker and the same goes for pictures, just normal pictures like maybe a smile while in bed talking to me or maybe whats being worn in the morning. Of course obviously naughty ones when it comes to that anything from surprising me by texting me a picture in your braand panties completely without me knowing or letting me tell you what to wear and how to pose etc, but not just doing it to do it I would really like someone who likes to do it and wants to. So yeah, now that i've written a fucking novel and hopefully people actually read the whole thing lol. If you're interested and curious andthink you might enjoy it and it sounds like you dont hesitate and dont be scared, i only bite at appropriate times