Looking for exotice/erotic discussion one -one

[dilfek2002]

Hello I am and indian 37 and feel that instead of keeping sex feelings in your mind and make your mind polluted.. we should discuss them... i really love one-one discussion but is not offended to discussion in forum.. i would love to meet interesting people from any country.. I would love to see if I can find people from india.

 

[dilfek2002]

I do not know why no one is replying on this. do you think it is something wrong. A discussion is first thing which releases tension in social environment and I am not asking you people to start directly with me one-one discussion. When you make friends in group you talk to all and then pick a few whom you become friend with... am i wrong .. in saying this...

 

[Lauren Hynde]

Well, there are several things that are "wrong", in my opinion.

For example: this forum is part of what is, literature notwithstanding, a pornographic site. I doubt that there are many registered members of a pornographic site, readers or authors of pornography, that would agree that "sex feelings", whatever those are, "make your mind polluted".

Another problem is this: all you said was "we should discuss". How many discussions do you know of that ensue like this? If you want to start a discussion, you need to find a topic, ask a question, make people want to answer. If you only say "let's talk politics" and leave it like that, no one will have anything to say. The subject is too broad, there is no way to tackle it, so people will just shrug and ignore it.

Adding that you would also love to see if you can find people from India doesn't help discussion either, by the way. It just makes it all sound like a personal ad.

 

[dilfek2002]

hiya

Hi Lauren,
I agree with whatever you have said. My point here was to see that if some one wants to discuss about erotic discussion. I really wanted to share some fantasies and feelings which i have but was really shy to discuss it in open. Thanks for giving your opinion. I can only say thanks. I want to discuss on sex as a pleasure or sex as a duty. I mean culture up here in Asia is very diefferent from Europe or other places.

 

[Lauren Hynde]

I want to discuss on sex as a pleasure or sex as a duty. I mean culture up here in Asia is very diefferent from Europe or other places.

Now there is a good starting point for discussion.

Personally, I don't even want to conceive of sex as a duty. I'm very much a mainstream western young woman in that aspect. To dissociate sex from pleasure is not something I want to subject myself to. Even considering whatever dark fantasies may lurk, there is always a prevailing element (hidden or not) of pleasure.

If sex becomes a duty, there is something wrong. I can understand the cultural pressures for it, be it in Asia, Europe, or anywhere else, to produce descendents. That's a pressure on both the man and the woman. I don't understand considering sex a marital duty per se, however. If it is a duty, the relationship is something other than marriage.

 

[dilfek2002]

Now there is a good starting point for discussion.

Personally, I don't even want to conceive of sex as a duty. I'm very much a mainstream western young woman in that aspect. To dissociate sex from pleasure is not something I want to subject myself to. Even considering whatever dark fantasies may lurk, there is always a prevailing element (hidden or not) of pleasure.

If sex becomes a duty, there is something wrong. I can understand the cultural pressures for it, be it in Asia, Europe, or anywhere else, to produce descendents. That's a pressure on both the man and the woman. I don't understand considering sex a marital duty per se, however. If it is a duty, the relationship is something other than marriage.

Yeah i do agree with it.. i do not know if you are married or not.. but i am.. and i feel that sex is not limited to your wife.. do you think it is bad if we do have sex with other females.. how does a female think...

 

[M's girl]

I think you will have a better chance of getting reactions, apart from Lauren's, in How To than on this part of the board, which is mainly meant for questions in OTHER languages than English. For instance, if you would pose the same question in your own language.

On the How To board there are people from all nationalities 'speaking' in English and posing questions like yours. I must admit that I know of no other people from India there, but there may be, because not everyone is disclosing where they come from.

Keep in mind, if you decide to post there, that (IMO) most people are from Western countries with cultural and social likes and 'believes' attached to that.

To answer your question here. It depends on a few things. How does the law in your country define marriage? Are you allowed to have more than one woman, also outside of your marriage?

If not, it all depends on what you promised your wife when you married her. If she thinks it's OK then I guess it's OK. Can she do the same thing then, though? Because here, in the west, we are not too fond of double standards, as a general rule.

It's interesting to know what YOU think too. You are asking people on this board, who mainly will be open minded, sexually outspoken and of Western origin.

Mainly.... I said...

 

[dilfek2002]

Thanks for your comments I know i can get more response. but i posted it hear coz i thought there would be lot from asian origin here.. anyway.. it was nice of you to comment.