Looking for company

[novicev]

This is kind of rehash of my other personal posts..regardless...I am looking for female company, who is interested in the below description of my likes and what I bring to the table.


About me- I am currently single male in the mid 40s. I am an average guy in the looks department, but eye of the beholder may agree or disagree. That can be positive or negative as well..lol

What i am looking for I am looking for a woman who i can chat and enjoy the conversation, without trying to sell myself, that doesn't mean i don't care about what she would want, just means that hopefully there is a match.

what i fantasize about- i like any thing kinky, i define kinky as any thing not normal, we just have to talk and see what is kinky for you is kinky for me and both of us enjoy similar stuff, i don't want to use the typical labels, as they are usually misleading and sets up expectations that might lead to disappointment.

Kinky for me is control, and guiding the enjoyment, creating anticipation, by denial, these are just my idea, it can develop into anything really.

for awareness- my way chatting might be not for everyone. it may be a bit deeper than just sexual imagery, i like context, motivation, understand the underlying craving, impropriety.

i will listen to you, understand your craving, help you in realizing your wants..may be not in real may be feed your imagination to achieve some satisfaction.

may be in real once i earn your trust and respect...how will i do that ,by paying attention to you..i know some times my hormones will make me not think straight..but i will make an effort to control it so that you are having enjoyment with me

if there is interest please do pm . hope to talk and connect and enjoy the explorations.

 

[Rosa2019]

“i don't want to use the typical labels, as they are usually misleading and sets up expectations that might lead to disappointment.”--------Good point

I do find sexual anticipation or denial can create a very erotic mood. Im more interested in the psychological aspect of it that evolves in the dynamics of a relationship created in a rp, rather than a “technique” to exercise as in a BDSM style without context.

”...deeper than just sexual imagery, i like context.... “

 

[novicev]

“i don't want to use the typical labels, as they are usually misleading and sets up expectations that might lead to disappointment.”--------Good point

I do find sexual anticipation or denial can create a very erotic mood. Im more interested in the psychological aspect of it that evolves in the dynamics of a relationship created in a rp, rather than a “technique” to exercise as in a BDSM style without context.

”...deeper than just sexual imagery, i like context.... “

Thanks for your comments...we atleast have some similar view points..I would surely like to talk to you and explore other common things we can connect on ...is it ok to pm you?

 

[Rosa2019]

I think it might be better if we have some conversation in public first.

 

[novicev]

I think it might be better if we have some conversation in public first.

Ok ..I will browse around to your threads ..and explore

 

[Rosa2019]

Perhaps you would elaborate a bit or give an example of your statement :
”...deeper than just sexual imagery, i like context.... “

 

[novicev]

Perhaps you would elaborate a bit or give an example of your statement :
”...deeper than just sexual imagery, i like context.... “

I meant that , the imagination or visualization of the sexual interaction is not just about the act, but the situation that creates the tension.

For example , we could chat about or direct you to do some thing sexually , how I will pump you with my ....or do this to your lips etc. that is not as much fun as putting you in a situation that pushes the limit. Like you are at work ..I want you to think of what is waiting for you at a certain place ..creat a context for sexual anticipation

 

[Rosa2019]

Very nice.
This is what I had in mind------The psychological aspect of sex is on top of the physical.
How would you like to do it ? A RP ? In a public forum or via PM ? Do you have a storyline ?

 

[novicev]

Interaction

Very nice.
This is what I had in mind------The psychological aspect of sex is on top of the physical.
How would you like to do it ? A RP ? In a public forum or via PM ? Do you have a storyline ?

I was hoping more of a friendship interaction not a RP primarily, if that is part of the interaction , that is fun aswell. But I assume initially it will revolve around fantasies and sexuality.

 

[Rosa2019]

Sounds like you prefer PM privacy ?

In public, either a RP or conversation in the Playground, one could use the first person “I” and write one’s own thoughts, feelings and desires as writing a PM. You play yourself. Do you need “privacy” for writing fantasies and sexuality in this sex site ? "Shy" ? What do you want to write in PM that you wouldn’t do in this virtual public place ? Perhaps you would enlighten me on this question.

...I don’t really expect you to respond if you don’t want to. We are talking in the abstract. We may need to feel the specific. So, if you like, I would be happy to see you start a new thread in any public forum or welcome to any of my existing ones (all my threads are semi-private).