Looking for a lady in the philadelphia area

Trister

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Well, to put it simply, I'm a single guy, near Philadelphia, looking to meet a woman, I've been single for years and tried before never worked out though, never even got to meet one. Although, enough about that, please, reply to the post, keep it fresh, ask me questions, or even advice if you want tell me what i should say on here to get responces from the ladies :) Without lying anyway, sincei could SAY I'm rich and famous, I just couldn't back it up.
 
just a bump

as it says, just trying ot keep the thread fresh, well I'm not really adding anything but ya'll understand what a bump is.
 
see...it's all that "relationship" stuff that makes me not reply...cuz I've got that...just looking for some added fun.
 
What relationship stuff? I haven't been in a relationship in years, when i said didn't work out I mean I never even met people, :p And I suppose as long as I'm single meeting people just for 'fun' would be great too, I don't own a car. Otherwise I'd suggest going to Reading :p
 
It's me again, just trying to give it another shot. If you're interested or just want to say something on the thread, get back to me.
 
dude...your not usually going to find someone just by posting..HEY lonely guy here.

You have to participate in threads that others have started and meet other members.
If most of your posts are basically stating that you need to get laid then you won't get much feedback.

Let people get to know you and earn some people's trust.

Trust me it will pay off. :D
 
It also helps to offer something in return in terms of personality. So you're a horny guy on Lit who wants to meet a woman--big whoop, you're a dime a dozen. So what sets you apart from everyone else? Are you funny, kind, good sense of humor, kinky? Lit is really an exchange--if you want something, you have to offer something in return. I know the guys I communicate with here have all set themselves apart somehow.

Hope that helps a bit. :)
 
Try the slutty intellectual route....nothing like some grey matter to fire the ladies up...
 
sorry ya'll but i just don't have anything ot say, i read through the threads on occasion and even the ones with more interesting topics, I don't have anything to add to them. and I agree the suggestions are all true except it's not me, I'm not particularly slutty or intellectual, pathetically enough all I really feel mosto f the time is sad and lonely. So I guess I'll be staying a dime a dozen then.
 
That indeed is sad. If you can't interest women online....who admittedly come here to get our rocks off....how in the hell are you gonna find a girl in RL?
 
women like confidence and someone who can express themselves one way or another. If you don't have anything to say then just sit back and read how other guys converse with the women on this board. The main thing is not to be creepy but to be witty and confident. When you see an opening where a woman appears to be looking for some fun then you take a shot at her in a witty, suggestive way to see if she bites. The key to meet people here is to earn their trust first and let them get to know you. Don't be shy nobody here knows who you are so just let it out.
 
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