Looking for a dominat fellow with smarts & self-awareness

[LipstickNoir]

Hello,
I am perhaps a bit unusual on here.
Having read through some of the personals, I find them to be extremely deficient in articulating specifics and personality.
I'm a young woman; educated, creative, involved in her own life with a very strong sense of self. I've been modeling off & on since childhood (though this is not my job/career)-- most recently doing pin-up (of the '40's/'50s variety. I'm the kind of gal who wears vintage garments-- both atop and below, so this is something that should appeal to you. I'm very literate; a grad student who teaches & also is involved in volunteer activities.

I'm not here to hustle-- I've no need nor desire-- but fantasize about sexy implements purchased by you for me to use & don for your pleasure (for example: I wear stockings & garter belts every day, but am curious about things like clit suction, beautiful glass dildos & other exciting things that you can come up.

I'm looking for a generous soul (NOT hunting in the east for a sugar daddy) who wants to push me to my limits, with intelligence and probably something that leads up to a meeting in the flesh.

PLEASE: serious & thoughtful replies only. And if you are involved in another relationship, well, that's not necessarily a determent for me.

I look forward to hearing from you.

 

[musicman27]

What a wonderful post.

It would be amazing if I got the chance to get to know you more. In fact, I even pm'd before you posted this!

However, if I am not what you are looking for then I wish you all the best with your search. You are very beautiful and any guy would be very lucky to chat with you

 

[jryder71]

I am an artist and a writer who has engaged a few fine souls to model for me in various forms. I would be delighted to engage you in a similar way and see where that could take us. I would be happy to show you some of my work and share with you some of my thoughts.
Best,
Jake

 

[LipstickNoir]

So I've received some interesting replies-- and thank you greatly to all those who have written me. Unfortunately, I'm VERY busy grading papers & doing finals right now, so if I don't respond immediately-- I WILL! Promise.

Please, though: do tell me more about yourselves. What music you love, the sort of work you do, books that you treasure-- anything that can give me a better sense of who you are. Beyond the topic limits of this site. I yearn for a man who wants to possess me fully-- not just for my body but also for my smarts, too.

Also, I am located in Northern California, but open to correspondence (& perhaps someday travel?) from those who live elsewhere. [edited to add: I am also web cam friendly]
And tho this is an ad seeking men, I'm delighted to have received a lovely letter from a gal. Ladies, I welcome your camaraderie and words!

Thank you for reading this.

 

[asskisser]

Loving the look bonnie i'm a clyde living on the edge is hot

So I've received some interesting replies-- and thank you greatly to all those who have written me. Unfortunately, I'm VERY busy grading papers & doing finals right now, so if I don't respond immediately-- I WILL! Promise.

Please, though: do tell me more about yourselves. What music you love, the sort of work you do, books that you treasure-- anything that can give me a better sense of who you are. Beyond the topic limits of this site. I yearn for a man who wants to possess me fully-- not just for my body but also for my smarts, too.

Also, I am located in Northern California, but open to correspondence (& perhaps someday travel?) from those who live elsewhere. [edited to add: I am also web cam friendly]
And tho this is an ad seeking men, I'm delighted to have received a lovely letter from a gal. Ladies, I welcome your camaraderie and words!

Thank you for reading this.

Loving the look bonnie i'm a clyde living on the edge is hot a warm glass dildo would slide in you nicely need your lollipop licked my dear

 

[gladragdoll]

Bump.

You are gorgeous and clever and the stuff girl crushes are made of.

 

[wintersson]

Thank you, Professor, for opening my eyes . . . .

Truly, I have always seen myself as the most open-minded of men, and the fact that I was born with a creative and very filthy mind either blesses or curses me, depending on your perspective, with the ability to see the erotic potential and appeal in many things that the world views as mundane and ordinary. For example, to me a carpenter's leather tool belt is no tool belt; in my mind's eye I see it as a bondage belt that is the core of a full-body harness system, complete with removable attachments. A simple, low-cost weight bench is a three-in one combination of bondage chair, sex table and spanking bench. Add a few accessories and modifications and it becomes an entire home dungeon that one needn't hide from visiting relatives. But, my Dear Lady, until I saw your photos I had never seen the amazing erotic appeal of the vintage style you favor. I'd so easily dismissed it as frumpy, not sufficiently revealing and bulky, presumably because I was born too late to see what it could be when given life by a truly beautiful woman. I'm ashamed by my small-mindedness, and thank you for opening this blind man's eyes. If you are able to transform someone's lifelong view of a thing with a single image, you will be a gifted instructor indeed.

Knowledge, I have learned, is rarely transferred one way, and the relationships that transform our lives are almost always between two very different people, each with their own unique backgrounds, experiences, and interests. They may have areas of expertise that appear to have little commonality, apart from the individual's passion for it. Yet occasionally, two such people manage to find each other and connect, despite their apparent differences, and when they do something miraculous occurs. Each opens the door to a whole new world for the other, generally worlds that the other person neither knew or cared even existed before. Yet suddenly, these new worlds are revealed in their beauty and complexity, given life when seen through the eyes of another. When two people share their knowledge, ideas and passion with each other in this way, neither is ever the same and the most unlikely of friends becomes a soulmate and partner you can't imagine living without. I don't know if you've ever experienced this, but I have. You've given me a brief glimpse into your world and it changed me. Would you allow me to return the favor and show you mine? You can be the model for both. By all means, Professor, please take time you need to grade your papers, then if you'd like to consider a transfer of ideas, and a sharing of worlds, let me know. I am Allen, and I'll be around.

 

[Horati0Baccus]

And since I did not say in my email; I grew up in Memphis and lived it up in New Orleans, Blues and all forms of Jazz are in my blood but I also like the more improvisational and psychedelic forms of electronic music, and have a good smattering of 90s industrial as well as 70-80s Punk tastes. I read a lot of horror, scifi, and fantasy with a focus on Stephen King's Dark Tower saga. But my literary muse is Hunter S. Thompson. Long live the Gonzo; for the weird will always rise. I may never forgive the fucking coward but damn if I will let his message fall just because he got tired of carrying it. The bastards and greedheads will have a muckraker sifting the sewage for what they want to bury.

 

[Primalex]

I'm looking for a generous soul (NOT hunting in the east for a sugar daddy)

What's wrong with a sugar daddy?

 

[Primalex]

Thinking about it, I'll vote for Horati0Baccus.

I love Haley and Emily as names and non-consent stories.

 

[Horati0Baccus]

Thanks for promoting my work Prim but it is fair to mention my style that was is not my style anymore. And Emily and Haley were both guided by others to some degree; Angel and the Writer is the only series I claim. If Lit allowed writers to pull their names from work or delete submissions neither Em nor Haley would exist anymore.

 

[Primalex]

And Emily and Haley were both guided by others to some degree; Angel and the Writer is the only series I claim.

Oh. Then I vote for the others. Would the others please stand up and do Lipstick properly?

 

[Horati0Baccus]

Sadly the ladies that helped inspire much of my writing are not from Lit Land. I did not bother with the forums when I wrote on Lit and I only work from mobile now and Lits publishing tools are not mobile friendly.

Honestly I am moving on LSN's inspiration to go Pulp or Go Home with another collaboration so at this point it's almost an offer for her to get those stems on the train before it pulls away. Hate to leave you at the station Dollface; but writers got to write and worlds move on.

 

[LipstickNoir]

Hello all,
Thanks so very much for the attentive notes I've received & also just the short, friendly complimentary ones! My inbox is at it's "warning-- nearly way too full" level (so says the email I got from this site today).

Currently I am on vacation with my parents, a rented house on the edge of the Northern Coast of California (I saved up my pennies so we could be here to celebrate their 50th--!!!-- wedding anniversary, & spend Christmas here as well. Though the former is far more important).

As something of an update to my original posting of my search, I have begun a connection (not through this site nor the internet even) with someone who looks to be quite promising with many of my stated desires/hopes/yearns. I am definitely still open to connecting with those who feel that I might be a good match (or maybe "a good time" would be a better way to term it). I am *not* someone who spends a great deal of time of the internet; my schedule wouldn't allow it even if my desire did, so as fascinating as some of the gentlemen are who have written to me from abroad or across the States: unless actually meeting in person is a possibility, I'm afraid that I'm not the gal for you. Additionally, I do not have enough hours in the day for online-only encounters (Masters/Doms/Daddies/Tops who are undoubtedly worth much attention & would have quite a bit to graciously share with this girl). I would have specified this initially but honestly, I'm really a novice with internet personals & didn't take into consideration that such offers would be flooding my inbox. Sirs: I am *sure* you are each worth kneeling for in your own way. I just prefer my knees to be bruised by the doing in the actual flesh.
Again-- I am very appreciative of each & every note that I have read, and please accept my humble apologies if I did not reply. I would have had to hire a secretary just for this alone (though I'm sure my professors, students, editors & friends who use the internet to communicate with me would most likely get a kick outta that... sexy secretary, if I put her in one of my wasp-waisted '50s suits? Not the worst image in the world!).

I do hope this does not come off as rude, unappreciative, or anything unattractive of that family. If it has, then do forgive the limitations of my writing skills, as I mean only to be honest & respectful.

With red lipstick kisses,
L.Noir.

 

[Literotti]

Try looking for a "dominat" at the laundromat.