Looking for a Daddy

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Amen to this! I will never understand why guys think one or two words is a good opening to catch someone's attention. I think this isn't a bad place to post...the thread I was on is too busy and hard to keep up with. I am also looking for a Daddy as well. Am new to all of this and not sure what to look for expect ask or what not. Happy Tuesday!

Well many just are not experienced enough or simply think the lifestyle is a game and not a choice of how we live. I cant tell you how many responses i got of men asking to help me out with my fantasy ... humm well sorry i wasn't playing Cinderella!


Willow
 
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Hello Red And welcome to the sight , I hope you have a as much success as i have had here meeting great friends and of course a wonderful Sir as i have found my Daddy Inked.Welcome and be sure to check out the Fetish Chats . There is one for Daddies and baby girls.
Sweet thank you very much willow....didn't mean to butt into the thread but as I said earlier the one thread I was following was way too busy for me to keep p with wow! Congrats to you!
 
Not butting in at all

Sweet thank you very much willow....didn't mean to butt into the thread but as I said earlier the one thread I was following was way too busy for me to keep p with wow! Congrats to you!

Not butting in at all your most welcome Here And besides we have to have someone to tantalize ole Tappy With ! hehehehehe
 
The Dom who cant communicate

Amen to this! I will never understand why guys think one or two words is a good opening to catch someone's attention. I think this isn't a bad place to post...the thread I was on is too busy and hard to keep up with. I am also looking for a Daddy as well. Am new to all of this and not sure what to look for expect ask or what not. Happy Tuesday!

Yes, Seems no matter what we do, these pesky ones keep poping up. Either they are in plain sight to begin with or the hide to be found out later. They play a good in the front only to be found out later on. Be carefull Red that your doms dont mistake being demanding and task giving or rules for Dominance. IT IS NOT THE SAME. They have to abide by there own rules as well for your happiness. They have to be there for you as much as they want you there for them. COMMUNICATION IS A MUST. If you are set to a task once it is completed. That task must be acknowledged or else how in the world will eh sub ever judge the doms happiness. There is no guessing game at human emotions. We are real people who have real needs.. Be careful not to go to far down a road with someone who has unreasonable expectations of you and can not even discipline his own time to devote to you or your relationship. Just as Subs have rules , Doms have responsibilities to their subs/slaves. Its always a give and take. There should never always be a taking and no giving.
 
Poking in. I love this thread. Wishing the ladies success with their search.
 
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Poking in. I love this thread. Wishing the ladies success with their search.

LOL no you cant just peek in now you have to get in on the action there is plenty of love to go around. Am thinking we should start recruiting !
 
And to add to this I'm dying I swear! Just left a kick butt work out, and going back tomorrow for more! Weight loss here I come!
 
Hello All!

What a wonderful thread you have going on here.

Red, I must say I love the photo of a REAL sized woman being depicted as loved, valued, and sensuous.

I too have been single (that is unmarried) for a while. I'm in a very vanilla relationship that is abstinent (by both of our choosing).

However, it has been my experience, that when you start seeking out a new relationship and the topic of sexual preferences come up to see if you would be compatible... it seems that men the majority of men have no clue as to what being a submissive woman means. It's like they look at you as if all your brains have fallen out of your head.

Next they think that since your a submissive, you obviously want to have the crap beaten out of you to get off. It never ceases to amaze me how the majority of uneducated people believe that submission = sadism and masochism. D/s is not BDSM. D/s is under the heading of BDSM, but you do not need the B or the SM to be D/s...although I do love the B (bondage) during sex play.

Men also get confused as to why I left an abusive husband, that I would want a D/s relationship. Most people I have ran into can't wrap their mind around that my ex husband was not into D/s or even BDSM...he was just a plain vanilla abuser in every aspect of my life. There is a difference!

I hope we all find what we are looking for... and for those who are fortunate to have found it all ready... cherish it, love it, nurture it as I know you must be doing already and God bless you in it.
 
it seems that men the majority of men have no clue as to what being a submissive woman means. It's like they look at you as if all your brains have fallen out of your head.


Amen to that. Being a good master involves a level of maturity some (most) men never reach. (Some women too just to be fair.) While bdsm means different things to different people, being honest about your needs and open in communication to express them is key. If a potential partner is not willing to discuss the core issues run far and run fast.
 
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