Looking for a consistent blowjob outlet

[kaycee217]

I was under the impression that he meant "consistent" both in the application of technique and frequency of occurrence. Perhaps I read too much into it, though.

That's how I understood the OP.

 

[kaycee217]

May Zidane get the STD he so richly deserves for actively seeking to cheat on his wife. It would be funnier if he caught the STD from his wife from her payback cheating gone wrong, but from what I've read she's an inocent victim.

I would never condone infidelity (and I've never been unfaithful), but telling your spouse, "I know you love getting oral, but you know what? I don't care what you want I'm never going down on you again" hardly makes you "innocent."

Perhaps Zidane takes his wife for granted or otherwise deserves lack of oral sex, but I don't think you or anyone else should be so quick to judge him.

 

[LibraStud]

It took me a while to learn how much enjoyment there is in using my wet tongue in all the places a woman wants. After a good tongue session, I have always gotten a BJ, even if the next day!

I met a single girl, overweight, who was very insecure, but had a boyfriend who fucked her on a regular basis. One day, she went for my zipper, sucked me off, and from that time on she took care of me regularly. It was sad when she got married.

 

[Zidane]

wow, this thread just exploded.
Anyway, I've read some pretty harsh opinions about me and I was expecting that, esp. from the female population. But I'm okay with that, because I know none of that is true.
I treat my wife right, I've wooed her with the occasional surprise bouquet of flowers, surprise dinner date and a variety of other romantic endeavors. I just recently bought a 1500+ dollar bed that she's been wanting. I do the laundry, trash, dishes, cooking, cleaning of the house almost weekly. I sometimes drive her to and from work when I get a free moment in my work schedule. I show her affection throughout the day and give her compliments on her looks or whatever strikes my fancy about her. In bed, we have an active sex life, which either her or I will initiate, and I love going down on her. I usually do it of my own accord or she asks me to do it, but either way, I'm more than happy to give her what she needs. Rarely do I request she go down on me, and the few times I have since getting married, she's denied me. Its a personal issue with her and I don't push her. However, I am just frustrated that ever since we got married, she's stopped wanting to give blowjobs, it was one of the things she was really good at.
So no, I don't take my wife for granted, nor do I treat her wrong. The reason she's not putting out isn't because I'm not giving what she wants. I'm being the most loving husband I can. So yes, I am frustrated about it but don't know what to do. So while in my original post I requested a consistent blowjob only, I really am not looking for much more. But if that makes me a horrible person, that is your opinion to keep. I have no doubt in my mind there are other men (and women) who want what they are lacking. Some have gone out to claim it, others are left wishing for it. So I know I'm not alone on this.
Good evening all.

 

[kaycee217]

Zidane: What reason does your wife give for not going down on you?

 

[Zidane]

She doesn't feel comfortable doing it anymore, saying it bothers her. We've talked about it and went into more detail than what I'm willing to divulge here. However, the crux of the matter is that she's no longer willing to do it anymore. She gives a valiant effort on a few random occasions, but its never as good as before we got married. Its like she lost the passion for it. As stated above, I don't push her or force her. But I never deny her when she wants me to give her head, mainly because I also love giving it to her. So yeah...

 

[WriterDom]

I bet they bow down and kiss your feet too!

Only one was into kissing my feet.

 

[Wings27]

She doesn't feel comfortable doing it anymore, saying it bothers her. We've talked about it and went into more detail than what I'm willing to divulge here. However, the crux of the matter is that she's no longer willing to do it anymore. She gives a valiant effort on a few random occasions, but its never as good as before we got married. Its like she lost the passion for it. As stated above, I don't push her or force her. But I never deny her when she wants me to give her head, mainly because I also love giving it to her. So yeah...

Zidane, I can only apologize for judging you so harshly, but had you put more of the story in, maybe we could have understood more. To be completely honest (god knows I have a rough time NOT being so), I've developed TMJ over the years, and occasionally I cannot perform oral sex, which is actually my favorite thing to do. I hope you find what you need, but it's my recommendation that you not tell a girl you only want her for her ability to suck you off. Even if it's true. You can pay someone for that if that's all you need. No one truly wants to be treated so callously.

Again, best of luck to you.

 

[Wings27]

Only one was into kissing my feet.

feet really don't turn me on!

 

[Zidane]

well as stated above, I'd be glad to reciprocate in kind in just about the same manner if they so choose, I have no problem with that. I got quite the devil of a tongue.

 

[romer12]

so, what to do

well that is why men seek men. to get them off if girfriend or wife will not.
no reciprocation is required from str8 guys, married or not. look for a guy to service you...........As a married WM, and no longer active with wife, I've serviced several married guys in my area. got no complaints so far....

 

[CaFem45]

if I can reciprocate in kind somehow, I am going to try.

Gee....why aren't the ladies lining up to blow this guy???

 

[Zidane]

Not sure why, but maybe there isn't any in the immediate area?

 

[basic_desires]

Not sure why, but maybe there isn't any in the immediate area?

...probably more because most women would prefer to be treated as a little more than just a sperm receptacle...

 

[kaycee217]

...probably more because most women would prefer to be treated as a little more than just a sperm receptacle...

Most, but not all.

 

[Biker_Type]

my first ex-wife went thru that phase, and didn't want we to go down on her either . did a few other things but she had no interest in oral after about 2 years together.
current wife likes giving and getting an 69ing and its going on three years and i think i've died and gone to heaven.

 

[CaFem45]

...probably more because most women would prefer to be treated as a little more than just a sperm receptacle...

oh, come now....what woman wouldn't want to be considered "a consistent blowjob outlet".....I hope some day I can aspire to be so well thought of.

 

[nil_nom]

oh, come now....what woman wouldn't want to be considered "a consistent blowjob outlet".....I hope some day I can aspire to be so well thought of.

Wow, I very nearly pissed myself laughing when I read this. Nice one, CaFem45

 

[hisSLUTwife]

Why do women get sick of oral but men don't? SOrry to make such a broad generalization.

that is pretty broad...because some of us still love it.

 

[CaFem45]

Wow, I very nearly pissed myself laughing when I read this. Nice one, CaFem45

Some men just don't get it....do they?

 

[littlegina]

There should be some vaccum cleaners on sale this time of year. Rig one up to an inflatable doll and you might have something.

 

[shirtpeddler]

that is pretty broad...because some of us still love it.

Maybe he stopped washing down there once they got married....

Zidane: Do you trim it up down there? Maybe you let yourself go a little bit.....

 

[shirtpeddler]

There should be some vaccum cleaners on sale this time of year. Rig one up to an inflatable doll and you might have something.

hahaha.... harsh.

 

[nil_nom]

Some men just don't get it....do they?

Yeah, evidently not. Or in this fellows case not nearly enough or adequately. :-/

 

[CaFem45]

You know how to whistle don't you? Just put your lips together and blow.