Looking for a consistent blowjob outlet

Zidane

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My request may seem weird to me, but I'm sure there are other guys in my position. But I thought I would put this out there.
I've been with my wife for over 6 years (1 year married). And before we got married, she was willing to do blowjobs all the time. She was amazing. But since we've been married, she stopped doing them and has since expressed little interest in ever doing them again.
I live in Bossier City, LA and I'm looking for a woman who would be willing to give me blowjobs. I know it may sound selfish and if I can reciprocate in kind somehow, I am going to try. But that's really all I'm looking for, nothing more than that. Nor do I expect it to go any further or would want to, she satisfies me in all other ways. But sometimes, a man does need some good loving from his lover's lips. Does anyone else agree with me, is that so wrong? anyone want to help me out?
Thanks to any who reply.
 
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I hear you

That is, unfortunately, a common story. The best thing would be to find a girl who would regularly go down on you. I would love to have such a woman myself. I used to, but all good things come to an end. In a big city I am sure you can find someone. Some women really love giving head. Good luck finding one.

Ladies, if someone fitting this description exists in South Carolina, hit me up. I am sure we could find a way to meet each other's needs.
 
I think there might be a lot of women out there who wouldn't really be flattered being referred to as a "consistent blowjob outlet." I could be wrong though.
 
I think there might be a lot of women out there who wouldn't really be flattered being referred to as a "consistent blowjob outlet." I could be wrong though.
On-call blowjob medic. An OCBM for short. Maybe the BM needs some work though. What about an On-call blowjob therapist? OCBT... sounds better.

"Hey girls. Who would like to be my OCBT?"
"What's that?"
"Come with me and we can talk about it."

PERFECT bar line.
 
I think there might be a lot of women out there who wouldn't really be flattered being referred to as a "consistent blowjob outlet." I could be wrong though.

Isn't that what you hand is for...good luck finding this women.
 
I can sympathize

Why do women get sick of oral but men don't? SOrry to make such a broad generalization.
 
That marriage certificate seems to be a license to stop giving bj's, sex, backrubs, and good dinners. They seem to say "I do" and think but I won't anymore
 
I find it interesting how so many people say that things change as soon as they got married. I wonder if it's reality that changed, or perceptions. Or both.
 
ahhh..the age old question. And here's my answer from a female's point of view...Men wonder why their women stop blowing them, stop putting out as much, stop "taking care of themselves". Usually while they're sitting ass down on the couch with one hand down their pants asking for another beer. When was the last time you took your wife out, complimented her without expecting her to drop to her knees and suck you off? When I was dating my husband he brought me flowers every month on our "anniversary" and the second we got married, the flowers stopped. Amazingly I wasn't all that interested in getting him off when he became not so interested in wooing me. Thankfully we're all straightened out now, but there was a time!
 
At least my wife has been consistent, she didn't blow me before we got married and she hasn't since.......
 
Geez, ladies! I don't know what you're all bitching about! :rolleyes:

What single woman doesn't want to be just a wet, warm, willing hole to a man who will "try" to reciprocate? :confused:

I mean, I myself don't mind being ordered around... "C'mere and suck me, baby. Maybe I'll please you later."

Isn't that the way things work? :confused:

I mean, poor Zidane! I'm sure he's tried orally pleasing his wife, treating her to thoughtful little gifts, telling her how much he loves her, and sitting down and having a mature adult-to-adult conversation about needs and wants and how each of them are getting theirs met. I mean, that's the way people go about things in relationships, right?

Just saying :D
Did I lay it on thick enough? Or will I be getting hatemail from Lit ladies any minute now? :D *giggles*

And in closing, to Zidane: because you've been so open about what you're looking for, I truly hope that you find it, here or otherwise :)
 
I'm wondering how you can do something you apparently didn't really like for 5 years (if I have that right).

I'm way too lazy to fake enthusiasm for that long, regardless of what I hoped to get out of it.
 
Maybe you can find a girl who will suck your dick for a cheeseburger. (They're out there, somewhere.) Then all you gotta do is go buy a bunch of cheeseburgers and you'll be in like Flint.
 
Zidane, I'm with you brother. Before I was married my wife use to go down on me 2-3 times a day for years. I thought god had blessed me with the perfect gift.
We're married now and you know the rest of the story. I've been taking yoga classes for the last 2 years and I'm almost self sufficient.
 
Zidane, I'm with you brother. Before I was married my wife use to go down on me 2-3 times a day for years. I thought god had blessed me with the perfect gift.
We're married now and you know the rest of the story. I've been taking yoga classes for the last 2 years and I'm almost self sufficient.
wow...
 
I find it interesting how so many people say that things change as soon as they got married. I wonder if it's reality that changed, or perceptions. Or both.

I'm impressed at your insight. I think dating is fantasy, we all put forth our best behaviour, then when we think it's safe, we bring out the lurking stranger to our partner. (And get surprised when their stranger comes out too)
 
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