Looking for a bit of advice

[CdKimMajick]

Even though I went to walmart fully dressed yesterday, I am undecided on something.

While I was in Texas and planning my move I set up a hook up with someone I had been talking with for a bit. They know I am a crossdresser and said that if I felt uncomfortable coming dressed I could dress there.

I'm struggling with do I go dressed or dress there. The whole point of moving to Iowa was to be Kim when I wanted to be and like I said going to walmart while exciting was nerve racking.

I'm leaning towards going dressed but still flip flopping and yes I know I have to decide...just kinda looking for advice..

TYIA

 

[Busy54]

You’ll regret it if you dont

 

[CdKimMajick]

You’ll regret it if you dont

That's what I was thinking as well.

 

[CdKimMajick]

With advice via pms. And off another site and the advice. I have decided that since I moved here for the express reason to be Kim whenever I wanted I am going as Kim.

 

[drobert44]

Even though I went to walmart fully dressed yesterday, I am undecided on something.

While I was in Texas and planning my move I set up a hook up with someone I had been talking with for a bit. They know I am a crossdresser and said that if I felt uncomfortable coming dressed I could dress there.

I'm struggling with do I go dressed or dress there. The whole point of moving to Iowa was to be Kim when I wanted to be and like I said going to walmart while exciting was nerve racking.

I'm leaning towards going dressed but still flip flopping and yes I know I have to decide...just kinda looking for advice..

TYIA

Walmart can handle you..

 

[CdKimMajick]

Dear Kim:
I have been presenting as Kate out in public for many years now, and after all this time I still have "butterflies" every time I go out the front door. I'm so happy that you have come to the decision to live your dreams and be Kim. I wish you all the best in your endeavors. Feel free to drop me a PM if you are in need of a friendly ear or advice. All the best for you sweetie.

Kate

Thank you very much Kate

 

[SissySalina]

You may find a few nerves the first few times out. All that "did he notice" or did I walk wrong which is associated with nerves and it may last for quite a while but will pass. The fact if you are not self concuss while out it means that you are not being you. People will notice right away if it is not right to them and the most important thing that is a tell is you are not being yourself. Act natural, be yourself is the most important thing.
This sissy's opinion.

 

[RachelWalsh]

Even though I went to walmart fully dressed yesterday, I am undecided on something.

While I was in Texas and planning my move I set up a hook up with someone I had been talking with for a bit. They know I am a crossdresser and said that if I felt uncomfortable coming dressed I could dress there.

I'm struggling with do I go dressed or dress there. The whole point of moving to Iowa was to be Kim when I wanted to be and like I said going to walmart while exciting was nerve racking.

I'm leaning towards going dressed but still flip flopping and yes I know I have to decide...just kinda looking for advice..

TYIA

Well if you don't like dressing up, maybe it isn't your thing.

 

[CdKimMajick]

Well if you don't like dressing up, maybe it isn't your thing.

I've dressed since the 80s and used to go out all the time. I am now curvy and by no means passable but I decided I am going to go dressed because otherwise it would ruin the whole point of hooking up.

I plan on wearing a pink dress with a pink teddy, peach panties(because he requested them), white thigh high nylons and black boots.

 

[RachelWalsh]

I've dressed since the 80s and used to go out all the time. I am now curvy and by no means passable but I decided I am going to go dressed because otherwise it would ruin the whole point of hooking up.

I plan on wearing a pink dress with a pink teddy, peach panties(because he requested them), white thigh high nylons and black boots.

I hope it is safe and fun hun

 

[CdKimMajick]

You may find a few nerves the first few times out. All that "did he notice" or did I walk wrong which is associated with nerves and it may last for quite a while but will pass. The fact if you are not self concuss while out it means that you are not being you. People will notice right away if it is not right to them and the most important thing that is a tell is you are not being yourself. Act natural, be yourself is the most important thing.
This sissy's opinion.

I know this is going to sound very strange since I was struggling with going to this date dressed but with all the advice and support my friends have given me over past few hours. And one of my friends has a plus size daughter that has a ton of stuff for donation, she is going to go through it and find some blouses and send me them.

With all that I am leaning and it will take a while to get enough clothes to be able to do this but leaning to just be Kim full time. Other then when I have gone out other then the 2 times I have been in a dress or skirt since I moved back to Iowa so I am pretty much doing it anyway. Just gotta get the courage to go out full time

 

[CdKimMajick]

I hope it is safe and fun hun

Thank you.

 

[Renee1967]

Even though I went to walmart fully dressed yesterday, I am undecided on something.

While I was in Texas and planning my move I set up a hook up with someone I had been talking with for a bit. They know I am a crossdresser and said that if I felt uncomfortable coming dressed I could dress there.

I'm struggling with do I go dressed or dress there. The whole point of moving to Iowa was to be Kim when I wanted to be and like I said going to walmart while exciting was nerve racking.

I'm leaning towards going dressed but still flip flopping and yes I know I have to decide...just kinda looking for advice..

TYIA

I spent a full year fully crossdressed; flew to the west coast to buy a car, and then drove it cross country all the way back to Florida fully dressed.

It was an exhilarating experience; mostly ups, very few downs

started in San Diego, spent a night in Arizona, two nights in Texas (big state) one night in Alabama (scariiest night but everything ended up ok) and then in to Tampa

nothing sexual, just me being me

if you don't embrace it, how will you ever know?

 

[Renee1967]

I spent a full year fully crossdressed; flew to the west coast to buy a car, and then drove it cross country all the way back to Florida fully dressed.

It was an exhilarating experience; mostly ups, very few downs

started in San Diego, spent a night in Arizona, two nights in Texas (big state) one night in Alabama (scariiest night but everything ended up ok) and then in to Tampa

nothing sexual, just me being me

if you don't embrace it, how will you ever know?

I'm looking forward to my full retirement in a few years at which point I suspect I'll go back to being a full time crossdresser

maybe even get some boobs

 

[Smoothshavendad]

You go, gurl!