Lookin' for a third

[Guest]

which is alot like the dating sites online now. Fill in your stats and fuckups and then you're on the market.
Granted some of them are better then that, but alot of them... not really.
I equate it to window shopping.

I think I need to get over that, because M and I laugh about it, but every now and then we think about putting an ad out there ...

Actually I thought something more along the lines of a dating service...Hmmmmm

That might have some potential... A BDSM dating/placement service. Branching out later into other more random areas...

 

[catalina_francisco]

Actually I thought something more along the lines of a dating service...Hmmmmm

That might have some potential... A BDSM dating/placement service. Branching out later into other more random areas...

Hey, there is one here. They have dinners for couples they match, and it goes from there, but is BDSM, no vanilla.

Catalina

 

[Bandit58]

I have an ad up on adultmatchmaker and yesterday afternoon had my first meeting with a lovely woman who contacted me. We ended up going back to her place and had a wonderful couple of hours together Master came with me to the hotel and waited while she and I talked, then He went home and I phoned Him to let Him know everything was ok when I got to her flat. She seems keen to see me again so fingers crossed I have a regular playmate.

 

[BlueSugar]

I have an ad up on adultmatchmaker and yesterday afternoon had my first meeting with a lovely woman who contacted me. We ended up going back to her place and had a wonderful couple of hours together Master came with me to the hotel and waited while she and I talked, then He went home and I phoned Him to let Him know everything was ok when I got to her flat. She seems keen to see me again so fingers crossed I have a regular playmate.

that is wonderful!


I talked with Steph* and she turned out to be quite more psycho then we both ever thought. She belongs in a controlled environment and what she did put M and I in danger that I'd rather not get into in this thread.

She is no longer allowed near us, our friends or anyone in our area and just may leave the state alltogether.

It was a bad judgement call. One we'll never make again.

 

[catalina_francisco]

that is wonderful!


I talked with Steph* and she turned out to be quite more psycho then we both ever thought. She belongs in a controlled environment and what she did put M and I in danger that I'd rather not get into in this thread.

She is no longer allowed near us, our friends or anyone in our area and just may leave the state alltogether.

It was a bad judgement call. One we'll never make again.

Hope everything is okay with you both now.

Catalina

 

[Mermaid]

that is wonderful!


I talked with Steph* and she turned out to be quite more psycho then we both ever thought. She belongs in a controlled environment and what she did put M and I in danger that I'd rather not get into in this thread.

She is no longer allowed near us, our friends or anyone in our area and just may leave the state alltogether.

It was a bad judgement call. One we'll never make again.

That's a very ouchie learning expereince.

I hope you're blessed with a better experience next time.

 

[Guest]

that is wonderful!


I talked with Steph* and she turned out to be quite more psycho then we both ever thought. She belongs in a controlled environment and what she did put M and I in danger that I'd rather not get into in this thread.

She is no longer allowed near us, our friends or anyone in our area and just may leave the state alltogether.

It was a bad judgement call. One we'll never make again.

*sigh* Hate to say it ..But I've been depressingly close to that one..You might want to keep tabs through any mutuals you have too...
Just for a while..

 

[BlueSugar]

*sigh* Hate to say it ..But I've been depressingly close to that one..You might want to keep tabs through any mutuals you have too...
Just for a while..

yeah... it happens.

Keep tabs through any mutuals you have too? What do you mean? Sounds like perfect sense, something just isn't clicking in my mind...

 

[Guest]

yeah... it happens.

Keep tabs through any mutuals you have too? What do you mean? Sounds like perfect sense, something just isn't clicking in my mind...

It has been my experience that crazybabies...After they are no longer within your physical reach..*grin* Or at least think they aren't...
WIll have a tendancy to "sull up" and pump the rumor mill for all it is worth. "Poisoning the well" so to speak.. I have had to remind at least one that they really should be careful what they say about people..I don't mind the truth..But the other........

 

[BlueSugar]

It has been my experience that crazybabies...After they are no longer within your physical reach..*grin* Or at least think they aren't...
WIll have a tendancy to "sull up" and pump the rumor mill for all it is worth. "Poisoning the well" so to speak.. I have had to remind at least one that they really should be careful what they say about people..I don't mind the truth..But the other........

ah, ok, yes... I see what you're saying now. And in this case it stretches further then the rumor/truth mill - and into personal health issues.
I see her often now, usually I don't- we both have weird schedules and where as we didn't see each other the last four months, we keep bumping into each other now -- which is just salt in the wound for me. It takes alot out of me to not report her stupidity and obvious disregard for other human life... rock and hard place for now.

 

[Guest]

ah, ok, yes... I see what you're saying now. And in this case it stretches further then the rumor/truth mill - and into personal health issues.
I see her often now, usually I don't- we both have weird schedules and where as we didn't see each other the last four months, we keep bumping into each other now -- which is just salt in the wound for me. It takes alot out of me to not report her stupidity and obvious disregard for other human life... rock and hard place for now.

That whole health issues thing ..Gets into some serious "Not Good".
I hope you knew about whatever it was beforehand..

 

[BlueSugar]

That whole health issues thing ..Gets into some serious "Not Good".
I hope you knew about whatever it was beforehand..

We're both in the clear.


No. She kept it from the both of us till the other week when guilt finally brought her to a friend of mine - who told me, so that when the girl came to me i didn't wrip her fucking head off.

After giving her a big chunk of my mind, I told her basically to walk the other way when she sees Me, M, or any of our friends... and that we were going to let people know about her bc she doesn't have the common kindness to tell people her damn self.

 

[Bandit58]

I've had a response from another site I posted an ad on (blame Master, he's virtually pimping me ) This lady is 58, I've chatted to her on MSN and she's very bubbly and friendly, bi-curious and lives near the speedway we go to. If we do get it together I'll be the more experienced one for a change (all of 3 times ) so this could be interesting

 

[BlueSugar]

I've had a response from another site I posted an ad on (blame Master, he's virtually pimping me ) This lady is 58, I've chatted to her on MSN and she's very bubbly and friendly, bi-curious and lives near the speedway we go to. If we do get it together I'll be the more experienced one for a change (all of 3 times ) so this could be interesting

I have my first munch this week, and that is exciting for me, I get to hear about how many people are actually in my area.
And during our last party I played DD and he was able to do some drinking and flirting - and he actually had a good experience with someone who wants to come back and is sane!
I'm excited.