So given that this is a place for things we can't go without allow me to share that I have gone almost 11yrs with no sex of any kind. My previous was 4yrs. These were my doing and were a way to clear myself to know myself. So I find peace when no sex is offered and yes I still want to enjoy it but now it is more rewarding when it is given to me. It maybe strange or odd way of thinking but it is inner pleasures that make what I get worth waiting for.