Long shot

I have plenty of “chat buddies” but I really need a “real” connection. One not based on how wet my panties are. I absolutely see the irony in asking for “friends” on an erotica discussion board BUT I’ve had it before from here. If we’re currently talking, don’t be all butt hurt. I enjoy you but I am looking for something super specific to fill my voids. If you’re still here then here it goes-

I am happily (mostly) married. He is a good guy. He gives me my space and we have a peaceful functional household. Why am I here you ask? The part that keeps me from being 100% happy is that we rarely have sex. When we do it’s done in five mins. It’s good. We both cum but there’s just nothing there. There’s minimal affection. Just obligatory going through the motions. AND I desperately miss good conversations. I want someone to get to know and let them know me. The real me. I enjoy that. And enjoy the flirting and building the want.

I am 37. Educated and employed. Tall bbw with dark curly hair and brown eyes. I love Harry Potter. I read and write for fun. I am a hot mess mix of city and country.

You: mature enough to hold a conversation but not old enough to be my father. Must be available to chat often. I do have my moments that I cannot but I am pretty much on all day And night off and on.

Bonus points for dark hair, taller than me (I am 5’8) and glasses.

I know I know. Dream on girl, but a girl can dream.

End note: I try to be polite but if you are over 50 or under 30 I likely won’t respond.

🖤
Damn! I was doing good checking off your boxes until you hit that old enough to be your father. Took me out of the running.
best of luck in your quest
 
I have plenty of “chat buddies” but I really need a “real” connection. One not based on how wet my panties are. I absolutely see the irony in asking for “friends” on an erotica discussion board BUT I’ve had it before from here. If we’re currently talking, don’t be all butt hurt. I enjoy you but I am looking for something super specific to fill my voids. If you’re still here then here it goes-

I am happily (mostly) married. He is a good guy. He gives me my space and we have a peaceful functional household. Why am I here you ask? The part that keeps me from being 100% happy is that we rarely have sex. When we do it’s done in five mins. It’s good. We both cum but there’s just nothing there. There’s minimal affection. Just obligatory going through the motions. AND I desperately miss good conversations. I want someone to get to know and let them know me. The real me. I enjoy that. And enjoy the flirting and building the want.

I am 37. Educated and employed. Tall bbw with dark curly hair and brown eyes. I love Harry Potter. I read and write for fun. I am a hot mess mix of city and country.

You: mature enough to hold a conversation but not old enough to be my father. Must be available to chat often. I do have my moments that I cannot but I am pretty much on all day And night off and on.

Bonus points for dark hair, taller than me (I am 5’8) and glasses.

I know I know. Dream on girl, but a girl can dream.

End note: I try to be polite but if you are over 50 or under 30 I likely won’t respond.

🖤
Sounds exactly like life!
 
Your post reminds me of the men I've talked to on here. Little to zero sex life with their wives, little to zero conversation. Which unfortunately is what married life turns into when both partners aren't engaged.

The one point I want to make is that you might want to reconsider men over 50. Some of them are hot af and know how to converse. Unfortunately, there aren't enough of them. :)
 
Your post reminds me of the men I've talked to on here. Little to zero sex life with their wives, little to zero conversation. Which unfortunately is what married life turns into when both partners aren't engaged.

The one point I want to make is that you might want to reconsider men over 50. Some of them are hot af and know how to converse. Unfortunately, there aren't enough of them. :)
I like you a whole lot more now lol
 
I have plenty of “chat buddies” but I really need a “real” connection. One not based on how wet my panties are. I absolutely see the irony in asking for “friends” on an erotica discussion board BUT I’ve had it before from here. If we’re currently talking, don’t be all butt hurt. I enjoy you but I am looking for something super specific to fill my voids. If you’re still here then here it goes-

I am happily (mostly) married. He is a good guy. He gives me my space and we have a peaceful functional household. Why am I here you ask? The part that keeps me from being 100% happy is that we rarely have sex. When we do it’s done in five mins. It’s good. We both cum but there’s just nothing there. There’s minimal affection. Just obligatory going through the motions. AND I desperately miss good conversations. I want someone to get to know and let them know me. The real me. I enjoy that. And enjoy the flirting and building the want.

I am 37. Educated and employed. Tall bbw with dark curly hair and brown eyes. I love Harry Potter. I read and write for fun. I am a hot mess mix of city and country.

You: mature enough to hold a conversation but not old enough to be my father. Must be available to chat often. I do have my moments that I cannot but I am pretty much on all day And night off and on.

Bonus points for dark hair, taller than me (I am 5’8) and glasses.

I know I know. Dream on girl, but a girl can dream.

End note: I try to be polite but if you are over 50 or under 30 I likely won’t respond.

🖤
I am 48, unfortunately I too am 5'-8". Earning my associates degree. Learning to play the piano & My Lady I am the long shot (writing to you).
 

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Hi Jae. 50, unhappily MWM from the north-central US. Sounds like I'm at the top of your range, but I'll risk it. I've had some good exchanges on Lit in the past, but sometimes life does get in the way of things, and I've been away more than here. Trying to get back more regularly and find some connections as well. I'm available on Kik if that interests you, or just sticking with PM for now would be fine as well. Good luck in your search.

I'm with you on the new Lit format...not used to it yet.
I hope you also find what you're soul desires x
 
The one point I want to make is that you might want to reconsider men over 50. Some of them are hot af and know how to converse. Unfortunately, there aren't enough of them. :)
I concur with Lady. Not only do we know how to converse, we know when and how to listen, and don't see conversation as a means to an end.
 
Your post reminds me of the men I've talked to on here. Little to zero sex life with their wives, little to zero conversation. Which unfortunately is what married life turns into when both partners aren't engaged.

The one point I want to make is that you might want to reconsider men over 50. Some of them are hot af and know how to converse. Unfortunately, there aren't enough of them. :)
You can enjoy me all you like…52 mwm
 
So many people married but unfulfilled. Kind of sad, isn’t it?
It really is. You wake up on day and are like I never thought I'd be in this situation and then look for another outlet. Good look in your search. Although I'm 5'8 I'm also older then your target under 50 age bracket. 52 to be exact.
 
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