Long Shot - Question for tops approaching/conquesting "straight" guys or conquested "straight guys"

[TheF1x3r]

Hello!

I've had a story brewing in my head for a while, stemming from an encounter when I was younger.

The short version of the story is that I was dating a girl and she had a best friend who is gay. I have a long suppressed fantasy about sucking and getting a facial and then progressing to the other stuff at the direction of a man who somehow picked up on it.

Despite never saying anything, my girlfriends gay friend *somehow* picked up on it or was just probing me. We used to rough house (he was gay but he was also into martial arts as was I), one night after the bar words were exchanged that resulted in me saying something like "yeah yeah, if I ever decide I like guys you'll be the first to know" (jokingly). Somehow we ended up "wrastlin" and pushed half over or a short fence and half into a bush when he licked my neck and said something like "you could just try it out". This was interrupted by a load of other people piling on and me going all the way over the wall.

The questions I have for the tops or the conquested straight guys are:

How did the top probe/find out?

How did the top then progress the situation?

What ended up happening?

 

[TheF1x3r]

little bump to try and catch the American users

 

[Phatfeet]

If you want it to be a more probable situation, then proceed naturally where it is going. So a group of people pushed you over the fence and you piled up in a ball on the other side. Make it some hidden place that is dark and mysterious like a blocked alley with lights that are busted, but where you and him can be alone. But he comes there because he is concerned that them pushing you over the fence might have hurt you. "A group of people do not know know their strength", he say compassionately. Then maybe you feign an injury, and he kisses the hurt area, like your ankle or something, and it progresses from there.

After you and him get intimate, bring back someone peeking at you two through the fence where they find a way in with additional friends joining you.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I was never straight, but at one time I was straight acting. I had done a few things, but nothing wild. They guy that turned me out said that he just knew... he could tell I wanted it.

 

[TheF1x3r]

I was never straight, but at one time I was straight acting. I had done a few things, but nothing wild. They guy that turned me out said that he just knew... he could tell I wanted it.

If you can, would you mind telling us how it came about and how it was initiated?

Like.. how did the guy that turned you out progress from "slight ping on the gaydar" to "got him alone" to "he's got post nut clarity".

 

[Swuchrow]

I was trained as sissy in my 20s by a 50s coworker. It started as a friendship. We were both single and hang out watching sports. It flipped one night when he pulled out his porn collection and pulled his cock out in front of me. We made eye contact and he said “come here. You know you want it”. That was all it took.

From there he groomed me to be his sissy faggot that lasted a couple years until I moved.

 

[nassauguy_2001]

To keep the mods happy, suffice to say I started young.
As an adult, I dress and appear as a manly man, but gay guys do have their "gaydar" and I have been hit on several times (20+) by guys.
And yes, I have responded as they expected most of those times and have ended up on my knees blowing them in many interesting places!!!
Occasionally on my back, but we will save that story for another day!

 

[lordpenizworth]

While there are similar threads, I'm bumping this because of its value.

If we can arrive at a pattern within peoples' histories, then we will all have something to think/plan/act on.

But first we need samples.
These accounts are among the most titillating.

 

[OlderBtm4U]

… gay guys do have their "gaydar" and I have been hit on several times (20+) by guys.
… Occasionally on my back, but we will save that story for another day!

Speaking for what I’m sure is a large number of guys, I can’t wait for that day to arrive.

 

[TheF1x3r]

I was trained as sissy in my 20s by a 50s coworker. It started as a friendship. We were both single and hang out watching sports. It flipped one night when he pulled out his porn collection and pulled his cock out in front of me. We made eye contact and he said “come here. You know you want it”. That was all it took.

From there he groomed me to be his sissy faggot that lasted a couple years until I moved.

Could you explain in more detail? Like did the sexual side of it all start suddenly on one night?

I have heard similar stories to this but they seem way over simplified; like surely the guy would try a touch test first, or maybe start off with small jokes to test the water with how it would go ahead of just pulling his banger out?

 

[TheF1x3r]

To keep the mods happy, suffice to say I started young.
As an adult, I dress and appear as a manly man, but gay guys do have their "gaydar" and I have been hit on several times (20+) by guys.
And yes, I have responded as they expected most of those times and have ended up on my knees blowing them in many interesting places!!!
Occasionally on my back, but we will save that story for another day!

Can you talk us through an encounter where a gay guy has "detected a target" and how they progressed it until the point of it being sexual?

I'm trying to find the cues like:

- prolonged eye contact
- physically getting closer and eventually to personal space
- touch test/touching

Like how did you know you were even being hit on?

 

[TheF1x3r]

While there are similar threads, I'm bumping this because of its value.

If we can arrive at a pattern within peoples' histories, then we will all have something to think/plan/act on.

But first we need samples.
These accounts are among the most titillating.

Good - it's not just me who wants to find this out

We can all do the sex bit, but I'm really interested in how people get there without using dating sites/apps

 

[TheF1x3r]

Speaking for what I’m sure is a large number of guys, I can’t wait for that day to arrive.

When it does happen please report back to this thread

 

[nassauguy_2001]

Can you talk us through an encounter where a gay guy has "detected a target" and how they progressed it until the point of it being sexual?

I'm trying to find the cues like:

- prolonged eye contact
- physically getting closer and eventually to personal space
- touch test/touching

Like how did you know you were even being hit on?

For me, all of the above but the eye contact is the first hint. I usually notice a guy looking directly at me and I turn away for a few moments then look back. If he is still looking directly at me I smile nicely. Most times he will come closer and repeat the same "dance" just to be certain he is seeing things as they are. A simple "hey, what's going on?" usually follows depending on the location and circumstances. If a dialogue is established there may be some touching, but that's rare in my experiences.

I would usually move to a slightly different location and see if he is still watching me. Then another big smile and he knows for sure that I am interested. At that point I will either go up to him, or look directly at him so there is no confusion that he is safe to approach me.

The prolonged or repeated eye contact is the most foolproof test!!!

It worked in a crowded shopping mall this afternoon. Too many people around for any touching but after a quick couple of words he walked me out to my car. I am not into car play, but I did some groping between parked cars to see what he was offering. We exchanged cell numbers for a possible meeting tomorrow. I'll keep you posted!

 

[KarinSoftly]

I think we give off signals. I was married and at least one man was attracted to me.

 

[Bossybats]

For me, all of the above but the eye contact is the first hint. I usually notice a guy looking directly at me and I turn away for a few moments then look back. If he is still looking directly at me I smile nicely. Most times he will come closer and repeat the same "dance" just to be certain he is seeing things as they are. A simple "hey, what's going on?" usually follows depending on the location and circumstances. If a dialogue is established there may be some touching, but that's rare in my experiences.

I would usually move to a slightly different location and see if he is still watching me. Then another big smile and he knows for sure that I am interested. At that point I will either go up to him, or look directly at him so there is no confusion that he is safe to approach me.

The prolonged or repeated eye contact is the most foolproof test!!!

It worked in a crowded shopping mall this afternoon. Too many people around for any touching but after a quick couple of words he walked me out to my car. I am not into car play, but I did some groping between parked cars to see what he was offering. We exchanged cell numbers for a possible meeting tomorrow. I'll keep you posted!

Well how did it go?

 

[nassauguy_2001]

Well how did it go?

Have not been able to connect yet...

 

[nassauguy_2001]

Have not been able to connect yet...

It's been a week now, so I have officially been ghosted.
Next!

 

[Nekidinaz]

I think we give off signals. I was married and at least one man was attracted to me.

I think you're right...if someone is in the market for a partner to play with, they'll know if they have a willing recipient...I don't know how, but it just seems that in my experience, others often know when I"m "willing" to play and I'm not openly gay or even bi but I likewise can tell when someone is attracted to me...especially at the gym or in the showers

 

[Nekidinaz]

Thinking back, I recall men flirting with me years ago. I was too ignorant to realize it or I blew them off. Missed opportunities.

I had the same experience...men would flirt with me and at first I pretended like I didn't notice but after a while I started to become very turned on by having someone watching me that I would respond by masturbating openly for them to see and ultimately they would masturbate themselves while watching me...it was very exciting!

 

[Nekidinaz]

That does sound exciting!

I get very excited

 

[Suxnbenzover]

I have often wondered the same as the OP, how do they know? One day, I was out riding my Harley when I stopped at a convenience store for gas. Now, I am 6'4"/220, appear very masculine and act in the same manner. As I am filling my bike, an older gentleman approached me, casually talking about bikes, the weather, etc. Just small talk.
Out of the blue, he asked if I would like to come by his house for a cold brew and more conversation. Being a person of solitude, I shocked myself by accepting his invitation and followed him to his house. Once inside, he grabbed a couple of beers from his fridge and offered his recliner while he sat at his sofa. We engaged in conversation for a few minutes when he reached for the tv remote and soon, gay porn began playing.
He smiled and asked if I minded and I nervously answered that whatever he wanted was fine since it was his house. We sat in silence as a scene with an older man embracing a younger man. My host gave me a wink as he slid his shorts down exposing his partially erect cock, looked me directly in the eye and said, "we both know why you accepted my invitation! Let's get started!"
By the time I left his house, I had sucked his cock on the couch, then followed him to his bed where we proceeded to have passionate sex.
So, I too ask the question, "how did he know?"

 

[Escierto]

I have often wondered the same as the OP, how do they know? One day, I was out riding my Harley when I stopped at a convenience store for gas. Now, I am 6'4"/220, appear very masculine and act in the same manner. As I am filling my bike, an older gentleman approached me, casually talking about bikes, the weather, etc. Just small talk.
Out of the blue, he asked if I would like to come by his house for a cold brew and more conversation. Being a person of solitude, I shocked myself by accepting his invitation and followed him to his house. Once inside, he grabbed a couple of beers from his fridge and offered his recliner while he sat at his sofa. We engaged in conversation for a few minutes when he reached for the tv remote and soon, gay porn began playing.
He smiled and asked if I minded and I nervously answered that whatever he wanted was fine since it was his house. We sat in silence as a scene with an older man embracing a younger man. My host gave me a wink as he slid his shorts down exposing his partially erect cock, looked me directly in the eye and said, "we both know why you accepted my invitation! Let's get started!"
By the time I left his house, I had sucked his cock on the couch, then followed him to his bed where we proceeded to have passionate sex.
So, I too ask the question, "how did he know?"

After reading your post, I have the same question, how did he know?

 

[Suxnbenzover]

After reading your post, I have the same question, how did he know?

I have often wondered. Then again, I ask myself why I accepted such an invitation because I am not a very social person!

 

[Escierto]

I have often wondered. Then again, I ask myself why I accepted such an invitation because I am not a very social person!

Were you ever propositioned before or after by a man? By a woman?