Lonely girl

[DuvessaNight]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

 

[Denimandlace05]

I’m looking for the exact same. Will pm you!

 

[KatieDoes]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

Welcome to Lit.

Your inbox is about to blow up. You don’t owe everyone a response, and you don’t have to be polite to creepy perverts that don’t speak to you respectfully.

There are good men here. They’re worth finding. Don’t let the creepers run you off.

 

[DuvessaNight]

Welcome to Lit.

Your inbox is about to blow up. You don’t owe everyone a response, and you don’t have to be polite to creepy perverts that don’t speak to you respectfully.

There are good men here. They’re worth finding. Don’t let the creepers run you off.

Thank you Katie! I appreciate your advise. I suppose I worry mostly about being rude but I’m definitely not into crude creepy perverts so I’ll shut that down pronto.

It’s definitely nice to see another woman be welcoming and reassuring. Thanks for taking the time to post

 

[surferjake]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

So you're not alone, and not the only person to be through the situation you find yourself in.. it happens, and there are different ways you can move forward.

I've had friends, both men and women, go through the same thing, and of course I've been up and down the road. There's positivity to be found.

 

[KatieDoes]

Thank you Katie! I appreciate your advise. I suppose I worry mostly about being rude but I’m definitely not into crude creepy perverts so I’ll shut that down pronto.

It’s definitely nice to see another woman be welcoming and reassuring. Thanks for taking the time to post

I legit just saw the worst offender in the ‘members currently online’ list showing that he was reading this thread…. Probably crafting a message right now to tell you how lucky you are that he responsed.

I don’t want to add to your inbox implosion, but if you want to know a few to watch out for, please feel free to PM me.

 

[DuvessaNight]

I legit just saw the worst offender in the ‘members currently online’ list showing that he was reading this thread…. Probably crafting a message right now to tell you how lucky you are that he responsed.

I don’t want to add to your inbox implosion, but if you want to know a few to watch out for, please feel free to PM me.

Yes, please give me your cliffs notes I’ll send you a message!

 

[alex4every1]

Hello! I just dropped you a PM. You sound sweet and I hope we get to talk, at least...

 

[lj072057]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

I read your post with intrigue. Wow, you express yourself well. It’s refreshing to see someone being authentic about their situation in life, including their secret interests and desires. I’ve been where you are. I feel like I’ve almost grown immune to the sense of loneliness. It has left me yearning for a long time…yearing for a connection that just isn’t there. I’m a retire teacher, in my sixties, definitely older than you. Not sure if that’s a turn off for you, if so, I respect interest in looking for someone younger. I’m married, my children are grown. Similar to yourself, the intimacy and romance in my marriage has pretty much up and left. I love the outdoors, hiking, biking, walking along the beach and into the woods. I’m into photography, especially nature photography. Would love to share some conversations if you’re interested, either here or through email or other communication venues. Thanks for posting.

 

[Deadbed1968]

Yes, please give me your cliffs notes I’ll send you a message!

I hope you are able to find a solid connection. There are a great many of us in similar situations here. Literotica is a more friendly platform and a seemingly safer place to share than many other sites. I’ve found a very receptive group here. The very best of luck to you.

Also check out the “Sexless Marriages” chat. There are a great number of us talking over there.

 

[DuvessaNight]

I hope you are able to find a solid connection. There are a great many of us in similar situations here. Literotica is a more friendly platform and a seemingly safer place to share than many other sites. I’ve found a very receptive group here. The very best of luck to you.

Also check out the “Sexless Marriages” chat. There are a great number of us talking over there.

Thank you, I will have a look

 

[michael1966b]

Hi Duvessa. I am in a very similar position, and would love to chat with you. Feel free to PM if you are interested in talking!

 

[mr_d_w]

Enjoyed this read. Good communication. Good luck!

 

[personalpicstn]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

Refreshing share from you DN,
This is a great place for an outlet and to meet a few people you can feel comfortable chatting with. I’d love to hear more of your creative side would be happy to help you explore making art/photography with your boddy as a creative outlet.
I’ve got a similar story of being happy and content with my life for the most part, but wanting, needing some more sensual and erotic and passionate relationships. That’s what led me into boudoir and erotic photography where I get to help women feel wonderful. They often share a little too much of their story with me, but I keep it private and we have that intimate trusting relationship.

 

[shineovermoon]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

I am a 67 year old retired male, which may be quite older than what you looking for. But if you need someone to chat with I am retired so I am available almost anytime. I wish you the best in finding that special person to help you.

 

[MLoso]

Hello sweetie I am ina similar situation. Would love to discuss and possibly more M

 

[darvy]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

You are not alone in your feelings! Let me know if you need someone to share those feelings with or anything you want to talk about.

 

[vanbyrd]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

You sound like the perfe

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

Let's connect, Duvessa.

 

[vanbyrd]

You sound like the perfe

Let's connect, Duvessa.

Since you liked my post. I'm assuming you might be interested in me. I'm male, looking for a female sexual partner with no strings, 70 years old, divorced. Ask and ye shall receive.

 

[Indyrugby]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

I just wanted to say hello and I can definitely feel for you and your situation. I'm not sure why I feel it but I know with a great certainty that is MORE to life and relationships. Don't be afraid to go looking!

 

[bill4672a]

Hi, I PM'd you awhile back. I hope you have found someone that you connect with. Best wishes for you

 

[js200]

Hello Duvessanight,
Lol, how's your inbox going? I am in a similar situation to you, 34/M. I am in NZ so probably never really going to meet, but if you want a chat buddy from the other side of the world to talk to, happy to share experiences or differences in world views on some of this stuff!

PM me if you want.
JS

 

[vanbyrd]

Since you liked my post. I'm assuming you might be interested in me. I'm male, looking for a female sexual partner with no strings, 70 years old, divorced. Ask and ye shall receive.

I'm also up for chatting. The main sexual organ is the brain, after all.

 

[love19812022]

I am so new and awkward at this, but thought I’d dip my toes in and see what happens.

I suppose I’ll start with a little about me.
I’m 38, female. Straight. Married. In an intimate-less & sexless marriage. I haven’t been with anyone but him in a very very long time. I can count on one hand how many partners I’ve had in my life. I definitely lean toward several kinks but haven’t had much opportunity to explore those things. Have never used dating apps. Always been very much a good girl in life. I work with the public and have a naturally bubbly and silly disposition. I completely take care of myself in every aspect of life. I’ve had several tragedies happen within the last 5-10 years and I’m at a crossroads. I find myself happy in most things, but fuck if I’m not so lonely and miss physical and emotional contact. I’m sure my circumstances are not unique, and a lot of people probably find themselves in my situation facing their 40s and just not wanting to waste anymore time wondering if there might just be more to life. But onto the important stuff! I love reading, being outside. Growing things- walking in the woods- feeding my backyard critters. Anything creative and arty. I love sitting around a bonfire at night, watching the fireflies and maybe partaking in a bit of green and having ridiculous conversations with lots of laughs.

What I’m looking for is maybe someone to connect with. Someone kind but strong. Maybe someone who is or was in a similar place as I am. Or maybe not? I don’t need you to be my therapist- just someone to talk to. Maybe awake some feelings in me that are there but have no outlet. I’m not fussy about looks or high maintenance and needy. I don’t want that from you either. Although looks do matter and appearance is important- it’s not top priority. Just be real, be yourself- and you’re kosher.

I really have no idea how any of this sounds. I know I’m a bit clueless for my age about some things. But I’ve been here, in the background, for awhile and am taking a chance and being brave. Let’s waste some time together and see what happens

i would like to chat with you

 

[Bbl87]

Similar age and situation here, though the bedroom in our marriage is not quite as dead as yours is by the sounds of it. Just wanted to chime in to let you know you're not alone!