dr_mabeuse
seduce the mind
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sweetsubsarahh said:Zoot, I'm so glad you added Asperger's to the discussion.
My children have difficulty at times with the understanding of social norms. Their disability is not too severe, they place at the high functioning end of the spectrum, but there are definite times that they remain confused about certain expectations.
They do see a terrific child psych who works with them on role-playing actions for different situations (among other things). If they practice it, they can learn what to say, what to do, how to react.
This is so they can fit in.
Our pets help tremendously, and lately our young logical son has been cooing to the cats as he strokes their fur. This is good. As they mature we're seeing more positive social behaviors emerging due to repetition and training.
But it's telling that this strictly logical/analytical point of view is considered a disability.
My brother-in-law is a functioning autistic. He holds down a simple manual-labor job and has savant tendencies (encyclopedic knowledge of pro sports, for example, down to the different time-out chords they play in every pro basketball stadium in the US) but he can't empathize and so he can hardly commnicate. It's tragic. he can ask questions and make statements, but everything else we do with communication - like 95% of it, the teasing, playing, stroking, joking, cooing, opining, dreaming, imagining - that's closed to him.
I recently saw a guest editorial from a college kid with Asperger's which I at first thought was silly. He was complaining about discrimination in his dorm because no one wanted to be his friend because of his condition. On the one hand, that's not surprising. He'd say inapporpriate things, wouldn't laugh at their jokes, couldn't empathize, couldn't understand what they were feeling, so who'd want to hang around with someone like that. Then on the other hand, you've got to feel for him. We all take our ability to empathize so much for granted that it's kind of horrifying to think that it's so fragile.
It makes you wonder how much our ventromedial prefrontal cortex has to do in determining our plotics and philosophy. Could it be that we bleeding hearts are more developed in that area? It's been said that the history of mankind is the story of an expanding area of empathy where we've gone from just caring about ourselves to our family, our tribe, our city-state, our race or ethnic group, our nation, and finally to all humankind. Those of us who feel the horror of the Iraq war - are we more able to empathize with the Iraqis as human beings rather than as terrorists?
I've heard of those runaway-train thought experiments before. They use them a lot in investigating morals and ethics. For instance, if you see a runaway train headed for a group of five poeple and know you could save them by pushing an innocent victim in front of the train, would you do it?
Logic tells us yes - push him; five lives are more valuable than one. But most people answering (as truthfully as the fanciful situation allows) would say no, they couldn't bring themselves to kill an innocent person eveb to save other lives. It's just more evidence that our morality is ruled by emotion more than logic.

