Logging off

[goldfinger]

Well I've given a lot of time and energy to this site and my stories and some other stories but I've come to realise that if I am going to break my sex/porn addiction the only way to do it is log off.

I am going to close all my stories and delete my threads as far as possible. Sorry if this pisses you off but take it as an invite to examine yourself. Aren't you secretly ashamed at writing this stuff? No? Would you tell your mum about it? Or your girlfriend?

So why degrade yourself. Men are noble at heart and this ones getting off the downward slope. Maybe you can too. I won't wish you luck. You don't need it. You just need determination to get off porn.

I'll make one small bet that I'll be happy to lose. No one else does the same and this message only attracts abuse.

 

[gystex]

Speak for yourself, sir. My wife knows I write this stuff, and sees no harm in it (she doesn't find it entertaining, but gladly allows me my private, harmless pleasures). She also knows about my collection of magazines, videos, and CDs of material downloaded from the web. We do not have the sort of relationship where we hide those sort of things from each other, and she is perceptive enough to know that it doesn't hurt anyone.

I wouldn't tell my mother because it's none of her business, any more than it's my business what she and my father do in the bedroom - neither of us wants to know! I use a pseudonym because I have a very unusual real name - I am, as far as I can tell, the only person in the world with my exact name - and I don't want relatives and such looking me up on the web and finding this. Not because I would be embarrassed, but because they would and I respect my family enough to spare them that.

I'd like to think that I've never written anything that "degrades" anyone. I write about people having sex. Sex is a natural, beautiful thing and nothing to be ashamed of. Not only that, but it's a good release. I have fantasies about doing it with two girls at the same time - I can't act on them because I feel that actual sexual contact is something that I should only share with my wife. By writing about it, I'm able to get it out of my system in a healthy, harmless way.

Porn addiction is another matter. If you find you're doing this sort of thing to the exclusion of things that are really important, that it affects your life negatively and you keep it up anyway, if you feel it's becoming compulsive, then by all means quit and feel good about it should you succeed. But some of us do this because it's fun, not because we're psychologically addicted.

 

[Vance]

If I was truly ashamed, I wouldn't be posting my real name in these threads or any of the other sexual or non-sexual endeavors I take on the Internet. CHYOO happens to be one of those sexual endeavors I'm talking about, and it's a real treat to be able to work with other people who have the same interests as I do. It makes me feel more human.

As a rule of thumb, I'm generally not attracted to anybody unless I like her just the way she is. I'm single right now, but if I had to deal with somebody who wanted me to change who I am or the things I like, I don't want to have anything to do with it.

 

[niceguy2002tim]

My thoughts.

Goldfinger,
as a person who has contributed to your stories and had you write for mine, I'll miss you. I am not sure what inspired your change of heart but I hope all works out well for you.

As for everybody else, I love Chyoo. I have written almost 100 threads for 22 different stories. Being able to share my talents with everybody makes me feel good. I have a skill for writting and I enjoy other people reading it.

A healthy dose of porn is great. I feel no shame for it, no I wouldn't share it with my parents. I share it with my wife, she enjoys my stories and encourages me to write. Telling little sex stories where my wife and I play the main characters in bed is a great thing for the sex.

Anyway, whatever made you change your I hope is best for you. Hopefully you did it for you and not somebody else.

-Tim (niceguy2002)

*Now, back to writting porn!*

 

[jakelyon]

Agreement

I agree with what Tim and others have said before me. I have been writing porn stuff for years, and was happy to find some place to put it up and get some feedback. It is an appropriate hobby that I do not find repulsive, or addictive.

It is just fun as long as it is not taken to excess. Hopefully Goldfinger will find the peace that he is seeking. As for me I plan to continue writing as long as someone wants to read it.

 

[SparkyMan]

Reading and writing is good!

I'm sorry to hear we are losing a good writer in the group!

As for myself, I have found that the pure abundance of porn on the internet has made me immune to the "pure" thrill of sex!

There is nothing left to the imagination anymore! There's a picture for everything, and movies to back them up! All of it is attainable (free of charge if you know how to get it)! Seeing it all many years ago, has dulled my senses of sight!

The story telling allows the readers to "imagine" and use their creative senses to take them wherever they want to go! It's always fun to see how certain stories are going to turn out, like watching a movie, and having multiple endings that you could choose to watch!

The part I like most about CHYOO is that you only read what you want to read... (you can usually tell where a story is heading... and if you don't want to read it... you don't have to); But you also have the ability (when you're an editor/author) to limit the direction of your stories!

Rather than quit and leave CHYOO forever, why not write for the "non-erotic" stories instead?

Unfortunately, I feel there is an outside influence affecting Goldfinger's decision! The only words of advice I can offer is to live for yourself, and NEVER for anyone else! You are who you are, and if you cover it now, it'll come out later and haunt you! It may even hurt you!

Best of luck! Best wishes!

 

[jakelyon]

The Exit

Thought I would pop this back to the top for any new comers who missed Goldfingers exit. I wonder how it all worked out for him?

 

[niceguy2002tim]

Like All Art..

Hey Jake,
I just thought of something funny. It's like most art, it becomes more famous when the artist is dead. Goldfinger has been dead to Chyoo since his departure, yet his story is on the top 5 list. lol. Funny Shit.

I wonder if he regrets leaving Chyoo. I'd like to know which convent he is at now... I wonder how the porn addiction went for him.

-Tim

 

[jakelyon]

#1

The story with no story is now #1 on the Chyoo all time list. I'd tell you the title but it doesn't have one. I'd tell you what it is about but no one knows. But it is #1 among the Chyoo voters.

 

[Imhotep]

Only here......It's A MADHOUSE!.......A MADHOUSE!

 

[InsatiableMe]

Well I've given a lot of time and energy to this site and my stories and some other stories but I've come to realise that if I am going to break my sex/porn addiction the only way to do it is log off.

I am going to close all my stories and delete my threads as far as possible. Sorry if this pisses you off but take it as an invite to examine yourself. Aren't you secretly ashamed at writing this stuff? No? Would you tell your mum about it? Or your girlfriend?

So why degrade yourself. Men are noble at heart and this ones getting off the downward slope. Maybe you can too. I won't wish you luck. You don't need it. You just need determination to get off porn.

All I have to say is "ROFLMMFAO"! I'm sure this man won't be back to respond, but I just have to post this...!

I, for one, am a woman, not a man. W O M A N. Female. I am not addicted to porn. In fact, porn makes laugh a hell of a lot more often than it turns me on. (And, I'm not pathetic enough to sit at home alone masturbating to porn. I have a sex life. )

I am not ashamed to write erotica. Yes, I do share it with my boyfriend. He proof reads everything I have ever written. And, yes, my family knows I write erotica and they know about Literotica. (I'm sure they've been by to check out some things.)

Do you think Ann Rice is "ashamed" of her millions that came partly from erotica? Of course not! Thing Hugh Heffner or Larry Flint are ashamed of their millions? Think they'll all give it away to "better" themselves? You're kidding yourself if you do.

Remember, not everyone is a poor, pathetic excuse of a man (or woman). Some of us know self control and restraint. Some of us don't make porn our life. We don't "cheat" on out significant other (even if it is "only porn" and not really cheating).

Now, I'm sure you're too much of a coward to come back to this site to read our replies, but I'm sure the other members here will get a kick out of what I've said.

So, with that, I say good bye and good riddance.

 

[Ooohkitty]

Just wondering am i the only one to notice that maybe 50 diffrent stories are now linked into this DEAD STORY

i love it

i love it

i love it

god i love CHYOO

Worship Me,
Christy

 

[kendahl6969]

Further backstory about that 'blank' top-rated story for those not familiar already..-Ed