Living alone

[penguindance]

 

[Guru]

 

[penguindance]

 

[Raina]

The toilet seat is always the way you left it.

 

[nasty1]

If you ever need a roomie for teh duration of his absense, PM me. Living alone..hmm. You can do whatever, whenever you want to. But, you probably do that, now.

 

[Cibo]

You can't do that if you have someone living with you? I've never let that stop me...

You can walk around nekkid...

 

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[Aphrodisiac]

Well when I used to live alone, I enjoyed that I could just walk into my apartment and just throw everything everywhere and not worry about someone telling me to pick it up.

Also when you live alone you get to decorate how you like, you can do anything you like with your place, as opposed to having someone living with you and them decorating the whole place with lace .. my ex roommate had really bad taste ...

You don't have to wait to take a shower ... you can take long bubble baths with no one knocking on the door and telling you to hurry up.

Just some of the things I enjoyed when living alone....

Also when you bring someone home, you can just go up for it and not worry about anyone seeing or listening in on your night activites.

Lots of luck and enjoy your new place.

 

[flawed_ethics]

Ummm....

If you desire to masturbate you can do it however you want without having to worry about your roommate walking in?

Do what you want, however you want to do it.

I'm sure the positives will dawn on you soon enough - just go in commando style (not literally, unless your gutsy).

 

[Coca~Cola]

You always get the remote control or even better you can turn the TV off and just read in silence...
Yes, I am enjoying living alone again.

 

[Guru]

 

[His_kitty]

I've never done it before. In a few hours I will be doing it for the first thing. Somebody tell me a good thing about this before I hyperventilate....

I moved out of my mothers home at 18 into my husbands.

So here I am at 29 and living alone for the first time in my life, save for my son.

Its hard sometimes.. but y'know not having knots in my tummy an hour before he came home until he went to bed at night, is worth it.

A few other added benefits -

If you don't feel like cooking you don't have to, you can just toss a frozen pizza in the oven or heck just eat a bowl of cereal.
Veg out on the couch with a book or a good movie and be you.

You can sleep in the middle of the bed and hog all the blankets.
You don't have to wash out beard clippings from the sink.
You have control of the remote.

You'll do just fine.

 

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[Zaudika]

I've never done it before. In a few hours I will be doing it for the first thing. Somebody tell me a good thing about this before I hyperventilate....

It really is awesome hon.. ... I got my first place alone about a year ago, still live here now. Those first few days, nights, I was scared to death. I hated it, but wanted it badly at the same time. And over time.... I found out....
I LOVED IT!!!...... I could be nekkid anytime, stay up as late as I wanted without bothering anyone, masterbate anytime as long and as loud as I wanted (considering neighbors of course, lol), leave my towel on the back of the chair or my clothes in the livingroom for a night or day without having to worry about someone bugging me about it. Freedom!!!!!!!!!...... Being able to do anything and everything you want, when you want. Don't worry dear, there's times when its a bit strange, but in the end, you'll probably love it.

 

[penguindance]

Re: Re: Living alone

 

[nasty1]

Lol, Nasty1, dear....if I wanted a guy to live with me, I'd talk the new bf into it, lol. (Damn borders anyway.)

Borders me shit. Hop on a plane, I can go wherever I want. Relatives would miss me, though.

 

[Zaudika]

There's no one to tell about your day when you get home from work...
There's no one in bed to snuggle with when you get there....
Cooking is no fun, because there is no one to appreciate it....

These things are kind of hard to do with out at times. But try to focus more on the things that you will really enjoy about it. Besides... soon you'll have those things again, I've seen you post, and you seem like a sweetheart, someone will come sweep ya off your feet and then move in before ya know it.

Editted to say: Ok, someone already has swept ya up.. lol.

 

[Raina]

There's no one to tell about your day when you get home from work...
There's no one in bed to snuggle with when you get there....
Cooking is no fun, because there is no one to appreciate it....

That's what friends and your kids are for. If you want to talk about your day, phone a friend. Invite people over for dinner, or cook gourmet meals for one.

The snuggling part is harder....but if things were going badly, were you really snuggling in bed much before?

 

[penguindance]

 

[Raina]

You'll be fine. You'll find that you're a happier, more content person without all the tension, and your kids will be happier because you are.

 

[Vinny]

When your down and out a good friend be it male can call you without getting the 5th degree from the man you live with

 

[Guest]

You can finally read all those books.....

You've been meaning to get to. Or....write a story about your experience. Even a poem.

You might find it to be great therapy if nothing else.

I remain,

 

[penguindance]

 

[Bandit58]

I've been on my own for 9 months now. I didn't go to bed till 6am this morning, I went out and had drinks with some girlfriends and we talked and talked and talked some more......my best friend came back to my place for coffee at 4am and we talked for another 2 hours. I couldn't do that if I still lived with my husband and kids........face it, I couldn't do anything if I was still with him.

I'm still getting used to it, I'm 44 and hadn't ever lived alone before, hell it was the scariest thing I've ever done but it's so worth it, you have time to think and plan and just be you. If you don't feel like doing the dishes......no big deal. Watch what you want when you want on TV....listen to music as loud as you like......go out without getting the third degree.......go to bed when you want.....I can be online for hours and not worry about being put down or criticised. Freedom is a wonderful thing, especially if you've never had it before........