little turn-offs

[@}-}rebecca----]

Well.........................

Spill please people !

I'll spare you my list until I am in a less cheeky mood, as I don't come with insurance today

Credit to: Le Shank for the Idea of this Thread

 

[Trinique_Fire]

claiming dominance and the respect for one's boundaries, and then showing otherwise.

i've experienced this from a couple people. yeesh.

 

[be_ignited]

Confidence is sexy, yes. Egotism is another thing entirely. It makes the little psychologist inside me scream: inferiority complex. No thank you.

 

[snowy ciara]

Ego. Confidence is good, but ego is a turn off.

Gender based or biased Dominants. I.E. I am Male, so I am Dom and you are nothing. Or All Hail the Female, especially if you have a penis. I just don't understand how having a penis (Manly Staff of Dominance) or a vagina (Great Replicating Fount of Dominance) makes one part of the species better than any other part.

Bad hygeine. Especially if it's just one thing. The other day I saw a HOT guy. Nice bod, long, neatly groomed hair, nice goatee, lovely wonderful hands. Not super formally dressed, but clean clothes. When I worked the room and got closer to him, he had black crud under his fingernails and along the cuticles of his hands. It was kinda weird. The rest of him was all put together.

There's more, but I expect enough rotten tomatoes as it is already.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

'Rudeness to people in the service industry genuinely trying to provide good service.'

Its my absolute pet hate over and over. The Lifestyle of the Rich and Famous crowd do it the most in my experience. You would honestly think people afforded privilege and the high end service levels they attain could match it with enough style to treat people serving them with respect for their craft and the benefits attained at being on the receiving end of such. Its without a doubt people that behave that way know better , they just chose not to. It only takes a minute to look someone in the eye, smile and say thank you . Goes to show real class can not be bought.

grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Honestly anyone can have everything else apparently in their favor but the very moment I witness this I am finished with them.

Makes me reaaaaaaaally angry

 

[BeachGurl2]

Bad hygiene.

Being called slut or whore. Just doesn't do it for me.

Arrogance.

People trying too hard.

Desperation.

Liars and cheats.

Attention whores . . . well, except Marquis.

Posers.

Edited to add: Double standards . . . if you expect perfection from me, you damn well better expect it from yourself.

 

[A Desert Rose]

I have no little turn offs.

They are all big ones or they'd not be turn offs.

Follow me?

Well if you do, I'd reccommend you don't, 'cause I've no idea where I'm going and that's not a way for you to go, either. I always look out for my friends.

 

[Netzach]

pride in ignorance has to be my biggest turnoff of the last 6 months, and it seem to be spreading like contagion

 

[myinnerslut]

drug users

people who pretend they know me and act like they know me, but dont

guys who think they have the right to order me around (and all other girls regardless of whether they are invoved in bdsm) simply becuase they are guys

assholes

 

[Marquis]

pride in ignorance has to be my biggest turnoff of the last 6 months, and it seem to be spreading like contagion

Yeah, that's always been a big one for me too.

 

[Shankara20]

cigarette smoking = turn-off

 

[subfem1963]

Smelly breath, Rudeness, and Liars.

 

[Marquis]

People who can't keep an appointment or be relied on, flakes in general.

 

[CutieMouse]

Being complimented for my looks- especially if the person doing the complimenting doesn't know me from Eve. Compliment my mind, wit, writing, business sense, personality, etc... I can tolerate that. Compliment my looks *after* taking the time to see the rest of me... no problem. Suggest in any way, shape, or form, that I'm pretty, without establishing a Friendship before hand... I toss up walls bigger than the one that used to stand in Berlin.

 

[BiBunny]

Double standards (Thank you for reminding me of that one, BeachGurl!).

The phrases, "You're not really a switch," or, "You're not really bisexual." How the hell do you know? Just because I prefer being submissive to male Doms doesn't mean I can't enjoy other things. (I don't have much experience on top, but Master has promised to help me with that. It doesn't hurt that he's a switch himself. Our levels of Dom and sub are complimentary. He doesn't want to bottom as much as Top, and I don't like to Top as much as bottom. It all works out.) When Dom/mes throw the, "You're not really a switch" line at me, I tell 'em that I could make 'em beg me for mercy in a heartbeat if I wanted to, and there is no further conversation. As for not really being bisexual? If I'm not attracted to you, honey, it's you, not me. I can be attracted to anyone so long as his/her personality's not ugly.

Finally, stupidity. I don't mean a lack of education or anything like that. I've met people less educated than me who were wayyyyyyyyyyyy smarter. I have to be able to like someone outside of a D/s context before there can ever be anything else. A big part of my liking someone is being able to carry on intelligent conversation with that person.

 

[RJMasters]

Being complimented for my looks- especially if the person doing the complimenting doesn't know me from Eve. Compliment my mind, wit, writing, business sense, personality, etc... I can tolerate that. Compliment my looks *after* taking the time to see the rest of me... no problem. Suggest in any way, shape, or form, that I'm pretty, without establishing a Friendship before hand... I toss up walls bigger than the one that used to stand in Berlin.

I always thought you were cute.

 

[ownedsubgal]

...a man asking me, "how can i make you happy"...basically seeking to please me. anyone with that attitude has instantly feminized themselves in my eyes.

...also any hint of bisexuality in a male.

...roleplayers...people who got everything they know about D/s and being Dominant from castlerealm and "screw the roses"...just trying hard to be something you're not, and mocking the rest of us in the process.

 

[angel_girl]

Indecisiveness - makes me crazy.

Bad breath -ick

Limp handshakes.

 

[shy slave]

When they have a string of saliva that connects their top and bottom lip and it quivers when they speak.

It both fascinates and repulses me in the same breath.

Thin men

Armpit smells and armpit sweat on a perfectly good shirt (farts are not a turn off unless they do it in the bed and then pull the duvet over your head to make you smell it.....).

Other things are less of a turn off and can be overlooked if I think their cock has potential

 

[L_homme]

insincerity

 

[shy slave]

I have no little turn offs.

They are all big ones or they'd not be turn offs.

Follow me?

Well if you do, I'd reccommend you don't, 'cause I've no idea where I'm going and that's not a way for you to go, either. I always look out for my friends.

Yep I follow you, but thats because your in Vegas and have a great hat, makes you kinda hard to miss lol

 

[FurryFury]

Lint in the belly button!!!

Fury

 

[Kajira Callista]

males "adjusting" in public thinking no one noticed.

 

[serijules]

Pubic hair - although this one is more so a HUGE turn-off. I cannot stand pubic hair on women.

Hypocrites

Mustaches

Netspeak

<--- this

 

[Lurnk]

chapped lips,

long-winded explanations when a simple "No" would do,

obvious and useless pretense,

spiked hair,

that little tuft of flipped hair some guys seem to dig,

sloped shoulders