Little_Sister
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Boobies!! 
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37_ttej
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Watch and learn, gentleman, watch and learn.
And as Rainshine said, you are awesome RA!
ChainedUp
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I had been thinking that this would be a "free for all" Friday but I'm pretty sure that happened yesterday. Pretty sure we gave a good representation of our maturity level yesterday lol
So, instead of a free for all, let's think about paying for it. Specifically around allowing yourself to enjoy a particular kink that you aren't enjoying with your partner. A transaction to allow yourself to enjoy what you want without the entanglement an affair might bring. Would you do it? How would you judge your best friend if they routinely sought out professional help?
So, instead of a free for all, let's think about paying for it. Specifically around allowing yourself to enjoy a particular kink that you aren't enjoying with your partner. A transaction to allow yourself to enjoy what you want without the entanglement an affair might bring. Would you do it? How would you judge your best friend if they routinely sought out professional help?
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Lord Pmann
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I haven't, but I would love to pay for sex. I think it would be fun. I've considered it a few times before.
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Not sure of this garbled up question Chained. Maybe provide some examples or scenarios that might tickle your interests. I know, I know you don't answer your own questions, but it is Friday.
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given my current situation (for those that know), this might be my only option in the future
. However, I could fall back on the classic statement that we ALL pay for sex, in one way or another. Sometimes, its a financial transaction, sometimes physical, sometimes emotional. It just depends on how much we want it, and what we are prepared to pay to get it.
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Rephrased - you aren't getting to enjoy the kink you really want from your partner. It's been discussed but it's still not happening. Everything else with said partner is fantastic. Is it wrong to hire a prostitute that is willing to satisfy your kink?
All_4_Love
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No.
That depends. If they were in a relationship with an unknowing partner, I would feel sad, for both of them. If they were single, I would probably feel a bit of bewilderment, possibly even amusement, but I would be happy that they were enjoying themselves. As far as judgement is concerned, I would try very hard not to judge in either situation because it's not my place. Each person has their own path in life, their own choices to make. To each their own.
RubenesqueAphrodite
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For me? I couldn't. My "kinks"-if you must use that word-require trust, commitment to one another, emotional attachment. Not things that one "pays" for..So, for me, the answer would be "no".
Again,the answer to your question will depend on the person answering and their specific kink.
SMNaughtywife
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Fine, I guess no answering today's questions.
Sure, why not. A few places come to mind, but the payment is just submitting.
I'll call later on this morning and see if there's a charge.
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Fine, I guess no answering today's questions.
Sure, why not. A few places come to mind, but the payment is just submitting.
I'll call later on this morning and see if there's a charge.
Sits by the phone and stares.......
Suz_anne
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What if your kink is to get paid for sex? Then you'd pay someone to pay you... when all you really want is some pretty new shoes, a "thank you" every once in awhile and a pony. Is that too much to ask????
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is "pony" a euphamism for something I'm not aware of?
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In a legal, clean establishment ... yes. I'd make the husband come along and watch.
Obviously I wouldn't judge anyone for making the same decision.
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Little_Sister
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What could be a long answer, no.
In my life it would never happen. I am totally ok with some fantasies staying fantasies. You don't have to have things to appreciate them. For every action, there is a reaction or a consequence and paying someone for sex would end my marriage and THAT is not worth it.
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I've got an "it would depend" answer for this one.
If the partner was aware of, had discussed, and had given their approval - then it would be fine.
If it was done on the sly, then no, it would not be good - it would be a fundamental betrayal of the relationship you're in.
<Casually pulls up his Depends and saunters away>
If the partner was aware of, had discussed, and had given their approval - then it would be fine.
If it was done on the sly, then no, it would not be good - it would be a fundamental betrayal of the relationship you're in.
<Casually pulls up his Depends and saunters away>
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Anything that would cost me my marriage or relationship would be a definite no go for me as well. Also, anything that would prevent me from giving of myself entirely and living with a clear heart and conscience. But those 2 things are about me. Most importantly, doing something that you know the other person wouldn't be okay with, it's about the other person. It's the same as choosing a life for them that they didn't consent to. It's deciding for yourself but also deciding for them without their knowledge. I wouldn't ever take that kind of liberty. It's not mine to take. And I don't want anyone else to take that kind of liberty with my life either. For me, it's not just about the word consent that we so often hear about in D/s or kink. It's about the autonomy that each one of us should be allowed to have as individuals.
I've always struggled with my sexuality through the years in one way or another. It feels at times like it permeates so much of who I am inherently as a person. One of those ways being the ability to distinguish between a want and a need. The line is blurred. It always has been. I vacillate between the two depending on where my head is at, at the time, I guess.
When I classify this as just fantasy, it seems much easier to distinguish as a want, and therefore dismiss as something that is just a want, a desire, and that if it's not meant to be experienced in this lifetime, then there's always the next. Lucky for me, I believe in reincarnation.
There are those times, however, that it feels like a need, and those are the hardest times to overcome, because in those moments, I feel incomplete. The next life all of a sudden doesn't feel so comforting.
And so it goes...
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Oh, my goodness! Isn't this like the fifth or sixth time you've been mistaken for a woman?
Maybe it's time to think about changing that AV.
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It's Saturday which is a pretty slow day for this thread. Apparently the ponderment of soul searching topics isn't on everyone's Saturday list. Instead everyone is out buying a Valentine's Day card, flowers, chocolate, all the trappings to make this year's VD a spectacular one. No hating on the holiday this year, embrace or ignore , no hate.
I suppose I should ask a question. What will you do today that 6momths from now you'll still remember?
I suppose I should ask a question. What will you do today that 6momths from now you'll still remember?
It's Saturday which is a pretty slow day for this thread. Apparently the ponderment of soul searching topics isn't on everyone's Saturday list. Instead everyone is out buying a Valentine's Day card, flowers, chocolate, all the trappings to make this year's VD a spectacular one. No hating on the holiday this year, embrace or ignore , no hate.
I suppose I should ask a question. What will you do today that 6momths from now you'll still remember?
I hate the holiday this year!
All_4_Love
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I've never been a big fan of VD, but since we're not allowed to hate, I choose ignore.
What will I do today that I will remember 6 months from now? That almost sounds like a challenge. I have quite the busy day ahead of me but nothing too exciting or memorable, I don't believe. So, I vow to be grateful, stay positive, remain patient, and to pour my love and light into every single person I encounter. As to whether or not anything memorable comes from that, I guess we shall see.
What will I do today that I will remember 6 months from now? That almost sounds like a challenge. I have quite the busy day ahead of me but nothing too exciting or memorable, I don't believe. So, I vow to be grateful, stay positive, remain patient, and to pour my love and light into every single person I encounter. As to whether or not anything memorable comes from that, I guess we shall see.
Lord Pmann
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What will I do today that I'll remember in 6 months? Playing sports while injured. I'm gonna pay for this later. I know it.
Me neither. It burns like a motherfucker when you pee. VD is a bitch.
Me neither. It burns like a motherfucker when you pee. VD is a bitch.
All_4_Love
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Hahaha!
C'mon, pmann, we all know fantasy football is not a high-contact sport. You're gonna be just fine.
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I saw it,so now you must also see it
It's a slow Saturday......
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It's a slow Saturday......
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