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Hi, my name is Suz_anne and I'm a flirt.

Now, it depends on the party how flirty I will be. My husband's company does a big, fancy holiday party every year and I bet his colleagues think I'm rather reserved. There's an annual neighborhood open house party where I'm a bit flirty, but not grab-assey or anything. I don't want to piss off the gossipy ladies on my street.

But a friend's holiday party? Oh, it's on. ;) They know me and know that it's mostly harmless. I'm an equal opportunity ass grabber, which seems to help. And there are usually lots of different refreshments that seem to Iower inhibitions, which is fun. Not in a car keys in a bowl kind of way, but in the "yeah, go ahead and sit on my husband's lap" kind of way.

I'm going to stop talking now.

Also... I'm a fan of ellipses. And pot. :p
 
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The holidays are almost upon us (Yeah I know, US holiday reference........;) ) the hustle and bustle in the air. Hell, Christmas songs are legal starting Friday. Are you ready? Ha, is anyone ever ready? And then there's the parties. Work, family, friends, it seems like there's one every night until Christmas Eve. Some we look forward to, some we begrudgingly attend. If I came to a party that "you" we're attending, would I notice you? Are you in the center of things being the life of the party or a wallflower trying to go unnoticed? Are you a serial flirt or do you lustfully wish you could grab that one person in a back bedroom?

As soon as I walk in the room, you would be riveted, Chained. You wouldn't be able to keep your eyes off me. You would be compelled to come talk to me without my having to flirt with you. ;)

*grin*

I never try to be the center of attention. I find that people who do that are way too full of themselves and I avoid them. I do not go out of my way to be unnoticed and I am comfortable in social situations. I prefer not to attend every holiday party I'm invited to - just way too much energy. I'd rather spend the time with people I love and enjoy. Do I flirt? Absolutely. Do I flirt with every man in the room? Heavens no.

As far as lustfully wishing to take that person in the back room, such thoughts do cross my mind from time to time. Especially if that person has piqued my interest beyond the mundane.
 
I'm super aloof. It's crazy effective. People would want to have anal sex with me. Like, receiving it from me.
 
I don't think I come across as very inviting. So I'm never the center of attention. But I wear low cut tops. So I assume I am noticed in some capacity.
 
I don't think I come across as very inviting. So I'm never the center of attention. But I wear low cut tops. So I assume I am noticed in some capacity.

I'm mostly invisible. I do not know how to flirt, because when I try, it backfires.
 
Christmas season is here, ready or not, like it or not.....and with it come Christmas/Christmas Eve engagements. I'm curious if there is any studies out there that show the success of the Christmas engagements compared to those at any other time of year? What do the Litsters think? Thumbs up or thumbs down on the Christmas engagements?
 
Christmas season is here, ready or not, like it or not.....and with it come Christmas/Christmas Eve engagements. I'm curious if there is any studies out there that show the success of the Christmas engagements compared to those at any other time of year? What do the Litsters think? Thumbs up or thumbs down on the Christmas engagements?

Why wait until some holiday time (Christmas, NYE, Valentines Day) to pop the question? It seems contrived....and definitely not spontaneous.
 
I'm curious if there is any studies out there that show the success of the Christmas engagements compared to those at any other time of year? What do the Litsters think? Thumbs up or thumbs down on the Christmas engagements?

I would be really surprised if Christmas (or other holiday) engagements were more successful than non-holiday engagements.

Personally, I don't think the time/place/setting matters much when it comes to a marriage proposal. It could be in the middle of a Trader Joe's on a Saturday (i.e. hell on earth) as long as the sincerity and sentiment is there.
 
I'm a wallflower. It's always commented on that I'm the quiet one amongst my friends (no sniggering in the back).
I'm incapable of flirting. Always have been. If a bloke tries to talk to me when I'm out, he mostly gets the short answer. Who'd have thought men don't respond overly well to verbally aggressive women?
And I wonder why I'm perpetually single.

Christmas season is here, ready or not, like it or not.....and with it come Christmas/Christmas Eve engagements. I'm curious if there is any studies out there that show the success of the Christmas engagements compared to those at any other time of year? What do the Litsters think? Thumbs up or thumbs down on the Christmas engagements?

Meh.
A dog is for life and not just for Christmas? :D
 
Christmas season is here, ready or not, like it or not.....and with it come Christmas/Christmas Eve engagements. I'm curious if there is any studies out there that show the success of the Christmas engagements compared to those at any other time of year? What do the Litsters think? Thumbs up or thumbs down on the Christmas engagements?

My sister got engaged on Christmas and has been married 25 years. I guess that worked out ok. :)

Personally, I'd rather keep the engagement separate from Christmas, it should be a special day on its own. My husband proposed on Valentine's Day, much more appropriate, IMO.
 
I personally wouldn't propose on any holiday. Except maybe Halloween because no way would she expect it then.

I don't care for VD (Valentine's Day or Venereal Disease).
 
I personally wouldn't propose on any holiday. Except maybe Halloween because no way would she expect it then.

I don't care for VD (Valentine's Day or Venereal Disease).

I definitely don't care for venereal disease.
 
I want the proposal to be around September.. maybe July..
there aren't a lot of gift giving holidays during the end of summer and sometimes I don't want to wait until Christmas.
 
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