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[BradBigBrain]

So I live within those boundaries and it helps me manage any feelings of guilt. It works for us.

I think we're the same...except we've never really talked about boundaries. We've figured it out though.

Oh, no, don't do that, BBB! Send him all the dick pics you like! Lol!

I hope he's sharing with you.

Doesn't sex help solve everything?

Not necessarily. For some reason we don't have make up sex. I think that may be me. Not sure. I've got issues with letting shit go, so I don't come around right away.

For us it prevents stuff from happening.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I don't think sex solves anything at all. It makes things feel better. But it would never actually solve anything, in my opinion. I think it would do the opposite, in fact. I think sex can cloud judgment.

 

[SweetSam42]

No. Sex doesn't help solve everything. It is intimate, and can sometimes bring emotions to the surface you were hoping would stay down - be they of the love persuasion, or of the hate persuasion. That can sometimes make things much worse than before.

 

[ChainedUp]

But, for better or worse, isn't resolution still resolution?

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

"Copulation" is merely an act orchestrated by two people where those two people sometimes manage to accomplish what one essentially could on his or her own. (that's if you omit the whole baby-making thing..)

"Making love" does not require the act of copulation,but often involves it. "Making love" also involves deeper participation by both parties. A commitment of a sorts not usually seen with just sex.

I would posit that "Making Love" could indeed, solve certain problems, but mere copulation, does not.

In other words, I can fuck you and still hate you. In this example, you are merely a living, breathing, dildo.

But, if I make love with you it at least signifies that there is a bond worthy of salvation.

 

[BradBigBrain]

In other words, I can fuck you and still hate you. In this example, you are merely a living, breathing, dildo.

But, if I make love with you it at least signifies that there is a bond worthy of salvation.

OK by me!

 

[Suz_anne]

Attempt number three. Some days the question just flows, other days, like today, it's a struggle. But something will shake out, it always does, I'm not going to worry. Maybe that's it, worry. None of us like to admit we worry, it sounds better to say that we take things as they come along. But we all worry. It's not the sexy, come fuck me, part of our personality but it's there. Some will tackle things straight away, others will try and sort out all possible outcomes, while many just do what they want, outcome be damned. I suppose the right approach is a mix of those three, but that's a tough recipe to master. Or maybe if you fuck enough it will solve itself. Doesn't sex help solve everything?

It doesn't solve everything, but I say it's worth a try. And if at first you don't succeed...

 

[SweetSam42]

But, for better or worse, isn't resolution still resolution?

There isn't necessarily resolution when things come to the surface.

 

[jezzilee]

Sometimes sex complicates things. It doesn't resolve anything at all. Depending on where you are with the sexual partner in question, whether you are in love with them, or just fuck buddies, I think sex coming into play when there are issues may lead to talking, which may lead to resolution, but at the same time, sex coming into play when there are issues may just be two people desperately trying to cover up deeper problems and masking them in an attempt to ignore them at the same time.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

OK by me!

Which are you ok with? Lol..

 

[pfflyerhot]

"Copulation" is merely an act orchestrated by two people where those two people sometimes manage to accomplish what one essentially could on his or her own. (that's if you omit the whole baby-making thing..)

"Making love" does not require the act of copulation,but often involves it. "Making love" also involves deeper participation by both parties. A commitment of a sorts not usually seen with just sex.

I would posit that "Making Love" could indeed, solve certain problems, but mere copulation, does not.

In other words, I can fuck you and still hate you. In this example, you are merely a living, breathing, dildo.

But, if I make love with you it at least signifies that there is a bond worthy of salvation.

I love seeing RA around! Where in the hell have I been, anyway?

 

[Lord Pmann]

It doesn't solve everything, but I say it's worth a try. And if at first you don't succeed...

Then anal?

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

I love seeing RA around! Where in the hell have I been, anyway?

Don't blink...lol

 

[BlackCashmere]

Don't blink...lol

I agree...its very nice to see you...

 

[Suz_anne]

Then anal?

Always the butt with you.

 

[sweetsophie512]

Attempt number three. Some days the question just flows, other days, like today, it's a struggle. But something will shake out, it always does, I'm not going to worry. Maybe that's it, worry. None of us like to admit we worry, it sounds better to say that we take things as they come along. But we all worry. It's not the sexy, come fuck me, part of our personality but it's there. Some will tackle things straight away, others will try and sort out all possible outcomes, while many just do what they want, outcome be damned. I suppose the right approach is a mix of those three, but that's a tough recipe to master. Or maybe if you fuck enough it will solve itself. Doesn't sex help solve everything?

It all depends on what it is that I'm worried about. The greater the impact, I'm less inclined to admit that I'm worried about it. I prefer to work through what I'm worried about or pretend like it doesn't exist at all. It's not a sexy answer, but it is my truth. I always do what I want anyway and I'll worry about the repercussions later (not fun sometimes), but living my life in contemplation makes me indecisive. There's nothing more I can't stand than someone who is steeped in indecision.

Does sex help solve everything? No. It is a fantastic distraction though.

But, for better or worse, isn't resolution still resolution?

You mean no resolution still a resolution. Absolutely.

Always the butt with you.

Isn't it? PMann is obsessed with it.

 

[ChainedUp]

The holidays are almost upon us (Yeah I know, US holiday reference........ ) the hustle and bustle in the air. Hell, Christmas songs are legal starting Friday. Are you ready? Ha, is anyone ever ready? And then there's the parties. Work, family, friends, it seems like there's one every night until Christmas Eve. Some we look forward to, some we begrudgingly attend. If I came to a party that "you" we're attending, would I notice you? Are you in the center of things being the life of the party or a wallflower trying to go unnoticed? Are you a serial flirt or do you lustfully wish you could grab that one person in a back bedroom?

 

[Mayberrygirl]

The holidays are almost upon us (Yeah I know, US holiday reference........ ) the hustle and bustle in the air. Hell, Christmas songs are legal starting Friday. Are you ready? Ha, is anyone ever ready? And then there's the parties. Work, family, friends, it seems like there's one every night until Christmas Eve. Some we look forward to, some we begrudgingly attend. If I came to a party that "you" we're attending, would I notice you? Are you in the center of things being the life of the party or a wallflower trying to go unnoticed? Are you a serial flirt or do you lustfully wish you could grab that one person in a back bedroom?

Hahaha...Mmm hmmm..Firstly luv...there are the parties..not there is the parties.. Early am Grammer Nazi.. But yeah...I would just grab you up...go to the backroom...you know...the one with the black lights and peacesigns and such...and fuck your brains out... Merry Christmas!!

 

[GiggLeGasm]

I think Mayberry and I go to different parties.. lol

 

[ChainedUp]

Early am Grammer Nazi..

If memory serves, that didn't end so well for them in the 40s, doubt it will be of much value here. No soup for you!

 

[Mayberrygirl]

If memory serves, that didn't end so well for them in the 40s, doubt it will be of much value here. No soup for you!

Fuck... Now what...no soup??? Man what a drag... Well Happy Thanksgiving and BAHUMBUG to the rest of it...

 

[Lord Pmann]

Hahaha...Mmm hmmm..Firstly luv...there are the parties..not there is the parties.. Early am Grammer Nazi.. But yeah...I would just grab you up...go to the backroom...you know...the one with the black lights and peacesigns and such...and fuck your brains out... Merry Christmas!!

At what point in the party do you ingest large amounts of weed and oxy?

And free ellipses for everyone!!!!

 

[jezzilee]

The holidays are almost upon us (Yeah I know, US holiday reference........ ) the hustle and bustle in the air. Hell, Christmas songs are legal starting Friday. Are you ready? Ha, is anyone ever ready? And then there's the parties. Work, family, friends, it seems like there's one every night until Christmas Eve. Some we look forward to, some we begrudgingly attend. If I came to a party that "you" we're attending, would I notice you? Are you in the center of things being the life of the party or a wallflower trying to go unnoticed? Are you a serial flirt or do you lustfully wish you could grab that one person in a back bedroom?

I am a social butterfly you *may* call me a serial flirt...if I am attending a party solo i will undoubtedly meet someone with whom the flirting is mutual and it would not surprise me at all if the attraction is great enough with the holidays warm and fuzzy feelings putting me in a giving mood...if the mistletoe is hung in just the right spot, then yes...it may happen that we sneak off to a secluded area and give each other a wonderful reason to be filled with holiday cheer...this is also a good reason to have sex in one of my favorite positions...him behind me one hand over my mouth to keep me quiet and his lips on my ear whispering filthy sweet nothings about how good his yule log feels pounding into me....oh my...I do hope the Christmas parties get here soon.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I don't care for parties all that much. I prefer smaller, more intimate settings. I find myself talking to a few interesting individuals at parties. Small talk bothers me, mostly.

 

[jezzilee]

I don't care for parties all that much. I prefer smaller, more intimate settings. I find myself talking to a few interesting individuals at parties. Small talk bothers me, mostly.

What about big talk...are you a fan?