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Lit is a world of alts. How many Lit identities have you posted under?

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It's everywhere, particularly on Am Pics and the Playground, even your little old thread, Chained.

Everyone wants to be seen, and feel part of it, I guess. I'd rather read these "almost desperate" threads and posts than read the INCREDIBLY desperate shit that filters through my inbox requesting I help you/him/them get off.

For a bunch of dirty perverts we're all so judgey of how others behave.
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It's everywhere, particularly on Am Pics and the Playground, even your little old thread, Chained.

Everyone wants to be seen, and feel part of it, I guess. I'd rather read these "almost desperate" threads and posts than read the INCREDIBLY desperate shit that filters through my inbox requesting I help you/him/them get off.

For a bunch of dirty perverts we're all so judgey of how others behave.

*snicker*

This.

Thank you, Rainshine for putting it so aptly.
 
Whether we choose to admit it or keep it hidden, the desire for validation is one of the strongest needs known to man, all men and women, not just a chosen “desperate” few. Perhaps, like anything that is suppressed, that need only grows stronger and begins to present itself in more significant and noticeable ways.

For those of us who are aware enough to acknowledge that we have this need, it becomes less significant in our desire to fulfill it. We become more able to fulfill it for ourselves versus seeking it out through others.

That said, receiving validation from another is still an intoxicating experience, no matter what level of awareness we come from. I believe there are very few human beings on this planet that can prevent themselves from feeling the euphoric effects of validation, or in some cases, even flattery.

I don't think it can be said any better than this. If we didn't need, I don't think we would be here; it just varies in timing and in degree.
 
The eeyore is my biggest pet peeve....not the person who is really having a shitty day or a bad week....but the person who constantly self depreciates in hopes (or atleast what it looks like to me) of getting feedback to the contrary....

No joke. The self deprivation can be annoying as fuck. I mean, some people have bad days or rough times. But the constant woe is me gets my goat.
 
No joke. The self deprivation can be annoying as fuck. I mean, some people have bad days or rough times. But the constant woe is me gets my goat.
The Eeyores haha (I love Eeyore) I call them Mood Vampires :D but yes they absolutely do my head in. Constant whinging and every reason under the sun why their life is so much more shite than anyone elses. You try and give support but all you're really doing is enabling them to suck the life from you because nothing you say will help. They thrive on attention. I've been sucked in before but that person is a very clever manipulator who hides under a cloak of sweetness ugghh!!


Mood Vampires....A Survival Guide :D
http://www.drjudithorloff.com/Free-Articles/Emotional-Vampire-survival.htm
 
Happy New Year!

Why doesn't alcohol go on sale the day after New Year's the way Christmas decorations do the day after Christmas?
 
Happy New Year!

Why doesn't alcohol go on sale the day after New Year's the way Christmas decorations do the day after Christmas?

Happy New Year!

I don't know ... Maybe because alcohol never goes out off season?
 
The Eeyores haha (I love Eeyore) I call them Mood Vampires :D but yes they absolutely do my head in. Constant whinging and every reason under the sun why their life is so much more shite than anyone elses. You try and give support but all you're really doing is enabling them to suck the life from you because nothing you say will help. They thrive on attention. I've been sucked in before but that person is a very clever manipulator who hides under a cloak of sweetness ugghh!!


Mood Vampires....A Survival Guide :D
http://www.drjudithorloff.com/Free-Articles/Emotional-Vampire-survival.htm

Mmhmm. I've also been sucked in an Eeyore. It's exhausting!


ETA: Happy New Year, Litiquetteville! :)
 
Happy New Year!

Why doesn't alcohol go on sale the day after New Year's the way Christmas decorations do the day after Christmas?

Is this the type of question we get when Chained is nursing a hangover?

Haha!

Happy New Year, Mr. Up. :)
 
This is Chained assuming everyone's gears are turning a little slower this morning.

Hangover? Really? I scoff at the concept ;)

Is this the type of question we get when Chained is nursing a hangover?

Haha!

Happy New Year, Mr. Up. :)
 
This is Chained assuming everyone's gears are turning a little slower this morning.

Hangover? Really? I scoff at the concept ;)

lol, my gears are in full swing...err...calibration...or whatever. ;)

I even stayed up past my bedtime, until 12:01 a.m.
 
This is Chained assuming everyone's gears are turning a little slower this morning.

Hangover? Really? I scoff at the concept ;)
I guess whether you are nursing a hangover would depend upon what you scoffed and how much.

Or were you too cheap to lash out on drinks on NYE and hoped to pick up some post NYE bargains? Does alcohol ever really go on sale?

Is it just me or when you do go to pick up a bottle on sale you tend to leave with other bottles you 'need'?
I contend that French champagne does not give me a hangover. Maybe it's my way of justifying having bought three bottles when I intended to purchase one...damn those buy two get one free deals!
 
Happy New Year!

Why doesn't alcohol go on sale the day after New Year's the way Christmas decorations do the day after Christmas?

Good Lord! What a ghastly thought. I had slightly less than half a bottle of champagne and I…do not feel quite myself. :eek:

Besides, I think the denizens of Lit may have sucked up any extraneous alcohol. I logged in for a bit before my fellow revelers arrived last night, and I must say the Lit natives were extra, extra, extra friendly! :eek:

…….Wait a second. No question about Lit resolutions? :confused:

I think I’m disappointed. Yup. Definitely.
 
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Happy New Year!!!

Happy New Year, Endless! Maybe my Lit resolution should be to post on more threads. It seems since I've been posting on the Litiquette thread, it has become sort of like the water cooler at the office meeting place for me.

It's settled, my Lit resolution is to step away from the water cooler and venture out into more threads.

Ahh, nevermind... It's cozy here. :rose:
 
Price point is all about demand, you know...!

Happy New Year everyone!
I'm off to demand some wine with lunch :p
 
In the jungle, the quiet jungle, the lion sleeps tonight.

The lion is always out there, we know it, sometimes we are able to view him from afar and be captivated by his size, strength, and beauty. Other times we hope to slip past not wanting to draw his attention.

Where does the lion lurk for you? Are you amazed at the power/strength or are you slipping past hoping not to become prey?
 
In the jungle, the quiet jungle, the lion sleeps tonight.

The lion is always out there, we know it, sometimes we are able to view him from afar and be captivated by his size, strength, and beauty. Other times we hope to slip past not wanting to draw his attention.

Where does the lion lurk for you? Are you amazed at the power/strength or are you slipping past hoping not to become prey?

Sometimes I choose the third option: I'll sneak up at the lion and caress him.
 
In the jungle, the quiet jungle, the lion sleeps tonight.

The lion is always out there, we know it, sometimes we are able to view him from afar and be captivated by his size, strength, and beauty. Other times we hope to slip past not wanting to draw his attention.

Where does the lion lurk for you? Are you amazed at the power/strength or are you slipping past hoping not to become prey?

I honour the majesty and beauty.....then I sing...

Ee-e-e-oh-mum-oh-weh

Wimoweh, wimoweh, wimoweh, wimoweh
Wimoweh, wimoweh, wimoweh, wimoweh
Wimoweh, wimoweh, wimoweh, wimoweh
Wimoweh, wimoweh, wimoweh, wimoweh

:cattail:
 
I honour the majesty and beauty.....then I sing...

Ee-e-e-oh-mum-oh-weh

Wimoweh, wimoweh, wimoweh, wimoweh
Wimoweh, wimoweh, wimoweh, wimoweh
Wimoweh, wimoweh, wimoweh, wimoweh
Wimoweh, wimoweh, wimoweh, wimoweh

:cattail:
Lol...
 
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