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Lit is a world of alts. How many Lit identities have you posted under?

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Our fearless leader has gone on walkabout for a few days. He has appointed a deputy or two, but the natives have gone wild.

My goodness gracious. Looks like I'm gonna have to step in Walking Tall style (the one with the Rock) and clean up this town...lol

Question! *ahem*

Tastes and attitudes often change as we get older. For example lately I've been listening to Don Henley's solo stuff. When did that happen? How did that happen? I don't know. As I get older I'm less impressed with bombast and volume and more impressed with smart lyrics, songcraft and sentiment. Like I've mellowed out and I'm less intense.

So as you make your trek through life what's changed for you as you get older?
 
Hmmmmmm, so while the deputies are away playing good cop, bad cop... the mice will play. Quit trying to have fun, y'all! You know how Papa C hates that.


Today's question is simple. It has to do with that feeling you get when your tummy does a happy flip. So... what gives you the "butterflies"? If you can recall, when was the last time you felt them? Do you chase that feeling or let it occur naturally?
 
Oh wow, it's a two question day! :cattail:

As I get older I see the value more in quality than quantity. That goes with everything from free time, clothes to food. Now, I'm not saying that I'm all high end rocking a pair of Jimmy Choo heels while eating organic hummus in my 100% eco friendly 15,000 sqft house. Bogo at Payless doesn't get my panties too wet anymore. Now if Zappos had Bogo, way different story!

Silly things give me butterflies. A cliffhanger at the end of a really good chapter, the ringing before I answer a call or if I've ran another mile farther than ever before. Some I chase and crave the butterflies, like running. Others just come with no explanations, dancing and flirting around my stomach lifting it away like a hot air balloon. My husband still gives me butterflies at times, making me giggle and blush like a damn teenager. The others moments in life when they appear and show their pretty little face, I just smile and enjoy the moment.
 
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Hmmmmmm, so while the deputies are away playing good cop, bad cop... the mice will play. Quit trying to have fun, y'all! You know how Papa C hates that.


Today's question is simple. It has to do with that feeling you get when your tummy does a happy flip. So... what gives you the "butterflies"? If you can recall, when was the last time you felt them? Do you chase that feeling or let it occur naturally?

Hmmmmm. The butterflies are a fantastic feeling. I think chasing them is useless. For me, it's not something that can be forced. Sometimes it just happens. Someone typically would catch my eye. Then you talk to the person and they share similar interests. And then I've got butterflies floating around. I find that if you try to force something with someone it usually doesn't come off well. Meh.
 
I was always curious about who gets to do the questions in this thread. Can anyone post a question or is it specific folks only?

Usually Papa Chained asks them. But when he is gone, he deputizes me. Then when he sees people having fun, he deputizes someone else. :D But the people were wild and naughty yesterday, despite my best efforts to pull them back in.

My goodness gracious. Looks like I'm gonna have to step in Walking Tall style (the one with the Rock) and clean up this town...lol

Question! *ahem*

Tastes and attitudes often change as we get older. For example lately I've been listening to Don Henley's solo stuff. When did that happen? How did that happen? I don't know. As I get older I'm less impressed with bombast and volume and more impressed with smart lyrics, songcraft and sentiment. Like I've mellowed out and I'm less intense.

So as you make your trek through life what's changed for you as you get older?

When did Don Henley's solo stuff happen? Boys of the Summer?!?! It is amazing and you're late to the party!

I've mellowed in a similar fashion- especially concerning music. When I was younger, I liked heavier music. Now, I pretty much just want an acoustic guitar and someone who has had their heart shattered by some ungrateful bitch. I find that I prefer simplicity well done, rather than a giant performance.

I've been to lots of concerts. Years ago I would've loved those loud, guitar driven riffs and fancy light shows. But now, those stripped down sets do so much more for me. The most moving performance of anything I've ever seen was at a concert about 7 years ago. It was at the Ryman in Nashville. The final song was done completely unplugged. No mic. No guitar input. Just completely acoustic. It was so quiet in the room you could hear the mice fucking. It was a beautiful display of musicianship, commanding a room so large with so little volume.
 
Hmm...for me, I'm coming into a greater sense of who I am, my capabilities, powers etc. I'm taking risks more now than when I was younger, to explore what challenges me to rethink conventions and traditions. I'm less afraid of who I might be.
 
Agree. I'm looking for something meaty and sexy to talk about. And not the meat in the pic above... :rolleyes:


Tastes and attitudes often change as we get older. For example lately I've been listening to Don Henley's solo stuff. When did that happen? How did that happen? I don't know. As I get older I'm less impressed with bombast and volume and more impressed with smart lyrics, songcraft and sentiment. Like I've mellowed out and I'm less intense.

So as you make your trek through life what's changed for you as you get older?

I am more tolerant, more patient, and more willing to take care of myself.
Also.. "take care of myself" has changed by definition. It's not as short sighted as it used to be.
 
My goodness gracious. Looks like I'm gonna have to step in Walking Tall style (the one with the Rock) and clean up this town...lol

Question! *ahem*

Tastes and attitudes often change as we get older. For example lately I've been listening to Don Henley's solo stuff. When did that happen? How did that happen? I don't know. As I get older I'm less impressed with bombast and volume and more impressed with smart lyrics, songcraft and sentiment. Like I've mellowed out and I'm less intense.

So as you make your trek through life what's changed for you as you get older?

As I get older, I'm more impressed with substance than I am with fluff. I enjoy movies that make me think over the ones that are pure glitz. There isn't anything wrong with eye candy, but without substance, it doesn't mean much to me.

I prefer an intimate get together with friends I actually enjoy instead of heading to a party where there are tons of people that I don't know. It bores me to death. There is a time and place for such things such as a company holiday party or cocktail hour before a company dinner, but if I had a choice, I'd rather skip it.

Am I less intense? Ehh. What I've learned is patience for the things that matter the most.

On the flip side, I've also learned that there are some things I refuse to compromise. I demand respect, tolerance and consideration from people that I love and care about as I am willing to give them that and then some.

Everything else, I take on a case by case basis. That's where the less intense comes from.


Hmmmmmm, so while the deputies are away playing good cop, bad cop... the mice will play. Quit trying to have fun, y'all! You know how Papa C hates that.


Today's question is simple. It has to do with that feeling you get when your tummy does a happy flip. So... what gives you the "butterflies"? If you can recall, when was the last time you felt them? Do you chase that feeling or let it occur naturally?

Butterflies? That delicious tingling nervous energy? Every time I indulge in something I am passionate about, I am a-buzz! When I surpass a goal that I've set for myself, I feel the same thing. Heck, even fantastic chocolate has the ability to make me feel that way.

Bottom line is that I always try to find the silver lining in most things that I do. It's so much easier to get lost in the humdrum of life than to see what is good in it. I used to believe that things happen for a reason but now there's a twist. There are some things that can't be fixed, just carried. Knowing that, it gives me the courage to know that I will be/am strong enough to live a life where I choose to be happy despite all odds.

There are things I choose and some that occur naturally. Chasing ANYTHING leads nowhere. All you can do is live each moment as if is precious.

There's my $0.05.
 
Deep? You fuckers want deep?!? Well, here is an attempt at a question that won't get you all off track. You will obey the establishment.

If you stay around here long enough, you find that you make some friends. At least, if you have a glowing personality like I do. There are some interesting people here, for sure. And some really beautiful ones also. How likely are you to find yourself genuinely attracted to someone here? I don't mean just thinking they are good looking or whatever. But you actually feel attracted to them and you have an actual connection and chemistry. Does it happen often? Are you one of those who constantly has a new person? Or do you keep people at arm's length and just keep it light?

And when you find yourself attracted to a person, do you acknowledge it? Do you let yourself think on the subject or just ignore it, because acknowledging it would make you admit you've got a crush?

*boom*

Deeper than whale pussy.
 
I developed a few crushes and freely admit it. Occasionally its been one sided and that's a bit painful. You go from chatting everyday to no response.
I've chatted with a few women but haven't really made any friends of the same gender. Probably because I'm better at sex talk than general chat and a bit narcissistic. And women aren't going to fill that need for me. I have found that the people I pm originally dont work as well for me the ones that contact me. Probably for the previous reasons.
 
How likely are you to find yourself genuinely attracted to someone here? But you actually feel attracted to them and you have an actual connection and chemistry. Does it happen often? Are you one of those who constantly has a new person? Or do you keep people at arm's length and just keep it light?

And when you find yourself attracted to a person, do you acknowledge it? Do you let yourself think on the subject or just ignore it, because acknowledging it would make you admit you've got a crush?
It doesn't happen often for me and that's largely due to me being an arm's length/keep it light kind of girl. I love to banter and have fun - that's really my reason for being here. I'm not consciously looking for anything more than that for a myriad of reasons.

That being said, of course I've had a crush on a Litster. I think that is pretty much unavoidable. But I'm cautious about how far I let it go. And I would characterise myself as an overthinker who avoids overthinking.

The struggle is real.
 
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To answer my own question...

I've had genuine crushes on a few here. These days I'm very smart about it and the realisties of it. Before, I didn't think about it much or expect any "real" feelings to come up. But they did. And it was a shock. I mean, I expect people to have massive crushes on me because I'm fucking delightful. In any event, it was shocking, but not a bad thing. You learn from life and experiences and where you want to be.

I do keep my heart and emotions in check these days, to be safe with my mind and all that jazz.

I'm pretty sure Suz_Anne must be talking about me for her crush. I can't imagine her meaning anyone else. It was the "unavoidable" part that made me sure.
 
You're so vain... you probably think that post is about you, don't you, don't you?

:rolleyes: ;) :D
 
I have a major crush on Pmann :D


Yes, I have had a few crushes, but except for one where I got burned, they haven't been much more serious than a crush on a hunky actor. I guess I have been cautious and have kept everyone at an arms length. :cool:
 
Deep? You fuckers want deep?!? Well, here is an attempt at a question that won't get you all off track. You will obey the establishment.

If you stay around here long enough, you find that you make some friends. At least, if you have a glowing personality like I do. There are some interesting people here, for sure. And some really beautiful ones also. How likely are you to find yourself genuinely attracted to someone here? I don't mean just thinking they are good looking or whatever. But you actually feel attracted to them and you have an actual connection and chemistry. Does it happen often? Are you one of those who constantly has a new person? Or do you keep people at arm's length and just keep it light?

And when you find yourself attracted to a person, do you acknowledge it? Do you let yourself think on the subject or just ignore it, because acknowledging it would make you admit you've got a crush?

*boom*

Deeper than whale pussy.

I've always been sorta curious how you know how deep a whale's pussy is. I'm thinking that it's because of experience. *smirk*

I don't develop *crushes* until I get to know them. I did have a crush on someone once upon a time purely based on their avatar. Did I reveal myself? I sure did! Do I regret it? No, not at all. If someone had a crush on me, I would want to know. :D I don't constantly have a new person because it takes time to get someone. I do keep most people at arm's length just because that's how I am. However, all bets are off once I get to know you then I'm an open book.
 
You're so vain... you probably think that post is about you, don't you, don't you?

Of course! Thank you. I'm honoured.

I have a major crush on Pmann :D

Thank you. I'm honoured.

I did have a crush on someone once upon a time purely based on their avatar.

Thank you. I'm honoured.

I've always been sorta curious how you know how deep a whale's pussy is. I'm thinking that it's because of experience. *smirk*

They're really deep. Rumour has it, my penis would fit nearly halfway into a whale pussy. So, it's REALLY deep. That's just a rumour though.
 
I'm right along the lines with Suz_anne and her thinking.

My relationships/chit-chat/ banter varies with everyone. Some I have allowed to sneak in closer than others. But I'm pretty meticulous who I let into my little bubble. I was once told that I had quite the vetting dance required to get my attention. I laugh, maybe I do. But my crazy logic helps me keep in perspective the realities of RL vs the lust filled fantasy world that can live here and swallow you up if you're not careful.
 
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