Litiquette VI

[SMNaughtywife]

^^^^^^^See that shit right there!!!
Women is a mind reader!

 

[Endless_Night]

Mother & son love and incest. I get it. Not my kink but I wanna hear all about it.
Details!
I know Suz does too! I’ll tell Trekka tonight when I talk to her. Where the hell is Endless- she’s gonna have the hardest *thud* ever!

P….

Holy Moly.

Lit is so………educational.





I'm *thunking* over here in the height of faux privacy, SMN. You know, trying to project a more sophisticated persona.

 

[Endless_Night]

^^^^^^^See that shit right there!!!
Women is a mind reader!

Hahahahaha!

And, apparently naughty, fllthy, and sweet as fuck.

And with ginormous breasts, if I remember correctly. Which I do.


Edit: Errr, the above would all be you! On reread it appears I might have misread the question.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Hahahahaha!

And, apparently naughty, fllthy, and sweet as fuck.

And with ginormous breasts, if I remember correctly. Which I do.


Edit: Errr, the above would all be you! On reread it appears I might have misread the question.

I remember the breasts. Yep. I sure do.

 

[default24]

Today's question...

How quickly will you trust someone on Lit? When you talk to someone, do you have walls up? Or you go in with your heart out? How long does it take for your walls to come down?

I trust people immediately and completely. If they keep their story semi-realistic I'm all in. I need it that way for the fantasy at least.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I trust people immediately and completely. If they keep their story semi-realistic I'm all in. I need it that way for the fantasy at least.

Have you had any negative experiences with such an approach?

 

[default24]

Have you had any negative experiences with such an approach?

There was the one time that she turned out to be 'he' but at that point I was pot-committed you know?
But seriously, I can't think of it ever going badly. It's pretty rare (or maybe I don't dig deep enough) to see that people aren't what they advertise

 

[Suz_anne]

There was the one time that she turned out to be 'he' but at that point I was pot-committed you know?

I thought you said you liked my dick. *sigh*

 

[Endless_Night]

I remember the breasts. Yep. I sure do.

I do believe default may have fainted.

* * *

The question.

Eh. I am not trusty. There been four people I’ve become remotely close to at Lit. Of those, only three knew anything about my personal life. Of the three, there was only one where I shared much. Even there I held things back.

Why? Partly, background, partly nature. *shrug*

However, it may be that I’m loosening up a bit, at least with the regulars. I plan on meeting another Litster in Dallas, end of summer. (Purely platonic, pervs!) If I do, she will be the second person on Lit to see my face! The first I met in my first Lit year. She no longer posts.

Strange, though. Come to think of it, I met her in Dallas....

Shopping!

#willtraveltoshop

 

[hotwords229_A]

Today's question...

How quickly will you trust someone on Lit? When you talk to someone, do you have walls up? Or you go in with your dick out? How long does it take for your pants to come down?

I trust in the sense that no real harm can come from the talky, flirty fun of Lit (at least for me--but I'm a dude) so in that sense I trust for the most part. But I also don't really care if people are who they say they are because I'll figure it out pretty quickly. So no walls I guess, other than I don't share much info about myself (Hotwords isn't my real name, sorry if you feel betrayed)

 

[default24]

I thought you said you liked my dick. *sigh*

I just don't like being surprised. I mean, if you have a perfect dick just tell me!

I trust in the sense that no real harm can come from the talky, flirty fun of Lit (at least for me--but I'm a dude) so in that sense I trust for the most part. But I also don't really care if people are who they say they are because I'll figure it out pretty quickly. So no walls I guess, other than I don't share much info about myself (Hotwords isn't my real name, sorry if you feel betrayed)

You sonofabitch. I'll bet 2/29 isn't even your birthday is it?

 

[hotwords229_A]

You sonofabitch. I'll bet 2/29 isn't even your birthday is it?

Betrayed again! But it was the time of day (2:29pm) I signed up for Lit, so . . .

 

[Lord Pmann]

Body shaming

So... An interesting experience today. I made a statement about a girl saying she was chubbier than I remember. Not someone here, so quit trying to figure out whose fat ass I was discussing.

My friend said, "What do you mean? I don't think she's fat? She's not that bad."

Well, she's not that fat. And I didn't say she was. But, I went into automatic defense mode. I was all, "No, I didn't mean she was fat."

Then my friend confessed I was just being wound up. Because my friend is an asshole.

But... Why is it that I got all wound up? Normally I would've suggested my friend eat a bag of dicks. But instead, because it was about a girl and her figure, I was all apologetic. Now, some would say I shouldn't have said she was fat in the first place. I did not say that! I just said she was chubbier than I remembered from years back. No harm. No foul. I think it made her boobs bigger, anyway. So plus 10. And to be fair, my ass is plenty fat itself.

Do you guys have certain topics that you feel like you have to dance on eggshells about? What makes you tapdance?

 

[Lord Pmann]

I do feel like no one would touch this question with Pmann's dick. I fully expect zero responses.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Chubby is one step away from fat. IMO. Could you of reworded it to more of a neural statement, sure.
Seems everyone is always walking on eggshells around each other or just the opposite and lacking a filter.
I got nothing really, expect too late now.

And the only thing I tap-dance around is saying what I really feel. Sometimes people need to be called out. I’ll say something if I think in 2yrs+ if it really matters or makes a difference. I’m not a doormat and when I choose to show my disappointment in something/someone, I am heard.

 

[Sexybritches69]

I’m not sure how you could have portrayed that the woman you’re talking about had gained weight in a positive or not insulting way. Saying she was heavier, or gained weight, or chubbier, bulked up...yeah, I think those are all going to get you the side-eye, at least. Plus, weight is a subject that a lot of people are their own harshest critics about, so any unintentional comment can seem like a huge insult.

I walk on egg shells about sensitive topics like age, or if someone didn’t get a job they were hoping for, or if someone is having an event and not everyone is invited...all those make me take extra care to not offend.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Do you guys have certain topics that you feel like you have to dance on eggshells about? What makes you tapdance?

It seems anymore everything is an eggshell topic. People are offended (pretend offended very often) by virtually everything. I wouldn't mind if everyone would lighten up a bit (or possible toughen up a bit) but that's the world we live in apparently.

I often keep my thoughts and opinions to myself (I probably should have done that with this one) unless I know the person I'm talking to isn't a complete pussy. So, I guess, I don't walk on eggshells as much as I choose not to have anything to do with the people who try to control people with their false (in my opinion) outrage over everything.

But I've been known to be a little anti-social

 

[SMNaughtywife]

But I've been known to be a little anti-social

I’ll need to verify this with Default.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I’ll need to verify this with Default.

I was young, I was in college, everybody was doing it . . . !

 

[SMNaughtywife]

I was young, I was in college, everybody was doing it . . . !

Yeah yeah.... nothing wrong with being a life long learner.
Devilish smile

 

[hotwords229_A]

Yeah yeah.... nothing wrong with being a life long learner.
Devilish smile

I'm very committed to higher education.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

I'm very committed to higher education.

I could possibly use a refresher course. Know a man?

 

[hotwords229_A]

I could possibly use a refresher course. Know a man?

Are you offering your services as an Instructor?

 

[Endless_Night]

Topics? You mean besides immigration, gun control, and body positivity?

Yes.

Personal responsibility. On…just about everything. Today? Financial responsibility.

A recent conversation in my world went something along these lines:

Me: Do you really want to spend that much money on face products?
Friend: It’s my money! I’m entitled to spend it how I want!
Me: Ummm.… Did I say you weren’t?
Friend: My appearance is important to my emotional well-being. (Said snottily.)
Me: Having a roof over your head is important to you physical well-being. (Said in a temper.)

Conversation went downhill from there.

My business how she spends her money? Nope.

Do I normally bother to comment? Nope.

Which…annoys me no end.

What is it with the current trend of people living in perpetual crisis (financial or otherwise), feeling entitled to your ear, your sympathy, your bailout, then throwing down righteous indignation if the behavior that keeps them in their crisis cycle is commented on?

Do whatever you want, but don’t hold me hostage to perpetual whining when the repeated result is not to your liking. At least, don't hold me hostage and expect me not to comment.

I don’t like being held hostage. Who does?



People. :head desk:

 

[hotwords229_A]

On the topic of how cool is Endless Night, I say VERY with no eggshells whatsoever.