Litiquette VI

[hotwords229_A]

Slips in a stealth like (and sexy) with a question.

Who’s competitive and who’s not?
Where does competitiveness come from? Can it be taught, learned or a trait you’re born with from the get go?
Does it come and go or perhaps it’s more prominent in certain areas of your life?

I am not an overtly competitive guy, but secretly I must win at all costs. If it means we all have to die then so be it.
I don't think it can be taught. As Parker said it is innate. In fact, I think the more you tried to make someone competitive (that isn't) the more they will give up completely.
We are all born with some degree of it, and it can be fostered and turned into something ugly, but I don't think it can be learned flat out.

I want to be the best at everything in my life, but I'm grounded enough (I think) to know that isn't always going to happen. As long as it happens at least 99% of the time then I'm happy.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Unlike hotwords who says he wants to be the best at everything I just want to be content and a good human. I don’t need to be the best at everything to achieve that.

Hoping my excessive use of ridiculousness showed through a little there.

 

[ChainedUp]

I'm competitive. I like to win. I can handle losing. But if something is being tracked, I want to come out on top.

Nobody here should be shocked by this.

Now failure, that's a whole different beast. I can't imagine anyone is okay with abject failure, are they?

 

[SMNaughtywife]

I'm competitive. I like to win. I can handle losing. But if something is being tracked, I want to come out on top.

Nobody here should be shocked by this.

Now failure, that's a whole different beast. I can't imagine anyone is okay with abject failure, are they?

I don’t accept failure very well when it comes to not achieving personal goals, letting someone down or coming up with shit excuses on why I didn’t do XYZ.
Just doesn’t sit well with me.

I’m okay with failure when I’m learning and venturing into new territory. I’ve failed, fallen and learned from mistakes in all areas of my life. It’s made me stronger and wiser to know what I did wrong - well maybe incorrectly is the better word. And the next time, well, I’m ready and bring it.

 

[ChainedUp]

I don't post much any more, I wonder at times if I've lost interest, if I've "moved on", or has the place changed. I still find that people can hold my interest but apparently the witty repartee doesn't hold the appeal it once did for me. Well, that's my cross to bear...

But I'm curious, for those of you that are active, does this site allow you a place to be carefree and & enjoy or is a place where you come to vent out the day's frustrations. While to me, there apparatus to be a one or the other approach, my hunch is that in the middle the quiet ones live.

 

[Suz_anne]

I don't post much any more, I wonder at times if I've lost interest, if I've "moved on", or has the place changed. I still find that people can hold my interest but apparently the witty repartee doesn't hold the appeal it once did for me. Well, that's my cross to bear...

But I'm curious, for those of you that are active, does this site allow you a place to be carefree and & enjoy or is a place where you come to vent out the day's frustrations. While to me, there apparatus to be a one or the other approach, my hunch is that in the middle the quiet ones live.

Oh, Papa C - you miss bantering with Pmann. Or you're not getting enough tittie pics. I get it. Same.

I'm sure you won't be surprised to hear that I come here to be carefree. And obnoxious, at times.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

I come for the shenanigans and lighthearted nonsense straight up. Rarely do I vent, but if I do it’s directed at my loath of laundry. I could eat a porterhouse steak daily and my gym coach is pretty awesome. I’m a happy camper.

Everything here comes and goes in waves, its the natural lay of the land. The newbies make their grand appearance with glitter, sandalwood incense and their trumpets a’blaring. Somewhere between 3-12+ months they realize after a traumatic broken heart, public hiccups, rampant jealousy bouts and/or an alt duke-out that Lit is a Fantasy Fuckland and that’s that.
Ain’t nobody leaving their SO for you, the word love is used like store brand mayo on a bologna sandwich and there is no such thing as greener grass. They settle in, well- most do and it’s back to the regular scheduled program until another round makes its way on through.

And yes, the middles are content in their ways and sit back quietly to watch it all unfold.

 

[default24]

I don’t think I’ve ever come here to vent. Like a real man I just bottle those emotions up inside until I explode at the tiniest provocation. And I play video games/masturbate

 

[SMNaughtywife]

I don’t think I’ve ever come here to vent. Like a real man I just bottle those emotions up inside until I explode at the tiniest provocation. And I play video games/masturbate

Sticky controller ever a problem?

 

[default24]

Sticky controller ever a problem?

The joysticks get tough to operate when they’re slippery. Your hands sliding all over the place. It’s a real mess

 

[SMNaughtywife]

The joysticks get tough to operate when they’re slippery. Your hands sliding all over the place. It’s a real mess

Tsk tsk ... we don’t want that. Sits down next to you, my hand pushing yours away. I got this baby.

 

[default24]

You sexy minx, you

 

[hotwords229_A]

The above banter is why I come here. I don't vent anything but my zipper

And besides, who doesn't like being in the middle?

 

[ChainedUp]

Since it's fake awards season, maybe I should revive the thread in hopes of stealing a category.

 

[Rivvie]

Since it's fake awards season, maybe I should revive the thread in hopes of stealing a category.

seems this could be a fun thread for me... please do

 

[ChainedUp]

seems this could be a fun thread for me... please do

It's had its moments, its ups and downs, in and outs, comings and goings.

 

[Rivvie]

It's had its moments, its ups and downs, in and outs, comings and goings.

well gee, i already said i was sold....

 

[rubydlite]

Since it's fake awards season, maybe I should revive the thread in hopes of stealing a category.

Casts vote

*Guiltily admits I've changed my av because it'd be fun to steal the av category *

And Hey !

 

[mnbreastluver]

.................

 

[ChainedUp]

Casts vote

*Guiltily admits I've changed my av because it'd be fun to steal the av category *

And Hey !

As well you should. Gaming things to win is the best part.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Casts vote

*Guiltily admits I've changed my av because it'd be fun to steal the av category *

And Hey !

That’s the way! And it’s damn sexy.
Ponders switching out my profile pic.
Wait... If no one has never spied it before, then ....
Nah.
#invisible

 

[ChainedUp]

That’s the way! And it’s damn sexy.
Ponders switching out my profile pic.
Wait... If no one has never spied it before, then ....
Nah.
#invisible

Is it double dog dare time?

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Is it double dog dare time?

Maybe more like paired pic time.

 

[Suz_anne]

Maybe more like paired pic time.

A paired pic of, like, your ass and Papa C's ass? I'm just brainstorming here, but that seems like a great idea to me...

 

[SMNaughtywife]

A paired pic of, like, your ass and Papa C's ass? I'm just brainstorming here, but that seems like a great idea to me...

Well, I was thinking with RubyD.
But I’m game for some pics next to CU.
Whatcha thinking, jeans maybe. Or ouuuiii, maybe undies. Yes, I kinda like that. I wonder if he has any thongs in his drawer.