Litiquette IV

[Suz_anne]

Ohhhh, it looks like derailment and hijinks are on! I hope everyone answers Papa's question AND posts a pervy photo….

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[ChainedUp]

I hope so, too

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[Scout44]

I hope so, too

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Wait, what was the question?

 

[PeteHulbert37]

one thing I've learned in this thread is that vague questions that leave a lot of room for interpretation aren't nearly as popular as more direct questions.


So what have you learned about or from this thread?

There are many different expectations for how people here should interact.

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[Suz_anne]

*agrees with Ricky*

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[ChainedUp]

*agrees* with Suz_anne

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[ChainedUp]

And agrees with me

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[rubydlite]

It's the last weekend in July. Summer is in full swing but it's just starting to show its age. Holidays and vacations are here for those still looking to get away. The sun is coming up just a little later these days, and of course the Dog Days are making their way. The natural cadence of the season marches on.

What about your own natural cadence. Do you fight it, trying to dictate terms? Do you begrudgingly accept it for what it is, or do you fully embrace and celebrate it because life is too short?

I'm all about the embracing and celebrating with a healthy dose of responsibility for my own happiness...because life IS too short.

 

[rubydlite]

*agrees with Ricky*

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*fu........................k*

 

[SMNaughtywife]

And some need more help learning how to listen.

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[ViciousTease]

I've learned to always check in here, you never know how the conversation will turn.

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[ChainedUp]

That conversation turned really well for her.

That's probably the most intriguing dance of all here, turning the conversation. Making that decision to turn a little sharper to the left and she how your PM responds. Of course leave enough wiggle room that you can back out gracefully if need be.

Is taking that turn in Lit any different than in real life? Go too fast = fast rejection. Go too slow and the friend zone emerges. How have you gauged when the right time is to go from inmuendo & flirt to play?

 

[Paul_Chance]

That conversation turned really well for her.

That's probably the most intriguing dance of all here, turning the conversation. Making that decision to turn a little sharper to the left and she how your PM responds. Of course leave enough wiggle room that you can back out gracefully if need be.

Is taking that turn in Lit any different than in real life? Go too fast = fast rejection. Go too slow and the friend zone emerges. How have you gauged when the right time is to go from inmuendo & flirt to play?

I don't think it is any different than real life. You make the turn based on a combination of experience, instinct, and desire. I usually just make the desire know, turn on the turn signal, and go.

Just like in real life navigating the road from flirting and innuendo to steamy encounter is a fairly complex dance of sexual psychology, filled with risk taking behavior in search of a reward. It's always a dance of two people, potentially two very different people, often seeking a common goal.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

I prefer a little of both, a little sexy mixed in with some RL chat. I'm not always feisty and feeling the need to test the seams of your pants. In fact, if your first PM comes across screaming of sexual innuendo, good chance I'll ignore you.
Intelligent and thought-provoking conversation is just as, if not more sexy that a hot RP scene. Having the best of both worlds, that's golden in my book.

 

[85Ironman]

I prefer a little of both, a little sexy mixed in with some RL chat. I'm not always feisty and feeling the need to test the seams of your pants. In fact, if your first PM comes across screaming of sexual innuendo, good chance I'll ignore you.
Intelligent and thought-provoking conversation is just as, if not more sexy that a hot RP scene. Having the best of both worlds, that's golden in my book.

No banter, no bang-bang.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

No banter, no bang-bang.

Oh I can banter and make you dance, that I promise. But don't tell me how you're gonna bend me over and blah, blah, blah in your first PM. Weather is lame too, get a little creative, I dare you.

 

[Suz_anne]

I'm incredibly bad at this. I have a difficult time finding the balance between being friendly and being "friendly" *wink**wink**wink* So I tend to be a bit more aloof to circumvent the confusion. There are a few things that immediately make me adore you, but I'm certainly not going to advertise what those might be. You gotta work for it a little bit.

But I do agree that good banter is sexy.

 

[Mrtenant]

That conversation turned really well for her.

That's probably the most intriguing dance of all here, turning the conversation. Making that decision to turn a little sharper to the left and she how your PM responds. Of course leave enough wiggle room that you can back out gracefully if need be.

Is taking that turn in Lit any different than in real life? Go too fast = fast rejection. Go too slow and the friend zone emerges. How have you gauged when the right time is to go from inmuendo & flirt to play?

Dick pics! Right from the start. Works EVERY time lol

Trust me on it buddy, send the little minx a pic of your hog and its on!

 

[jezzilee]

*sits and waits patiently for today's new question*

 

[TheSilverLining]

That conversation turned really well for her.

That's probably the most intriguing dance of all here, turning the conversation. Making that decision to turn a little sharper to the left and she how your PM responds. Of course leave enough wiggle room that you can back out gracefully if need be.

Is taking that turn in Lit any different than in real life? Go too fast = fast rejection. Go too slow and the friend zone emerges. How have you gauged when the right time is to go from inmuendo & flirt to play?

I don't ever turn the conversation, so I'm afraid I read this along the lines of online-attraction. There's not much danger of falling into the friend zone with me, as I'm more likely to be attracted to a bloke who I really like as a person first. Especially when one communicates exclusively via text. Therefore, friend zone = not a bad thing.

In person I'm very much of the same opinion. However, I will concede that there's a lot to be said for lust at first sight. A big male body pressed up against mine and actual stubbly kisses against my neck has an exponentially greater effect on my libido than some randomer typing "plants kisses along your neck....".

 

[ChainedUp]

are you a chronic PM'er? Do you send a PM when what you're saying would fit just fine in a thread? Which gives you more satisfaction, seeing a PM in your inbox or reading a reply on a thread? And if you are a chronic PM'er do you know when to not send a PM, that's almost as important as the PM sent.

Preview for tomorrow's topic: The PM'er you just can't shake

 

[PeteHulbert37]

"Chronic" is an interesting adjective to associate with PMs. That's all I got.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

"Chronic" is an interesting adjective to associate with PMs. That's all I got.

that depends. do you message when you're high?

 

[jezzilee]

are you a chronic PM'er? Do you send a PM when what you're saying would fit just fine in a thread? Which gives you more satisfaction, seeing a PM in your inbox or reading a reply on a thread? And if you are a chronic PM'er do you know when to not send a PM, that's almost as important as the PM sent.

Preview for tomorrow's topic: The PM'er you just can't shake

FYP, you're welcome.

Easy question today. I am a social butterfly and rarely send a pm without receiving one first. There has been the rare occasion that I find I need to reach out to someone privately because what I want to say is personal on some level.

 

[Conager]

FYP, you're welcome.

Easy question today. I am a social butterfly and rarely send a pm without receiving one first. There has been the rare occasion that I find I need to reach out to someone privately because what I want to say is personal on some level.

Pm sent!