Litiquette IV

Which of the following is the most likely reason you post in a thread

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Kinks, we have them, and we love them. But how do we share them? It's not like we walk around with a giant poster stating "I'm kinky, inquire within". While we want what we want, we're also afraid of chasing someone off just because a kink was presented poorly. So how do you share those dark desires with a new playmate. Straight up tell them, innuendos and hints, maybe in mid play you introduce something..... All have merits, all have risk. What risk are you willing to take for your kink?

I've learned to be straight up. I enjoy my kinks, so I'd rather not waste time cultivating a sexual relationship with someone who doesn't share them. It might seem harsh, but it's honest and I've always found that's the best approach, sexually speaking.

I learned something years ago - I actually took the time to read the Kama Sutra. LOL - if you haven't let me just say - holy crap that is one sexist and misogynistic book - but, I did get one really good tip from it. It recommends that, before beginning the sexual act, you sit down and have a conversation with your partner about what acts are going to be done in the session. I've found that approach really moves you closer to a place where you're both comfortable with your sexuality and it helps you avoid the landmine of "holy crap, you tried to do what to me, you freak!"
 
Well, we can all assume that SMNaughtywife is an alt for LittleSister. Actions speak louder than words.

Let's hope that for Tony the Tiger it was a 90degree day in a room without AC, serve his furry ass right.
 
Well, we can all assume that SMNaughtywife is an alt for LittleSister. Actions speak louder than words.

Let's hope that for Tony the Tiger it was a 90degree day in a room without AC, serve his furry ass right.

Laughs....
So, not a fan of Tony the Tiger. I'll find something more original for you.

And this song is playing in my head now.
 
The lushness of green. The sounds of birds singing. The warmth that builds. Is there anything better than spring? But if you think about it, the tactile response to spring also matches our response to sex. The wetness of arousal, the sounds of pleasure filling the room, the build up to orgasm. Is it just me or is there a correlation to sex for anything we enjoy?
 
The lushness of green. The sounds of birds singing. The warmth that builds. Is there anything better than spring? But if you think about it, the tactile response to spring also matches our response to sex. The wetness of arousal, the sounds of pleasure filling the room, the build up to orgasm. Is it just me or is there a correlation to sex for anything we enjoy?

I dunno, I just got dumped literally last night so my sex drive is at zero.

My last couple relationships happened in the summer and fall though.
 
Ok. This one I can answer. ;)

I think that when something is on your mind a lot, you find correlations to it everywhere you look. So if we think about sex a lot (yes, Chained, I'm talking to you) we see it in spring, we see it when we slide our fingers into our gardening gloves, we see it in the softness of flower petals. We think button doorbells look like nipples....and so on.
 
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Ok. This one I can answer. ;)

I think that when something is on your mind a lot, you find correlations to it everywhere you look. So if we think about sex a lot (yes, Chained, I'm talking to you) we see it in spring, we see it when we slide our fingers into our gardening gloves, we see it in the softness of flower petals. We think button doorbells look like nipples....and so on.

Damn, I'll never look at doorbell buttons the same way ever again.
 
Spring? Ugh. It's hot as hell already. We are pushing 90+ degrees already. Fucking hell. It's too hot to fuck. (Not really) I like sex in any season. I prefer winter because it's nice being under the covers in the cold.

Yes. Summer.

:D

I disagree. Winter is best.
 
I live in a part of California where we only have two seasons - summer and rain. That said, when spring comes and that warm and beautiful sun breaks out after the long winter rains - I pretty much go into heat. I love the feel of sun on my skin and it fires me up, makes me dive headlong into the sensual world.
 
similar to PC, I only see summer and fall, however during real world Spring, it starts to rain every day and it isn't a deluge. Even when I lived up north I never equated Spring with sex. Actually I used to have more sex during winter, it's necessary to keep warm and the cold elicits more erections. If anything, the constant heat tends to cause one's ...plants to wilt.

I also tend to think you were also asking if you make more correlations to sex when you like something.

I'd have to say no, I think people make correlations whenever they...hmm. If they have sex on their mind, then everything they see correlates to sex, okay, reversal time. Yes, if someone has sex on their mind, then everything they see reminds them of sex.
 
As for the correlation part - hmmm, I generally don't see inanimate objects as being sexual, but human beings - oh yes, when sex is on my mind then everyone I see is looked at as a potential partner.

I think if you've got sex on the brain, well, it's going to influence everything.

When I was a youngster, a long time ago, I had a t-shirt that said "I'm so horny the crack of dawn turns me on".
 
As for the correlation part - hmmm, I generally don't see inanimate objects as being sexual, but human beings ...

As I was writing my response, I started thinking of all the oil rigs that have those circular pumps, and then all the allusions to the waves at the beach and that reminded me of a Benny Hill skit where they used lots of imagery to correlate to sex. Most were laughable, but then when you have sex on your mind, those things DO suggest sex (and they are all inanimate)

Just sayin.
 
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