Litiquette IV

[aussiegeekygal]

Love your avatar.

And yor comments.

And you, period.

Thanks

I thought it was about time to get a picture back. I'll go rustle up my original avatar later. I'm rather fond of it.

 

[Amalgamation]

Thanks

I thought it was about time to get a picture back. I'll go rustle up my original avatar later. I'm rather fond of it.

I remember that one as well. Lol.

 

[Endless_Night]

1) Don't ask, don't tell. If you play then I'll be playing too
2) Permission before playing, they want to know
3) only if your significant other / partner is in the room. Not a 3-some but just watching on their own

I can’t really make one choice as the questions stands. We do something that sits between choice 1 & 2. My SO doesn’t veto and I do occasionally talk to him about what I’m doing. Not the details, but he may offer advice about any issues that arise.

All my play has been online, and we’re only talking two partners, so I may not have enough of a cohort to judge what really works. I agree with with Paul about other people’s feelings and needs. My first foray proved unsuitable, but the second evolved into a long running friendship with the usual relationship ups and downs. Dealing in that type of intimacy really does require a certain level of consideration and finesse.

Odd as it may sound, opening things up has actually improved my relationship with my SO. As Aussie mentioned, some of the conversations can be tough! But achieving that level of honesty and openness of communication and honesty can forge new bonds.

As for what works, perhaps it’s situation dependent? For instance, if I were to make a move to sex in the flesh I suspect we’d need more in the way of clearly defined parameters.

Of course. That's how you made the inner circle.

Awww. You are too kind to my rack.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I would vote for #3, the post fucking analysis could be fun.

Agreed. I've not tried it. Could be very entertaining.

I think seeing the vinegar strokes of others a an observer would be incredibly fun.

Shit. I'm the female Taco.

 

[Amalgamation]

Agreed. I've not tried it. Could be very entertaining.

I think seeing the vinegar strokes of others a an observer would be incredibly fun.

Shit. I'm the female Taco.

Hmm....add in some football type color commentary! That would be hilarious.

"oh wow, now he goes for the dreaded stroke of doom!"

"Yeah, John. He hurt himself on that same one last time!"

"Well Jim, judging from the look on her face, he just hit a home room"

 

[ChainedUp]

Thanks

I thought it was about time to get a picture back. I'll go rustle up my original avatar later. I'm rather fond of it.

I think he was talking about me, my thoughts and my avatar. Lol

 

[Mrtenant]

I think he was talking about me, my thoughts and my avatar. Lol

Just post the fuckin porn fer crissakes

 

[Trekka]

Just post the fuckin porn fer crissakes

Here here!

 

[ChainedUp]

Well, the multiple choice approach seemed to be popular so I'll try it again:

Sex to me is:

1) a have to have; it's reason I live, I will do anything to have it
2) a nice to have; it adds the right amount of spice to my life and gets me from one day to the next
3) while good, it's not a top priority in my life.

 

[ChainedUp]

Or this, which ever works.

http://67.media.tumblr.com/e027d4adbb8540c0ac373df995fe6f8d/tumblr_nig5ohxsYy1tc7vlmo1_500.jpg

 

[ViciousTease]

Well, the multiple choice approach seemed to be popular so I'll try it again:

Sex to me is:

1) a have to have; it's reason I live, I will do anything to have it
2) a nice to have; it adds the right amount of spice to my life and gets me from one day to the next
3) while good, it's not a top priority in my life.

Multiples ... yes, please.

In answer to you question, I'm going to go with #2. For me, it's an important part of a relationship but it's not necessarily a deal breaker.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I think he was talking about me, my thoughts and my avatar. Lol

That makes WAY more sense.
That is quite the avatar

Well, the multiple choice approach seemed to be popular so I'll try it again:

Sex to me is:

1) a have to have; it's reason I live, I will do anything to have it
2) a nice to have; it adds the right amount of spice to my life and gets me from one day to the next
3) while good, it's not a top priority in my life.

I'm a woman, so I experience all three over the course of a month.

My equilibrium point us right about a two. There are some days (hello ovulation) where I'd fuck a random stranger if I didn't have self control, and other days where the last thing on my mind is sex. It's all very cyclical.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Oh. And this.

http://66.media.tumblr.com/402508db3ce916b601754393d2735bae/tumblr_mrhrcglpDx1s0frw0o1_500.gif

 

[Endless_Night]

Sex to me is:

1) a have to have; it's reason I live, I will do anything to have it
2) a nice to have; it adds the right amount of spice to my life and gets me from one day to the next
3) while good, it's not a top priority in my life.

Hmmm, none of these quite fit. Maybe...2?

I tend towards cyclic, though not in ways monthly. If I’m focused on sex, it is a priority. Actually, it is THE priority. If, however, my attention is fixed on some other particular goal or project, sex may take a back seat. I’ve gone months without when obsessed -

*cough cough*

Ahem. I mean, when "focused" elsewhere.

Sort of like a camel and water. Not ideal, but possible.

 

[jezzilee]

Well, the multiple choice approach seemed to be popular so I'll try it again:

Sex to me is:

1) a have to have; it's reason I live, I will do anything to have it
2) a nice to have; it adds the right amount of spice to my life and gets me from one day to the next
3) while good, it's not a top priority in my life.

Number one is out I won't do "anything" to get it. Number 2 is out it is way more important than nice. Number 3 just made me laugh.

I reject your answers and will reply with one of my own...

I love everything about sex whether engaging in the slow and sensual or hot nasty rough stuff. My mind is never far away from it, perhaps I am a bit of nymph, but what brings us pleasure in life should not be discounted ir ignorrd and What brings me countless hours of pleasure is sex.

 

[beachbaby179]

You needed more choices. None of those apply to me.

 

[ViciousTease]

Number one is out I won't do "anything" to get it. Number 2 is out it is way more important than nice. Number 3 just made me laugh.

I reject your answers and will reply with one of my own...

I love everything about sex whether engaging in the slow and sensual or hot nasty rough stuff. My mind is never far away from it, perhaps I am a bit of nymph, but what brings us pleasure in life should not be discounted ir ignorrd and What brings me countless hours of pleasure is sex.

I'd like to change my answer to this.

 

[ChainedUp]

Answers may not be changed or reconsidered upon reading another answer. It's in the bylaws.

 

[ChainedUp]

Oh. And this.

http://66.media.tumblr.com/402508db3ce916b601754393d2735bae/tumblr_mrhrcglpDx1s0frw0o1_500.gif

Fantastic gif, well worth the quote and subsequent 2nd viewing.

 

[jezzilee]

Answers may not be changed or reconsidered upon reading another answer. It's in the bylaws.

Pull the stick out of your ass....rules were meant to be broken or at least bent!

 

[ChainedUp]

You needed more choices. None of those apply to me.

Please respond within the options provided. 3 leads to 5, 5 to 9 and then it's unanswerable.

 

[ViciousTease]

Answers may not be changed or reconsidered upon reading another answer. It's in the bylaws.

*checks my rap sheet*

Eh, I'm due for a citation anyway. So, bite me. Hard.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Chained, you realise us ladies are fickle beasts, right?

And we change our mind more often than underwear.

 

[ChainedUp]

Chained, you realise us ladies are fickle beasts, right?

And we change our mind more often than underwear.

So, is that implying the "no wear underwear" crowd, which I assumed you were part of , never changes their mind?

 

[ChainedUp]

*checks my rap sheet*

Eh, I'm due for a citation anyway. So, bite me. Hard.

Is that begging or flirting, or is there a difference?