Literotica Personals....

[Jade]

I just wanted to point out that there is a guy on there who is looking for someone to rape?

Also, Laurel, I apologize if you have already done this but... I was just thinking some disclaimer should be in order for specifically that forum (you know like.... "if you get hurt bc of meeting someone here, we are not responsible, that sort of thing?") Just a thought... just want to keep my favorite webmistress out of trouble that's all.

 

[Bliss]

Even if a modern day Ted Bundy, DCL forbid, were over on that forum, Laurel & Manu would not be liable for his actions. The disclaimers on the main pages, about the illegality of the underage being here and so on, cover their asses well enough.

Not that there shouldn't be some kind of cautionary warning about being wary of fruit loops and such, but looking at other classified forums such as AFF and your local newspaper, there are no such warnings.

Long story short, I think the less you say to the common sense challenged about their ability to sue you, the better.

Though the idea of being actually raped of course does not appeal to me, this guy does clarify that he's been at the fantasy board and uses quotes, i.e. "raped". As long as he's pretending, asking for willing participants, and not hearing voices, it should be okay.

Just mah 2 cents.

 

[Jade]

Okay.
I just wouldn't want to meet up with a guy like that, that's all.

Yes, I am aware of the disclaimers... I suppose that since b/c of personal experiences, I have had a lot of first hand "unwanted" run ins with greedy ass lawyers so I just get a little overly worried sometimes.
Thanks for the clarifications and for responding... "Payne." (not Patryn hehe).

 

[Bliss]

LOL! It's easy to tell us apart, I SWEAR!

Let's see, she wears jeans, I hate clothes. She opens jars, I hand them to my Sweetie. She's educated, well read, smart, funny, sexy and doesn't have time for shrimpy dorks and oh, well yeah, we're almost the same person, huh?

Well, yeah but *My tits are bigger*

 

[Siren]

These personals are way too interesting

 

[Jade]

Siren: Thanks for your support babe... *sigh*.. someone understood me! Yes!

Patryn: Honey,... you are dahm sexeh... AND you have big boobs!

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

DCL forbid

Oh that's too funny. LOL

 

[Patryn]

Woah! Payne, if that's how I really come across, I am seriously underselling myself. But thank you.

Jade, dear, I appreciate the gesture, but I'll probably have to give her that one.

 

[SimplySouthern]

Long Disturbing Post Ahead

I thought some of you might be interested in hearing this little story about online personal ads.

I thought I lived in a pretty normal town in Small Town America. Sure, you always have the few closet perverts, but I never expected anything like this.

In October of 1996, the local Sheriff's Department arrested a man that was an upstanding citizen in our community. It seems he had met, killed and buried in his backyard a woman he met via an Internet personals ad. The met at a sexually oriented site (nowhere near as nice as this one, I'm sure ) She had advertised herself as looking for a "Master" to help her make the "ultimate sacrifice" eventually to even "kill" her. Always, she put the word KILL in quotes. She met this man and they began exchanging email. In his count of the events, it was basically like an exchange of ongoing erotic fantasies centering around his domination of her. They always used screen names in their role-playing. Eventually, they began a more personal discussion about their real lives. They would email one another under their real names and talk about general things (life, kids, work, etc.) and also email under their screen names continuing with their snuff fantasies.

This relationship became more and more serious. They moved from talking only via computer to talking on the phone daily. On the telephone, they talked only about real life things. His version of the story is that she became more and more suicidal as time went on. She was in a bad marriage and had been involved in some online scams that she feared were catching up with her. She would call him crying about her problems and threatening suicide, and he would comfort her and tell her it was all OK. Eventually, she began to ask him to help her commit suicide which (he says) he refused.

After many months, they decided to meet. She was having serious problems at home and told him she needed to "get away". He invited her to come to NC for a little vacation. She left her home and unbeknownst to him, left a note for her family saying that they shouldn't worry if her body was never found because she had went on to a better place. She asked them not to try and seek revenge on the person who "helped" her, as this was her idea and these were her wishes. In his recounting of the story, she came to visit and naturally they wanted to have sex. They decided to play out some of their fantasies involving auto-erotic asphyxiation and "somehow" she ended up dead. Not knowing what to do (DUH...911) , Sherlock decides to bury her in his backyard.

When her husband checked his email, he found the note from his wife and called the police. They in turn called the SBI, who checked into her computer and traced some of the information back to this man in NC. The local Sheriff's Department went out to his home and found this woman only half buried in his backyard.

I know that not ALL people you meet on the Internet are psycho, but I'm sure the ones that are aren't billing themselves as such. Just one more reason to be careful!

For those interested, he ended up being found guilty of Voluntary Manslaughter and will be eligible for parole in 2004.

 

[Jade]

Thank you SS, THAT is what I was talking about exactly!

Ahhhhhh I have the CHILLS now, BIG time!

 

[Jade]

UGH!

You know SS,
The MORE I think about that.. the MORE freaked out I am getting...

I am now sitting here try to think about how much everyone here knows about me, what they can figure out based on that, and just completely freaking out.

I think I am going to vow to be a little more secretive from here out! I am feeling sort of scared right now.

You really knocked some sense into me.
I think I must have needed it.
I wish we did live in a world that was safe where we didn't have to worry about these things you know? ... A world where we could protect each other.. I know we are not ALL bad.
But, it doesn't matter how much I tell everyone that, if they don't believe me, after a story like that, who can blame them really?
*sigh*

 

[Cocoa]

Creepy, creepy, creepy stuff. Just goes to show it's always best to be cautious, I guess. It's easy to pretend to be someone or something you're not on the internet.

Now who wants to come over? My address is...

 

[Savage Kitten]

EAKKKKK!!!

OK THATS IT!!!

Lasher, Thumper, Merlin, 'Weirld' (oh.. FBI calls that a CLUE) Harold... and all you other sexy hunky guys that i gave my phone # and address to... I just wanted you to know that I'm changing my name and leaving the country SO THERE!!!!

 

[Jade]

Re: EAKKKKK!!!

OK THATS IT!!!

Lasher, Thumper, Merlin, 'Weirld' (oh.. FBI calls that a CLUE) Harold... and all you other sexy hunky guys that i gave my phone # and address to... I just wanted you to know that I'm changing my name and leaving the country SO THERE!!!!

SK,... wasn't sure if you were kidding or not, but I actually did give my name and number out to two people... but only b/c I am meeting them in person in a matter of months....

 

[Bliss]

Jade, I'll put this part here in billboard land for all to see! It's advice for all.
Never fucking never, ever, never, never meet a stranger, (even if you think you know them because you've cybered each other silly for weeks, months, or even years), in a nonpublic place. If you can't tell your family and friends it's a cyberdate cum RL, then lie through your cute lil teeth, just take someone along or nearby and meet in the middle of the Mall of America, or somewhere similarly large. Think safety in numbers. Like a wedding

Okay that's my 2 cents with no cent symbol in sight.




[Edited by Payne on 08-15-2000 at 09:37 AM]

 

[Jade]

Jade, I'll put this part here in billboard land for all to see! It's advice for all.
Never fucking never, ever, never, never meet a stranger, (even if you think you know them because you've cybered each other silly for weeks, months, or even years), in a nonpublic place. If you can't tell your family and friends it's a cyberdate cum RL, then lie through your cute lil teeth, just take someone along or nearby and meet in the middle of the Mall of America, or somewhere similarly large. Think safety in numbers. Like a wedding

Okay that's my 2 cents with no cent symbol in sight.




[Edited by Payne on 08-15-2000 at 09:37 AM]

Fortunately for me, I have at least half a brain....

That is where I am meeting them sillypants! A wedding!

 

[Bliss]

A brain and a half even!

*Jaw drops to the floor* No! You're kidding! Absolutely NO ONE has mentioned ANYTHING about ANY wedding!

~back to the middle and around again~ dadade dadada...

Excuse me, I have to go harass someone about my raspberry chocolate truffle Xander pop melting before it got off the assembly line.

 

[Jade]

LOL

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Jade... you mean we are going to be all strange at that wedding?

Oh dear long day...

Da chef

 

[Jade]

Jade... you mean we are going to be all strange at that wedding?

Oh dear long day...

Da chef

Chef... well, I have never been all that normal to begin with .... (hug me anyway?)

 

[Xander]

Would that be mine and Angels wedding you're refering to???

 

[Jade]

Would that be mine and Angels wedding you're refering to???

Hmmmm
Gee Xander.. there are just SO many lit weddings I am going to be at next year!
I will have to check my schedule... (hee hee!!)

 

[Xander]

ROTFLMAO Jadester

Point taken, I'm gonna take my roll-a-tor and limp my way back to that aple tree

 

[Bonnie Wee Lassie]

This is way to scary. I have a friend who just got married to the man she met on the internet so there is on happy story. And he is not freaky either. But I will tell you one thing I am not going to meet up with any strangers now on this thing. Thanks for the good advice.

Bonnie

 

[Hecate]

OK - there are weirdos our there but ....

.. you could run into one of them just as easy in the pub around the corner!!!!!

I have met people I only knew from the internet - I have met them in hotel rooms, on airports and in holiday parks, meetings with a whole bunch of internet people from a BB or just one-one meetings with very special friends! I spent hours, days, nights, weekends and as much as a week with some of them because they are my FRIENDS!!!!

Much more raping and violence happens between people that know each other and people who are living in the same town etc. so I can not see any reason to be more "dis-trusting" towards someone you have met - chatted - talked on the phone to for weeks and maybe months than a guy you pick up at a bar!

I sure would say "Be careful" - "Don't meet anyone after only a few chats" etc. and I for one am paranoid about giving out my name and address (including phone no.)

But I would wish there was a little more positive feelings about this internet meetings stuff than sheer paranoia! I for one will go with gut feeling - and if it feels right I'll go for a meeting again - and again - and again...

just my 0,02 Pfennige (just as long as we are not having the Euro yet *g*)