Literotica Couples

[WickedVixen]

I recently met someone on Lit that I am very interested in...I am not talking about flings or sexual relationships. We want to persue a real relationship, and yes save the skepticism the purpose of this thread is for you going through the same things how do you do it? How do you keep the relationship fresh and romantic until the time comes when you can meet?


Please do not use this thread as a place to bash on line relationships or talk of relationship failures.

I would like this to be a positive place for couples to give ideas.

Thank you.

Wicked

 

[SexyAmber]

Great Idea Vixen and good luck with your relationship.

I think, like any relationship where you are together physically, that you need to always remember not to take them for granted. To show them everyday the romance and passion that you feel for them. Because you can not look in their eyes or hold their hand and tell them, you have to be very expressive other ways. You have to realize that there will be people wanting to jeopardize your relationship and that you just have to make sure that you stick together and that you realize that the only thing that is important is the two of you and others will say what they will.

You have to be patient during the times it is driving you crazy that you can not be near them and learn not to take that frustration out of them but refocus it into how good it will be when you are finally together. Just my two cents of what is on my mind right this second but I am sure I will add more later.

 

[WickedVixen]

Amber

SexyAmber,

I am a lurker mostly but I have been admiring your relationship unfold lately. You two are so expressive and beautiful any advice from you is definatly welcomed!

Thank you.

Wicked

 

[da_cats_pjs]

What I've learned

Well, here are my credentials to speak on the topic... I have been in a relationship with someone I met on lit for over a year now and we will be getting married next Aug.

Honestly one of the best things we did was to just get off lit all together for a while after we first met. We talked online, then on the phone and really got to know one another totally in a buble from any possible negativity. By the time we both started coming back here to see friends and such we were both so secure and comfortable with each other that nothing any outside force could say would hold much if any credence.

It takes alot of patience trust and honesty to do this, more so than in a "typical" relationship. For us the key has been that he lets me flirt and be me knowing that he is the only one for me and nothing will change that. I know that I am the only one for him so no matter what is going on in his life I am not worried or threatened. THe other thing is that when I get horribly down about being away I think.. so i haven't seen him in a while, what are a few months in the course of the lifetime I will spend with him.

Also.. ask oman anything.. he is the relationship man around here.

 

[SexyAmber]

Re: What I've learned

Well, here are my credentials to speak on the topic... I have been in a relationship with someone I met on lit for over a year now and we will be getting married next Aug.

That is so wonderful...congratulations and I hope you a lifetime of happiness

 

[RetroGrounder]

bumpitty bump

 

[ima6uldv8]

I totally agree with everything da cats pjs has to say. Also, congrats, girl! I haven't met mine yet. I get to do that in July. We appreciate each other and talk every day both online and on the phone. I always tell him I love him more than the miles between us. Good luck to all who have met online

 

[ImmortaleAmante]

Someone very close to me met the love in his life on-line. They are now married and have been together for about 7 years.

They both had very complicated lifes and living in different countries seemed to be another obsticle. But they found that patience and daily contact as well as all the other small things that make any relationship made life alittle easier until they could be together.

They always say that what really makes them strong is that they became great friends first and from that came love, in fact that is the best way for any relationship to keep strong.

Good luck to all lovers.

 

[NoOtherName]

I first met my love 3 1/2 years ago...right here on lit. For so long, it was impossible for either one of us to turn our backs on the commitments & responsibilities that tied us to where we each were. So, we have endured a long distance relationship...can you say, 'I should own AT&T and Sprint by now'? lol

But now, finally, I'll be able to move to where she is and we will be able to be together...can you say, 'omg...30 year mortgage'?

I can hardly wait...2 more months and we'll be sitting on the deck having our morning coffee together while we watch the morning sunrise.

 

[virgin_not]

I've know some people who have met the love of their life on line,got a friend of mine tho not in lit and its successful,they get marry and till now living happily ever after.I know someone too from Lit,they started their relationship in here,too bad it failed,it depends on both parties how would they nurture their love,its two way,if you both wanna make it,ots possible. And oh the one I know from LIT..I think found someone special now from LIT too..and I have a feeling they gonna make it..woohoo..

Good Luck to all lovers on line!

 

[ReBeLBeLLe]

I first met my love 3 1/2 years ago...right here on lit. For so long, it was impossible for either one of us to turn our backs on the commitments & responsibilities that tied us to where we each were. So, we have endured a long distance relationship...can you say, 'I should own AT&T and Sprint by now'? lol

But now, finally, I'll be able to move to where she is and we will be able to be together...can you say, 'omg...30 year mortgage'?

I can hardly wait...2 more months and we'll be sitting on the deck having our morning coffee together while we watch the morning sunrise.

Sunrises just like these...

 

[NoOtherName]

Sunrises just like these...

<runs to start brewing the coffee>