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SpicyBean99 said:
Just another girl with a thread here 🤷🏻‍♀️ Every word in that list has been said to me too, probably to most of us girls who have posted anything, ever on here! They also go home to their wives and girlfriends and dates and tell them the same things too!! ( men ) Butttt I do have to say ( in the kindest way possible) what’s weird is the idea that it only ‘devalues’ something when it’s been said to you? We can ALL be gorgeous, special, witty and have the “best” threads together! 😍 I see a lot of the same men comment on the same women’s threads here and it doesn’t make me feel any less devalued. It is an erotica site after all! ( ps you look FAB in your newest pic. There’s something about your eyes!!! )

* edit the newest pic at that point was actually the sexy one not the latter 🤣🤣🤣 although both v cute in their own right!
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Oh I am definitely not implying that there are not A LOT of very attractive women on this site, and some very handsome men as well. There are. 100000%

To me, and maybe its just my perception and/or experiences, but if someone said to me I am the most beautiful women he/she has ever seen and then said the same thing to another woman the same day, I'd scratch my head and think...okayyyy...is that yer pickup line? Was I the most beautiful until he saw woman #2? Is it just fluff to gain favor?
It devalues the original comment.
Thats all.
 
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LilKitKat said:
Oh I am definitely not implying that there are A LOT of very attractive women on this site, and some very handsome men as well. 100000%

To me, and maybe its just my perception and/or experiences, but if someone said to me I am the most beautiful women he/she has ever seen and then said the same thing to another woman the same day, I'd scratch my head and think...okayyyy...is that yer pickup line? Was I the most beautiful until he saw woman #2? Is it just fluff to gain favor?
Thats all.
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I totally hear you girl! Maybe we just see it a lil differently! To me, this is a playful space, and I don’t take it too seriously when compliments are repeated.

Whilst speaking on the subject, if a man calls five women beautiful, does that mean he only meant it the first time? Or, were all 5 women beautifully different? 🥰
 
SpicyBean99 said:
I totally hear you girl! Maybe we just see it a lil differently! To me, this is a playful space, and I don’t take it too seriously when compliments are repeated.

Whilst speaking on the subject, if a man calls five women beautiful, does that mean he only meant it the first time? Or, were all 5 women beautifully different? 🥰
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again, I also view it as playful and I dont own anyone and am not jealous.
As for the second question, all five can be beautifl. It was an example. In my earlier example, it was multiple comments and compliments that were essentially repeated to multiple people, henc emaking me wonder if it was like a canned response and not some sort of actual compliment.
IThis may indeed be a fun, playful space, but many of my followers I have got to know pretty well, and many have got to know me pretty well, and many I consider actual friends. So if a person that I consider to be a friend, that I talk with sometimes many times a day, turns around and says the same stuff to multiple other people, it makes me wonder if they were being a bit two-faced with me. And yes, I have to remind myself this is a silly place for horny ppl to perv on pics and stories and such, and maybe they arent really my friends. I told someone recently that as many compliments I may get, if I quit this site, people would forget about me within a week. No one is special or immortal or whatever. And people come here to see a variety of things, for a variety of reasons.
Its a battle with me, and can add to my anxiety at times.
 
SpicyBean99 said:
I totally hear you girl! Maybe we just see it a lil differently! To me, this is a playful space, and I don’t take it too seriously when compliments are repeated.

Whilst speaking on the subject, if a man calls five women beautiful, does that mean he only meant it the first time? Or, were all 5 women beautifully different? 🥰
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You guys are giving us quite the (needed) education today: we're so predictable! Being cavalier is our vulnerability for the moment...a different need too of the physical and/or the mental stimulation we seek/just after; fortunately, you two - SB & LKK - provide the latter with equal visuals of the flesh
 
JedNtheMtns said:
You guys are giving us quite the (needed) education today: we're so predictable! Being cavalier is our vulnerability for the moment...a different need too of the physical and/or the mental stimulation we seek/just after; fortunately, you two - SB & LKK - provide the latter with equal visuals of the flesh
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...seek/lust...
 
JedNtheMtns said:
You guys are giving us quite the (needed) education today: we're so predictable! Being cavalier is our vulnerability for the moment...a different need too of the physical and/or the mental stimulation we seek/just after; fortunately, you two - SB & LKK - provide the latter with equal visuals of the flesh
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well, def dont tell bean and I the same thing then...use BOTH heads with your responses hahahahaha!
 
LilKitKat said:
again, I also view it as playful and I dont own anyone and am not jealous.
As for the second question, all five can be beautifl. It was an example. In my earlier example, it was multiple comments and compliments that were essentially repeated to multiple people, henc emaking me wonder if it was like a canned response and not some sort of actual compliment.
IThis may indeed be a fun, playful space, but many of my followers I have got to know pretty well, and many have got to know me pretty well, and many I consider actual friends. So if a person that I consider to be a friend, that I talk with sometimes many times a day, turns around and says the same stuff to multiple other people, it makes me wonder if they were being a bit two-faced with me. And yes, I have to remind myself this is a silly place for horny ppl to perv on pics and stories and such, and maybe they arent really my friends. I told someone recently that as many compliments I may get, if I quit this site, people would forget about me within a week. No one is special or immortal or whatever. And people come here to see a variety of things, for a variety of reasons.
Its a battle with me, and can add to my anxiety at times.
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I’m sorry to hear about your anxiety. Anxiety sucks. ( Thankyouuuu pregabalin ) and I really do understand where you’re coming from.

I’ve also had meaningful conversations with a few genuinely lovely people on here, people I check in on regularly, some of whom are very active in your thread too. Inside and outside of lit!

But I think it’s important to remember that people are capable of forming more than one sincere connection! Then again, when someone has been through situations where others trust has been misplaced it can be hard to figure out when people are actually being genuine!

But yeah, to me personally, it’s not the exclusivity that makes a connection meaningful, it’s the consistency and the depth! 🖤
 
SpicyBean99 said:
I’m sorry to hear about your anxiety. Anxiety sucks. ( Thankyouuuu pregabalin ) and I really do understand where you’re coming from.

I’ve also had meaningful conversations with a few genuinely lovely people on here, people I check in on regularly, some of whom are very active in your thread too. Inside and outside of lit!

But I think it’s important to remember that people are capable of forming more than one sincere connection! Then again, when someone has been through situations where others trust has been misplaced it can be hard to figure out when people are actually being genuine!

But yeah, to me personally, it’s not the exclusivity that makes a connection meaningful, it’s the consistency and the depth! 🖤
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i tihnk you are misunderstanding me but i dont need to explain it again and again so no worries
 
Bringing back some positive vibes, I love your eroticism. Yes, you're beautiful. Yes, you have an amazing body. But the sexiest thing about you is how obviously you enjoying both creating your content, and sharing it with us.
 
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