LilKitKat
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@SpicyBean99
Many words, written online as opposed to being said, can be misinterpreted.
Such is the nature of our exchanges in my opinion, for the most part, Bean.
When we were discussing compliments, I felt if a person says the same thing or quite similar things to a great many people, it devalues the original compliment. An example of this might be everyone getting trophies or medals at a sports event. My young niece is in taekwondo. She competed in a tournament and theres scores of people who get bronze medals. They test in groups of four or five and there is one gold, one silver and then the rest get bronze if they fulfill the basic requirements. The winner truly got a gold, but everyone basically was assured of "3rd place"...it devalued the achievement/performance. So when someone says to multiple people "you have the best thread, you are so beautiful and funny and smart" and turns around and says the same thing to two or three or 10 others, its still a compliment, but it isnt quite as unique or special...in my humble opinion.
When you took that and in my opinion kept twisting my words about saying you only want it fun here, I was understanding you to infer that *I* wasnt making it about fun. You may not have intended that.
But for example, SensualKat may not have intended that you are not natural in your beauty and I am. You simply interpreted it that way. I do see multiple interpretations to that comment, and also yes, perhaps she did intend it that way or simnply used a word that wasnt ideal. I see it several ways.
Another example, which wasnt public was when I said in a dm to you:
"...and so after two or three attempts at explaining, i said f it, not worth my time, esp since im tryinfg to do actual paying work."
you can interpret that to mean that you arent working or whatever. And my only intention was that lit doesnt pay me, I need to get back to working at my actual job, which pays the bills, as opposed to spending time on lit, which does not.
You got offended and mentioned it on your post "...That the conversation wasn’t worth continuing because she had actual paid work to be getting on with." which is interesting because I actually said to you:
"look, lots of miscomm.
maybe take a break from messaging me or something because this is getting a bit too heated for my liking"
because I simply 1-had to get back to work and 2-didnt want to argue with you over miscommunication/misunderstandings/misinterpretations and 3-it was getting a bit too heated so lets chill for an hour/day and then can clear the air.
Which is what I had intended to do today and happen to see your message on your thread which obviously irked me for a few reasons.
And all that aside, it also coincided with:
me posting about my anxiety and then you and I getting into it about interprweting comments/compliments and it being misunderstood etc
and you and I both getting trolls posting on our threads just stirring the pot more and more because they think we are thirsty (I was told that by one of them), as opposed to the guys wanting to see our content.
Now I have always been very transparent and saying I LOVE the attention. Anyone who is on here and posts pics of their body is desiring attention. Im not thirsting for compliments. I do happen to get my share and yes, it helps boost my confidence and lowers my anxiety. But I dont need them to survive.
I expect you are similar in that regard, as you and I seem very similar in many regards for that matter.
So I dont have a specific issue with you Bean. There are some things I like and admire about you and some things that obviously need to be cleared up. Perhaps we can settle these, or perhaps you are ready to move on and I would respect that desire too.
At any rate, Ive said what I came to say.
As for the break as I am sure our fave trolls will invariably sieze on this moment to try to get attention (you know, the same fucking thing I am called out for by him) but also to attempt to damage my ego or just threadcrap or whatever, IDGAF. You mean nothing to me. Just because I want a break from your incessant shitposting doesnt mean it hurts me, and I am only guilty of occasionally feeding the troll...it happens also on the political thread but at least I sometimes invite that/expect it.
At any rate...I have zero intentions to delete.
Will I take the actual break? Maybe Ill reduce my posting and just lurk a bit. Maybe not. Dont know. IDGAF.
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Preferably game armor for women that is suspiciously skimpy but provides great protection....
