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If I add you are bisexual on top of it your above sentences in this case the last sentence has a different logical meaning.
It says to me you have no problem with having casual sex with woman. Otherwise you only highlighted the casual sex because having sex depends on other different things for you like mood as you wrote below:

This mood thing gives me more confusion regarding how it can applicable IRL and in a relationship.
"Babe, I woke up in the mood I have to eat pussy, so I am really so sorry but we have to break up 💔 this morning."
"Kit darling, I go to sleep and weak up everyday with the exactly same urge regarding your pussy.
I can hear you, Kit so just bring home that pussy tonight and let's leave making the hard decision for tomorrow morning!"

I have answer for that one but it would be much longer to explain and I am not 100% sure you want it read here.
This is the internet; you are either reading too much into a phrase or are choosing to only interpret it one specific weay, possibly to suit your interests or query.

Because I said "I dont have casual sex with a man really." does not mean I do with women.
That is how YOU are interpreting it. Not necessarily what is said.

And because I said my mood partially determines if I am more interested in a man or a woman does not mean that once I am married or in a relationship with someone, I would break up with someone just because I am horny for someone of the opposite sex at that moment. Nor does it mean I would even do anything about it. My committment to my partner I take seriously; I dont cheat. And I value my relationship...

So I dont know if this is a language barrier, the issue of the reading and interpreting text on the internet, if its because you dont know me irl, if its your personal opinions and beliefs and naivete or what...but take me at my word please.
 
This is the internet; you are either reading too much into a phrase
Yes, because it is the Internet and I can't rely on verbal and non verbal communication so I only can get information from videos, pictures and posts of you, but probably this can be the case or "you are taking it seriously".

or are choosing to only interpret it one specific weay, possibly to suit your interests or query.
You can interpret it only that way that your knowledge, experience, cultural and education background and so on make it possible for you.
Because I said "I dont have casual sex with a man really." does not mean I do with women.
That is how YOU are interpreting it. Not necessarily what is said.
You are right, it is not necessarily true but the main topic related to the bisexuality because I tried to understand it based on your personal preferences and examples and I interpreted as a Freudian slip in your case or your message was something different with it.

And because I said my mood partially determines if I am more interested in a man or a woman does not mean that once I am married or in a relationship with someone, I would break up with someone just because I am horny for someone of the opposite sex at that moment.
You said you are monogamous in relationship this is why my question related to understand the duality (attraction for women and men) in your case.
Does it mean, you can switch off the feelings for the opposite sex of your partner in a committed relationship?

You partially mentioned the mood.
Just from the internet:
A woman's mood can change frequently, often influenced by hormonal fluctuations, stress, and life events. For example, mood swings are common during menstrual cycles, pregnancy, and menopause, and can occur suddenly and without warning.

Nor does it mean I would even do anything about it. My committment to my partner I take seriously; I dont cheat. And I value my relationship...
Great to hear and congratulations for you!
So I dont know if this is a language barrier, the issue of the reading and interpreting text on the internet, if its because you dont know me irl, if its your personal opinions and beliefs and naivete or what...
I think this case can work nearly always if you think this is the real reason of different opinions or interpretations.

My questions are mainly related to understanding the relations among what you are saying, what you are doing and how you are saying.
but take me at my word please.
But always there is a context and your words gain their final or special meaning in that context otherwise just words.
Thank you for your detailed response, I am really appreciate it.
 
Yes, because it is the Internet and I can't rely on verbal and non verbal communication so I only can get information from videos, pictures and posts of you, but probably this can be the case or "you are taking it seriously".


You can interpret it only that way that your knowledge, experience, cultural and education background and so on make it possible for you.

You are right, it is not necessarily true but the main topic related to the bisexuality because I tried to understand it based on your personal preferences and examples and I interpreted as a Freudian slip in your case or your message was something different with it.


You said you are monogamous in relationship this is why my question related to understand the duality (attraction for women and men) in your case.
Does it mean, you can switch off the feelings for the opposite sex of your partner in a committed relationship?

You partially mentioned the mood.
Just from the internet:



Great to hear and congratulations for you!

I think this case can work nearly always if you think this is the real reason of different opinions or interpretations.

My questions are mainly related to understanding the relations among what you are saying, what you are doing and how you are saying.

But always there is a context and your words gain their final or special meaning in that context otherwise just words.
Thank you for your detailed response, I am really appreciate it.
Right now I am pretty young and not particularly interested in marrying someone (or at least, havent met the person I would marry yet). So I am free to be with whomever. However, I dont just casually have sex...with either men or women. I take it a bit more seriously, or have most times at least, so I would need to go on a few dates before considering that. Yes, I would find it easier to sleep with another woman than a man and have been with more women than men in actuality..at least in terms of "actual sex" and not if you just consider things like kissing or a handjob or whatever..ie just sort of fooling around stuff. But when I am in a relationship, I dont cheat and also if I am in love with the person, and value the relationship, I wouldnt just end the relationship because "meh, I dont like boys anymore, I want to be with a girl"...or similar. Or if that feeling did arise, it has not not yet for me, and dont anticipate that happening
I am single now, so I can go meet someone this week that is male and next week go be with soemone female. It depends on mood, where I am in life, and so on. And I get horny for both men and women throughout the day or week or whatever.
Does it make sense?
 
Right now I am pretty young and not particularly interested in marrying someone (or at least, havent met the person I would marry yet).
That is a really responsible answer!🥰
So I am free to be with whomever. However, I dont just casually have sex...with either men or women. I take it a bit more seriously, or have most times at least, so I would need to go on a few dates before considering that.
I really love to hear it and I proud of you!
Yes, I would find it easier to sleep with another woman than a man
💯
and have been with more women than men in actuality..at least in terms of "actual sex" and not if you just consider things like kissing or a handjob or whatever..ie just sort of fooling around stuff.
This is confirmed my feelings.
But when I am in a relationship, I dont cheat and also if I am in love with the person, and value the relationship, I wouldnt just end the relationship because "meh, I dont like boys anymore, I want to be with a girl"...or similar.
1000x ❤️❤️❤️
I never understood that explanation to switch to gay because there were few not successful relationships with guys.
Or if that feeling did arise, it has not not yet for me, and dont anticipate that happening
I am single now, so I can go meet someone this week that is male and next week go be with soemone female. It depends on mood, where I am in life, and so on.
But it is just dating, it is not commitment and there is no sex.
And I get horny for both men and women throughout the day or week or whatever.
You can masturbate thinking about anyone and everyone.
Does it make sense?
It is absolutely make sense and I really appreciate your time and answers!🥰
 
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