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On that note, I finished this Japanese novel yesterday, Butter, in the plane. About food and a serial killer who likes to cook with butter. I loved it for the combination between foodie stuff, bit of crime and this huge, yet unwritten, erotic undertone. Can recommend.
 
LilKitKat said:
unless I post some photo of myself half naked, people dont engage.
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SpicyBean99 said:
I really relate to this
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Hi girlies 💗 I have no skin in the game (😋) anymore so I don’t mind rubbing these guys the wrong way when I say this -

The more attention, direct responses, and engagement YOU give THEM, the LESS they’ll be inclined to come back to peel back more of your layers.

The reality is that your threads are in the AmPics section, not the Playground - the expectations and engagement are going to be wildly different. The users themselves are wildly different - TRUST ME! Even if there is a small overlap, the connections and interesting conversations are happening there wayyyyyy more than here.

No offence to the AmPics men, I’d rather just be real than placating. Y’all are here to feel something that “regular” porn can’t fix, right? Right. So are we.

@LilKitKat @SpicyBean99 both of you are gorgeous, witty, and bright. AMPics will dim you, not because it isn’t fun, but because it highlights our value in a way that is biased and sinister.

I was never lonelier than when I was sitting at the top of the threads, getting dozens of DMs everytime I logged on, so I get it.

Things are better now and I wouldn’t create my own thread again here. Ifffff I really wanted to, I would take a page out of @morelikeasong or @PrettyLilPussy19 ‘s book in curating a thread focused on discussion, art, and personal thoughts with the occasional and rare opportunity for naughty indulgence on my end.

Ps - I don’t wanna fight with anybody so if I’ve offended anyone, remember I’m just a dumb stupid internet girl 😋 breatheeeeeeeeeeee in and out and move on
 
EvaLane said:
Hi girlies 💗 I have no skin in the game (😋) anymore so I don’t mind rubbing these guys the wrong way when I say this -

The more attention, direct responses, and engagement YOU give THEM, the LESS they’ll be inclined to come back to peel back more of your layers.

The reality is that your threads are in the AmPics section, not the Playground - the expectations and engagement are going to be wildly different. The users themselves are wildly different - TRUST ME! Even if there is a small overlap, the connections and interesting conversations are happening there wayyyyyy more than here.

No offence to the AmPics men, I’d rather just be real than placating. Y’all are here to feel something that “regular” porn can’t fix, right? Right. So are we.

@LilKitKat @SpicyBean99 both of you are gorgeous, witty, and bright. AMPics will dim you, not because it isn’t fun, but because it highlights our value in a way that is biased and sinister.

I was never lonelier than when I was sitting at the top of the threads, getting dozens of DMs everytime I logged on, so I get it.

Things are better now and I wouldn’t create my own thread again here. Ifffff I really wanted to, I would take a page out of @morelikeasong or @PrettyLilPussy19 ‘s book in curating a thread focused on discussion, art, and personal thoughts with the occasional and rare opportunity for naughty indulgence on my end.

Ps - I don’t wanna fight with anybody so if I’ve offended anyone, remember I’m just a dumb stupid internet girl 😋 breatheeeeeeeeeeee in and out and move on
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I hear you girl! Really well said. 👏🏼 🩷

And absolutely no offence taken I’m sure Kit will second that.

However I have to say my experience with AM pics wasn’t always the way it is now, maybe Kit might agree too. When I actually started my own thread it worked perfectly because I believe it sat in the overlap. I could post pictures, enjoy the playful, erotic back and forths, and have proper conversations alongside it. For example I didn’t have to “earn” discussion by being visually provocative first.

I personally don’t think the dynamic is as simple as “the more attention you give them, the less they’ll dig deeper.” What I’ve noticed is that when engagement consistently follows one type of contribution, it trains everyone…posters and lurkers, and commenters on what to prioritise.

I also entirely understand why you wouldn’t open a new thread, however much people would love you too ;)

(Plus this type of conversation/discussion is highly stimulating and will give some litsers food for thought.)
 
SpicyBean99 said:
I hear you girl! Really well said. 👏🏼 🩷

And absolutely no offence taken I’m sure Kit will second that.

However I have to say my experience with AM pics wasn’t always the way it is now, maybe Kit might agree too. When I actually started my own thread it worked perfectly because I believe it sat in the overlap. I could post pictures, enjoy the playful, erotic back and forths, and have proper conversations alongside it. For example I didn’t have to “earn” discussion by being visually provocative first.

I personally don’t think the dynamic is as simple as “the more attention you give them, the less they’ll dig deeper.” What I’ve noticed is that when engagement consistently follows one type of contribution, it trains everyone…posters and lurkers, and commenters on what to prioritise.

I also entirely understand why you wouldn’t open a new thread, however much people would love you too ;)

(Plus this type of conversation/discussion is highly stimulating and will give some litsers food for thought.)
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As a guy responding to the pics - i do see the point. It is easy to be reactive. As my former corporate bosses used to tell me, feedback is a gift, so, since I really like this threat, I can for sure offer my 2 cents to it here. The question for me is, how to get to from => to going, to get back to the sensual dialogue. imho.
 
SpicyBean99 said:
I hear you girl! Really well said. 👏🏼 🩷

And absolutely no offence taken I’m sure Kit will second that.

However I have to say my experience with AM pics wasn’t always the way it is now, maybe Kit might agree too. When I actually started my own thread it worked perfectly because I believe it sat in the overlap. I could post pictures, enjoy the playful, erotic back and forths, and have proper conversations alongside it. For example I didn’t have to “earn” discussion by being visually provocative first.

I personally don’t think the dynamic is as simple as “the more attention you give them, the less they’ll dig deeper.” What I’ve noticed is that when engagement consistently follows one type of contribution, it trains everyone…posters and lurkers, and commenters on what to prioritise.

I also entirely understand why you wouldn’t open a new thread, however much people would love you too ;)

(Plus this type of conversation/discussion is highly stimulating and will give some litsers food for thought.)
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I am also very curious meaning that I will click the link below. On y va!
 
SpicyBean99 said:
For example I didn’t have to “earn” discussion by being visually provocative first.
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Unfortunately, in my experience, that’s because most men have already “conquered” you.

Not in a dominant or possessive way, just… it’s just the way the habit or affliction or addiction continues to spread. Once the mystery and intrigue wear off, they can’t help but look for those same flutters over and over.

I truly don’t believe most men are faking interest, I just think it wanes in ways we internalize and in turn, we feel like our worth has diminished when in reality, it’s the vicious cycle and outcome of consuming this type of content day in and day out.

I DO agree about controlling and navigating the tone of the thread, but there’s only so much you can really do if men who have the ability to be literate have checked out. You’ll just get flooded with “so hot” and “can we see you from the back with a hand spreading you open and a smile while you’re at it, huh babe?”

🤭
 
SpicyBean99 said:
Maybe!

Or perhaps expectations have shifted. When engagement becomes conditioned on a certain type of content, it’s less about being “spoiled” and more about what’s been repeatedly rewarded. If attention reliably follows one kind of post and not another, it’s reasonable to question what’s actually being engaged with. 😏
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Well, given the site's specifics, I wouldn't be surprised by the increased attention to a certain type of content ;)
 
EvaLane said:
Unfortunately, in my experience, that’s because most men have already “conquered” you.

Not in a dominant or possessive way, just… it’s just the way the habit or affliction or addiction continues to spread. Once the mystery and intrigue wear off, they can’t help but look for those same flutters over and over.

I truly don’t believe most men are faking interest, I just think it wanes in ways we internalize and in turn, we feel like our worth has diminished when in reality, it’s the vicious cycle and outcome of consuming this type of content day in and day out.

I DO agree about controlling and navigating the tone of the thread, but there’s only so much you can really do if men who have the ability to be literate have checked out. You’ll just get flooded with “so hot” and “can we see you from the back with a hand spreading you open and a smile while you’re at it, huh babe?”

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I don't know if there's a disconnect between how guys are perceived here or if I might be an over thinker, I wrote a couple of paragraphs but didn't post them because a few of the lines could be taken as pointed rather than philosophical.

I can only speak for my own experience this year, in having changed circumstances and not having as much time to be on lit, I don't know if I'm all that missed, being a guy you just sort of blend into the background I couldn't even guess if many people know that much about me, it seems to work that way both when it's quiet and busy, you're ultimately just one of the guys. In a weird way I guess I've realized being one of the many doesn't lend itself to forming deep relationships on lit.

I'll confess I chopped out a bunch again, I don't expect to find myself thinking about perceptions vs reality today but here we are.

And to the lady who's thread I've thought out loud on, I hope you get what you need from your thread and make it into somewhere you feel comfortable and engaged with again.
 
EvaLane said:
I DO agree about controlling and navigating the tone of the thread, but there’s only so much you can really do if men who have the ability to be literate have checked out. You’ll just get flooded with “so hot” and “can we see you from the back with a hand spreading you open and a smile while you’re at it, huh babe?”

🤭
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This is likely true to some extent on any thread dedicated to sexy pictures. Men are typically very visual creatures, we respond positively to visual stimuli as well as the pointed playful responses. However, this thread and from what I've seen from @SpicyBean99, the discussions aren't strictly sexual in nature. Here, the topics have such a wide range that often aren't sexual at all but there might *at times* seem like there's an overwhelming push for the visual stimuli but in reality, if you browse the pages, often you'll find quite the opposite.

It's kinda like bad interactions, one bad one will tend to stand out more than several positive interactions. Add on top of that any personal insecurities, that nagging voice all of us have telling us we're not good enough. I know at times Kit feels like if she doesn't post something sexual, the thread dies. However, my perception is that the thread tends to pause, waiting for a prompt from Kit. It doesn't necessarily have to be sexual in nature....then the response come flooding back in.

Now, posting sexy pics does bring all of us vultures out circling the fresh meat. We may give similar positive responses that seem generic in nature but that doesn't mean it's any less meaningful or genuine. There's only so many different ways you can say someone is incredibly attractive physically. The best part of the non sexual interactions is that we can show that we find the non sexual parts just as attractive, the real "who you are".

There are definitely a great deal of men on here (lit in general) just looking for instant gratification, the "bend over, spread your cheeks" type, but it's important to take a look at the regular participants to see if you feel like you are actually being appreciated or if you're being taken for granted. Those who truly are friends or followers will continue to do so and appreciate whatever content the thread author chooses to share.
 
ShaneoD said:
In a weird way I guess I've realized being one of the many doesn't lend itself to forming deep relationships on lit.
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This is smart, though. It’s the only way to get actual fulfilment in this fractured, deeply impersonal corner of the internet.

It’s fun, having fun. It’s so much fun!!

Until the fun feels like responsibility, or like appeasing the masses, or like you’re just one of the masses in general - we all wind up burning out one way or another if we stretch ourselves too thin.

I have a ton of empathy and understanding towards both sides of this coin. No one has to be particularly in the wrong for something to feel wrong, yknow?

Jw75766 said:
There are definitely a great deal of men on here (lit in general) just looking for instant gratification, the "bend over, spread your cheeks" type, but it's important to take a look at the regular participants to see if you feel like you are actually being appreciated or if you're being taken for granted. Those who truly are friends or followers will continue to do so and appreciate whatever content the thread author chooses to share.
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Perfectly stated! I totally agree.
 
EvaLane said:
This is smart, though. It’s the only way to get actual fulfilment in this fractured, deeply impersonal corner of the internet.

It’s fun, having fun. It’s so much fun!!

Until the fun feels like responsibility, or like appeasing the masses, or like you’re just one of the masses in general - we all wind up burning out one way or another if we stretch ourselves too thin.

I have a ton of empathy and understanding towards both sides of this coin. No one has to be particularly in the wrong for something to feel wrong, yknow?


Perfectly stated! I totally agree.
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Extremely well said!
 
Jw75766 said:
I know at times Kit feels like if she doesn't post something sexual, the thread dies. However, my perception is that the thread tends to pause, waiting for a prompt from Kit. It doesn't necessarily have to be sexual in nature....then the response come flooding back in.
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@LilKitKat This is the case or I absolutely agree with @Jw75766 .
Personal threads are about the engagement of the owner of the thread and not about the frequency of shared sexual contents even pictures and videos.
It needs the prompt of the owner regularly which is a huge amount of time.
 
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