Like curves, BBWs? See me

[Sensual_Curves]

Hi all!

Very much a newbie here! Stumbled upon the bulletin board a few days ago. I was actually very surprised how many men like BBWs! More like pleasantly surprised. I have had body image issues with being a BBW for a long time, but seeing that some of you embrace BBWs, I decided to take a chance and try to appreciate my curves more and see if I might interest any of you. I am a bit shy because I have never done this and have never really chatted with anyone except for my friends. So I hope you understand my being apprehensive. So I will be learning as I go. Hope you can help!

I guess I should say what I am looking for:
1. Any man who appreciates curvy women.
2. Ages 25-45 - this is a definite must
3. Full head of hair? I don't know if that is mandatory because I like completely bald men too.
4. Average height if not taller.
5. Medium build? This is simply a vague preference. Take it as you will
6. Someone to take it slow with me?

Too much to ask? You tell me.

Thanks for taking the time to read me and away we go!

Oh...one my rules is that I do not cam and I sometimes will exchange pictures if I feel comfortable enough my pictures are not of the naughty kind either.

 

[2TryAnything]

Welcome to Lit. A fair warning for you - expect your PM inbox to be flooded. Lot's of us have unending love for BBWs. I only hope, for your sake, that the plethora of PMs (many of which are going to be pretty aggressive) doesn't frighten you away.

There are a lot of good people here. Have fun with it and ignore the ones who "don't get it".

 

[Sensual_Curves]

Welcome to Lit. A fair warning for you - expect your PM inbox to be flooded. Lot's of us have unending love for BBWs. I only hope, for your sake, that the plethora of PMs (many of which are going to be pretty aggressive) doesn't frighten you away.

There are a lot of good people here. Have fun with it and ignore the ones who "don't get it".

Biting fingernails now....

 

[Prince Albert]

Biting fingernails now....

Welcome; I'm 57 outside our range; but the fetish forum hs some threads yyou might like.

 

[Sensual_Curves]

Welcome; I'm 57 outside our range; but the fetish forum hs some threads yyou might like.

Fetish? Really? Okay. I will check it out and thank you for the welcome!

 

[2TryAnything]

Biting fingernails now....

Not to worry. You'll have a blast, I'm sure!

 

[Nitty5478]

Whats up new sexy bbw on lit

Hope you enjoy the show

 

[Beefplease]

Liking BBWs is a fetish? Thats news to me.

 

[EctoJohn]

This sounds like a ring I'll toss my hat into.

I appreciate curvy women.
I'm 30.
Definitely a full head of hair that isn't going anywhere.
Average height... this one is kind of iffy, I'm only 5'8".
Medium build... can I get by with being chubby but dropping?
I can definitely take it slow if you'd like.

In addition, I'm a great snuggler and can cook well.

 

[Sensual_Curves]

Liking BBWs is a fetish? Thats news to me.

Yeah...I didn't know there was a "fetish" for liking BBWs.

 

[Sensual_Curves]

Okay so I have been reading and playing with all the options and stuff and accidentally locked myself out from Lit (oops). Can someone tell me what a "bump" is and what is the buddy list?

 

[Nitty5478]

Whwn are we going to see

Some beautiful pictures baby

 

[Sensual_Curves]

Some beautiful pictures baby

Who said anything about pictures? I can't I am super, duper shy.

 

[EctoJohn]

Okay so I have been reading and playing with all the options and stuff and accidentally locked myself out from Lit (oops). Can someone tell me what a "bump" is and what is the buddy list?

A "bump" is someone posting in a thread simply for the sake of placing it on the first page of a folder.
Every time someone posts in a topic, it gets placed as the first thread in a folder.
When a topic recieves no replies in a long time, it'll drop down the list, eventually dropping all the way down until it gets placed on Page 2 and beyond.
However, most people are lazy and are only interested in reading topics on Page 1 (since they are usually the most current and relevant).
So people bump topics in order to get them back in people's views.

Usually it's frowned upon, however, to bump a topic that's been long since dead and most people have forgotten about due to inactivity or a lack of current relevance.

If it's done in a thread that's old enough, it's usually referred to as necrobumping. A lot of forums frown upon necrobumping, as it can be done maliciously, bumping threads that are several years old on purpose to drown current threads.

A buddy list is just a list of users that you consider friends that the system will alert you to them being online all in one place.

 

[SoCali69]

hey

i fit all the requirements and i have a wife to share thats a plus

 

[cj200267]

Who said anything about pictures? I can't I am super, duper shy.

Super duper shy? That's some serious shy! This is the place to take some chances, though. You should stroll over to the amateur pic folder and see the support ladies that are also shy get. And saying bbw is a fetish does a disservice to beautiful woman like yourself and the men that appreciate a woman's curves. I have no doubt you're going to have a lot of fun with Lit.

 

[Sensual_Curves]

Super duper shy? That's some serious shy! This is the place to take some chances, though. You should stroll over to the amateur pic folder and see the support ladies that are also shy get. And saying bbw is a fetish does a disservice to beautiful woman like yourself and the men that appreciate a woman's curves. I have no doubt you're going to have a lot of fun with Lit.

Still trying to embrace who I am I guess but thank you for encouragement and will check out the amateur pics. I agree with your comment about that bbw is a fetish is a disservice. Almost sounds disrespectful but maybe it's just me. I am having a great time so far!

 

[cj200267]

Still trying to embrace who I am I guess but thank you for encouragement and will check out the amateur pics. I agree with your comment about that bbw is a fetish is a disservice. Almost sounds disrespectful but maybe it's just me. I am having a great time so far!

I don't think it's meant disrespectfully and refers more to people that have almost tunnel vision toward a particular characteristic, whether it be bbw, small breasts, large breasts, older, younger, etc. Definitely check out the pics section and the ego lift the posters get there.

Continue to have fun and I'll look forward to seeing you around here.

 

[RodenAddison]

Still trying to embrace who I am I guess but thank you for encouragement and will check out the amateur pics. I agree with your comment about that bbw is a fetish is a disservice. Almost sounds disrespectful but maybe it's just me. I am having a great time so far!

Careful. Ecto had the word 'ring' in one of his posts. He's moving awfully fast.

I'm not sure if bbw is a fetish or not. If so, I'd say that the north american 'ideal' of slender women is no less a fetish. Either they both are, or neither are.

Welcome Curves

 

[Sensual_Curves]

A "bump" is someone posting in a thread simply for the sake of placing it on the first page of a folder.
Every time someone posts in a topic, it gets placed as the first thread in a folder.
When a topic recieves no replies in a long time, it'll drop down the list, eventually dropping all the way down until it gets placed on Page 2 and beyond.
However, most people are lazy and are only interested in reading topics on Page 1 (since they are usually the most current and relevant).
So people bump topics in order to get them back in people's views.

Usually it's frowned upon, however, to bump a topic that's been long since dead and most people have forgotten about due to inactivity or a lack of current relevance.

If it's done in a thread that's old enough, it's usually referred to as necrobumping. A lot of forums frown upon necrobumping, as it can be done maliciously, bumping threads that are several years old on purpose to drown current threads.

A buddy list is just a list of users that you consider friends that the system will alert you to them being online all in one place.

Thank you! This information has helped me so much. Much appreciated!

 

[Sensual_Curves]

Careful. Ecto had the word 'ring' in one of his posts. He's moving awfully fast.

I'm not sure if bbw is a fetish or not. If so, I'd say that the north american 'ideal' of slender women is no less a fetish. Either they both are, or neither are.

Welcome Curves

Thank you for the welcome and the warning. Need all the help I can get!

 

[EctoJohn]

Careful. Ecto had the word 'ring' in one of his posts. He's moving awfully fast.

lmao, I was using a variant of an old idiom.

Tossing one's hat into the ring means you'll give it a shot.

http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/throw-your-hat-into-the-ring.html

 

[Sensual_Curves]

lmao, I was using a variant of an old idiom.

Tossing one's hat into the ring means you'll give it a shot.

http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/throw-your-hat-into-the-ring.html

 

[EctoJohn]

You roll your eyes, but it's a common phrase.

 

[shellee72]

Welcome to lit. As a fellow BBW I totally understand your shyness. We might be accepted on this site but out in the world you feel judged. I am working on becoming more comfortable also. Here's a quote I like. It's from a book from Susan Strohnmeyer I think called Cinderella Pact.

"I am and have alway been worthy of great love, no matter how many extra inches of denim is around my thighs.