Like Big Men?

Being a bigger guy (6' around 260), I appreciate this thread and the women that love us. It tends to get very heartbreaking when you hear things like, "You're an amazing person with a wonderful personality, and a great friend, but...." Knowing that but stands for, "You're just not my body type," is a hell of a blow to the ego. It's nice to see there are some women out there that can appreciate us. Makes me feel a lot better about things. :)
 
I wanted to start a thread for people can discuss why some girls do or do not like big men, please ladies and gentlemen, post your thoughts on the subject

For one, I don't have anything against big men. As a matter of fact, I have fucked a few. And to be honest the sex was great. But the first time I was with a big man, I thought everything was going good, until one day he just left...I don't know what I did. But you know what? The man I'm talking about, he lost so much weight now, he doesn't look the same. And when I see him he acts like he doesn't even know me! Ain't that some shit?! But anyways, don't worry, man, the right woman is going to find you. Just you wait!
 
For one, I don't have anything against big men. As a matter of fact, I have fucked a few. And to be honest the sex was great. But the first time I was with a big man, I thought everything was going good, until one day he just left...I don't know what I did. But you know what? The man I'm talking about, he lost so much weight now, he doesn't look the same. And when I see him he acts like he doesn't even know me! Ain't that some shit?! But anyways, don't worry, man, the right woman is going to find you. Just you wait!


thank you, and I'm sorry that you had the unfortunate experience with that man, but not all of us big guys are like that, thank you for the support
 
Just throwing in here. I am 6'6" 350ish lbs, and it is nice to hear from women who actually like big men. I had an experience once that made me understand a little better why some women have trouble with big men. I had a lover for a while that started to get very angry at me, and after some prodding, I was finally able to get her to explain what she was angry about. Apparently, she thought that I was "unfair". I asked her why that was, and she responded that it was unfair that I could be as physically intimidating as I am and also intelligent. She said that there was no way that she could win. Ultimately, our relationship expired, and this seemed to be the reason for it.

So guys, take some solace in the fact that some of those women who didn't want you were actually just self conscious that they couldn't handle that much man. :)
 
Just throwing in here. I am 6'6" 350ish lbs, and it is nice to hear from women who actually like big men. I had an experience once that made me understand a little better why some women have trouble with big men. I had a lover for a while that started to get very angry at me, and after some prodding, I was finally able to get her to explain what she was angry about. Apparently, she thought that I was "unfair". I asked her why that was, and she responded that it was unfair that I could be as physically intimidating as I am and also intelligent. She said that there was no way that she could win. Ultimately, our relationship expired, and this seemed to be the reason for it.

So guys, take some solace in the fact that some of those women who didn't want you were actually just self conscious that they couldn't handle that much man. :)

What an odd excuse from your ex-girlfriend. Personally, I can't think of anything much sexier than an intelligent, physically imposing man.
 
2. Posh has lost her baby weight but considering plastic surgery on saggy tummy

The media are responsible for so many of our hang ups and you know next week they'll be criticising the same people for being too skinny! Or one of the ones they celebrate for being 'curvy' one week will condemned as 'fat' the next. I'm learning to enjoy my body and treat it healthily and in a balanced way, but I deal with so many teenage girls in my job who cry if they're asked not to wear make up because they can't stand the sight of themselves without it. Makes me want to scream.
Sorry for going on, but that mag cover really got to me this morning. Rant over.

First off, Posh is fucking disgusting. Skeletal body and her fake boobs look like someone sewed two soft balls to her chest. Sometimes I wonder if all the shit she had injected into her face doesn't allow her to smile. I've never seen her smile EVER.

But you're right. Society has taught teenagers that you must be stick skinny in order to succeed in life, which is terrible. So many women in America aren't just dieting, but turning to bulemia and anorexia to conquer their problems. Which is downright scary. There are even sites who encourage it. For those women who were able to break out of society's norms, I applaud you. You are just as, if not more, beautiful than anything you see in magazines.

As for me, I'm a big guy. Not 300 pounds, but I do have teddy bear like qualities. And as for my taste in women: I've always liked them thick. More to love. And thicker women make better lovers period. Not because they are desperate, but they simply know what they want in the sack and also love giving back as much as getting.
 
What an odd excuse from your ex-girlfriend. Personally, I can't think of anything much sexier than an intelligent, physically imposing man.

To be fair, we were not in a relationship per se, we were just having sexual relations on occasion, and she also had a massive inferiority complex. I believe a good paraphrase of what she said would be that a big man should be stupid and an intelligent man should be small. That way she could either match him physically or mentally, but to have both was just not fair. This was also back in college, so we were both still figuring out how to live life on our own terms.
 
There is just something so sexy and alluring about a larger man. All the men I have dated have been this way, and it is just such a sexual attraction for me.
 
I know this thread is from awhile back but I wanted to add myself here. I'm a bigger guy (6' and 270#) and like really small women. I just find it so sexy when I feel I can physically protect and control the woman i am with, and small women are easier to do that with. The smallest I ever dated was 5'2" and about 110#.
 
I know this thread is from awhile back but I wanted to add myself here. I'm a bigger guy (6' and 270#) and like really small women. I just find it so sexy when I feel I can physically protect and control the woman i am with, and small women are easier to do that with. The smallest I ever dated was 5'2" and about 110#.
sweet.. i agree totally.
 
I have to say this now. I'm a chick, and I'm 6 feet tall, and not little, so the idea of a guy being bigger than me is exciting. Not all big guys like women who can look them in the eye, and match them physically, which is okay. I'm secure in my womanhood. :)
There are plenty of us who like big guys. So keep looking! She's out there somewhere.
 
Big guys are my weakness! Tall and big is sooo sexy just makes me feel safe and like he wont break! I'm under 5' 4'' so it's not hard to be bigger than me LOL.
 
Though I don't usually go for obese, I do like bigger men. I have only dated/been with one really thin man; to be honest, when I am with someone thin, I feel like I am hugging my brother, who is built like a twig!
I like a man to be bigger than me, usually, with a large chest and large, strong arms, and a bit of a belly.
Though I must admit; I do love all of the sexy muscular eye candy on lit!
 
Though I don't usually go for obese, I do like bigger men. I have only dated/been with one really thin man; to be honest, when I am with someone thin, I feel like I am hugging my brother, who is built like a twig!
I like a man to be bigger than me, usually, with a large chest and large, strong arms, and a bit of a belly.
Though I must admit; I do love all of the sexy muscular eye candy on lit!

You like a lot of things. Lol
 
Glad to see some appreciation for the big guys! I'm 6'3", 300 pounds, size 18EE feet, big hands, big nose...the works!
 
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