Lights on... lights off...???

[ElizabethWest]

Which do you prefer?


Me, I have always been so self-conscious that I preferred lights off. But now that I have lost over 40 pounds, I may change my mind.

 

[sophia jane]

How about a lamp or candlelight?

 

[Quiet_Cool]

Lights on; I like to watch.

Does that make me a voyeur? Or exhibitionist?

Q_C

 

[minsue]

Makes no matter. I love to be able to see the person I'm with, but I ain't picky. Not about sight, at least.

 

[minsue]

Lights on; I like to watch.

Does that make me a voyeur? Or exhibitionist?

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Like to watch - voyeur

Like to be watched - exhibitionist

 

[cheerful_deviant]

Lights on; I like to watch.

Does that make me a voyeur? Or exhibitionist?

A pervert actually.




Personally, I prefer lights off. Not on account of me being uncomfortable about my body. I'm actually in fairlt good shape and I'm not embarassed by my body. (Face is another story. ) I just prefer it in the dark. I feel that taking away from the visual adds to the tactile.

 

[Du Lac]

Lights on... love to be watched and to watch... but blindfolds always lend a fun aspect of delight~
Candles flickering are a fav also watching the shadows bounce off body parts and reveal eyes, mouth etc... creating an old movie version of reality being played out before my eyes.

du lac

 

[Quiet_Cool]

Like to watch - voyeur

Like to be watched - exhibitionist

I know the definitions, but...

Eh, nevermind.

I'll just let fate decide.

*flips a coin,watches it land on its side and sit that way*

Damnit!

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[Virtual_Burlesque]

Lights on, television sound down.

I'm not going to compete with Gilligan and the Skipper.

 

[Guest]

Lights on, television sound down.

I'm not going to compete with Gilligan and the Skipper.

Bwah!!!

 

[herecomestherain]

Soft warm bedside lights, the occasional foray to play in the spotlight in our living room and sleepy in the dark encounters are very nice too. Mostly lights on though.

 

[Guest]

Which do you prefer?

Me, I have always been so self-conscious that I preferred lights off. But now that I have lost over 40 pounds, I may change my mind.

40 pounds? Way to go!!!


I like lights on and lights off, in the shower, over the couch, on the kitchen table, in the water . . .

It isn't a specific thing. Different occasions call for different flavors.

Romance, candlelight, cushions, silk, good jazz and sex toys. That's one.

Shower, bright lights, lathering fun, breathless giggles, busting the shower door. That's another.

Coming home from dinner and drinks, dressed up, groping in the car, teasing and wriggling until he pulls over and you find a quiet spot for a wild quickie before he has an accident. That's one.

Loud classic rock, cold water, fighting the waves, bright sunshine, wild and rough fuck. That's a really good one.


There are times that I feel happier with the size of my butt - ahem - so I am able to be freer with my nudity. And other times I prefer to wear a chemise and robe and have a slithering removal of my attire. And other times I truly love to have wild sex while still half-dressed. It just depends.

Well, this has given me a few ideas. I'm going to go find my husband.

 

[DrFreud]

The lights off, but who cares in the middle of the day.

 

[ElizabethWest]

40 pounds? Way to go!!!

Thanks Sarah.

Now don't be shy, tell us what you really like...

 

[ElizabethWest]

I'll just let fate decide.

Bad idea letting the fates define you.

I'm with CD, I think you're just a perv.

 

[ElizabethWest]

Face is another story.

I hope your woman likes bills and feathers.

 

[ElizabethWest]

Makes no matter. I love to be able to see the person I'm with, but I ain't picky. Not about sight, at least.

I know what you mean.

 

[ElizabethWest]

How about a lamp or candlelight?

If it involves slowly melting candlewax, then I'm there for you.

 

[Quiet_Cool]

The lights off, but who cares in the middle of the day.

Lights on in the middle...

You may not want to let some of these liberals know you're wasting electricity, Doc.

Just a thought.



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P.s. After that comment on this board, if anyone needs me, I'll be hiding in the storm cellar wishing I'd built a bomb shelter instead.

 

[ElizabethWest]

The lights off, but who cares in the middle of the day.

Can you still see me with the lights off?

 

[sophia jane]

If it involves slowly melting candlewax, then I'm there for you.

Really??? I've been wanting to try that.

 

[DrFreud]

Can you still see me with the lights off?

Come closer, baby.

edited to add: heaven is a place you feel, not necessarily see.

 

[ElizabethWest]

Really??? I've been wanting to try that.

Have you heard about low-heat candles?

 

[SlickTony]

Candles, lots of them.

 

[Quiet_Cool]

Really??? I've been wanting to try that.

Candles? Never tried that either. But I could show you some interesting things using a set of edible wax lips...



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